Drag & Fly Tours: Anita Doll’s Five Eras of Palm Springs
The five eras that shaped Palm Springs – from yesterday’s sacred springs to today’s LGBTQ+ mecca – through the eyes of local drag queen Anita Doll. Her Drag & Fly Tour blends history, humor, and high camp aboard Palm Springs’ most fabulous attraction.
Gregory Douglass, Anita Doll & Glen Nadeau
Have you ever gotten Palm Springs history lessons from a drag queen on a tour bus with music videos, trivia, and actual prizes? Because that’s how we roll in the desert these days – literally.
Recently, The Palm Springs Guys experienced the iconic Drag & Fly Tours hosted by Anita Doll and Miss B. Guided (aka Rosemary Galore), and Palm Springs has never been more fabulously educational.
Anita, a former journalist turned storytelling showgirl, guides guests through five distinct eras that shaped Palm Springs into the queer desert utopia it is today – all aboard a luxury “theater on wheels” that turns history into herstory.
Thanks to Anita (a.k.a. JD Cargill), we now have a sassy, smart, and deeply thoughtful breakdown of Palm Springs’ queer-coded history – and as far as we’re concerned, it’s a theory worth considering.
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In the meantime, here is Drag & Fly Tour’s Anita Doll’s five eras of Palm Springs...
Era 1: The Agua Caliente Era (Ancient–19th Century)
Cahuilla people courtesy of the Palm Springs Historical Society
Before the movie stars and muscle gays, the Agua Caliente Band of Cahuilla Indians were the first to call Palm Springs home – for thousands of years before Western settlers. The sacred hot springs were the literal and spiritual lifeblood of this region.
They believed in at least three genders, recognizing a “Two-Spirit” identity long before Westerners caught up. Their worldview instinctively saw gender as non-binary, rooted in spiritual and social balance – which means that this level of Queer wisdom has been around longer than all 1 million seasons of Drag Race.
The spring, still bubbling beneath the luxurious Séc-he Spa, was much more than just a spa day back then. It was survival, spirituality, and sanctuary. The stage was being set for Palm Springs eventually becoming a place of healing, transformation, and deeper connection.
In many ways, this era centers around the healing power of water – a resource so vital that it defined where and how people lived for generations.
Era 2: The Founding Mothers Era (Late 1800s–Early 1900s)
Nellie with her sons Owen and George. Photo courtesy of the Palm Springs Historical Society
The early 1900s gave us the original wellness influencers: a fierce group of women who built guest houses, sanitariums, and health retreats around those mineral-rich waters and our refreshingly dry desert air.
Enter Nellie Coffman (who built the iconic Desert Inn in 1909), Pearl McCallum, Cornelia White, Ruth Hardy, and more. These ladies created what Anita calls the “Girl Power Era,” establishing Palm Springs as a healing hideaway, rooted in the belief that the mineral-rich waters and arid desert air offered therapeutic benefits – especially for those suffering respiratory conditions.
They were building empires before they could vote, honey.
Today, their impact still echoes. The site of the Desert Inn is now home to the Rowan Hotel, and the Marilyn Monroe statue is just a stone throw away – both symbols of modern Palm Springs still standing on historic ground.
Era 3: The Hollywood’s Playground Era (1920s–1960s)
Liberace in Palm Springs
Once word got out about Palm Springs, the stars began to descend. Why? Because Palm Springs was just far enough (100 miles) from Hollywood that paparazzi wouldn't follow. Locals still refer to this as the “100 mile” rule.
Actors were also contractually obligated to still be close enough if they needed to be called into the studio last-minute. Palm Springs was the perfect escape.
Later, once cameras did arrive, the resorts were walled, gated, and gloriously hush-hush. Resorts were discreet, and owners were known for fiercely protecting their guests' privacy.
From the silent film era to the Rat Pack years, Palm Springs became a secret escape for the famous and fabulous during this era: Liberace, Rock Hudson, Truman Capote, Tallulah Bankhead, Marlene Dietrich, Cary Grant, and dozens more.
This was the era of mental health and personal freedom. Queer (but closeted) stars with “career-ending secrets” could live, love, and lounge under the radar – poolside martini in hand. 🍸
Notable venues included El Mirador, Ingleside Inn, the Desert Inn, the Oasis Hotel, and the Racquet Club (where Marilyn Monroe famously caught the eye of her agent).
Era 4: The Modernism Era (1940s–1970s)
The Sinatra House History with Piano Shaped Swimming Pool
Eventually, Hollywood’s elite stopped renting and started building.
As stars like Frank Sinatra and Bob Hope began buying and building homes, they hired the top architects of the day (now known as the Modern Masters – Albert Frey, Donald Wexler, William Krisel) to design custom homes that mirrored their liberated lives.
It was all about clean lines, indoor-outdoor living, and a fresh way of thinking – modernism as metaphor. Open floor plans met open sexuality, and a new aesthetic was born. Modernism symbolized freedom of thought and lifestyle – again tying back to health in terms of creative and personal expression.
The stars settled in, and the culture of design, art, and inclusivity blossomed. Even behind the scenes, queer influence shaped Palm Springs’ look and feel.
So next time you’re touring a MCM house in Palm Springs, remember that you’re walking through decades of queer-forward design thinking.
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Era 5: The Queer Era (1980s–Present)
Then came the 1980s. A dark time, indeed – but also one of resilience.
As AIDS devastated our community, many sick gay men came to Palm Springs seeking the same healing energy their predecessors had. Gay men from San Francisco who were HIV+ had nowhere else to turn because the only hospitals who would treat them were here in Palm Springs. They essentially came here to die – and be cared for with dignity until then.
This marked the beginning of Desert AIDS Project (now DAP Health) – and from there, something powerful bloomed.
Palm Springs became a safe haven for the LGBTQ+ community. Over the decades, a chosen family gathered: survivors, lovers, best friends, and allies. Now, it’s a place where representation reigns – from KGAY 106.5 FM to rainbow crosswalks and a majority-LGBTQ city council.
Today, inclusivity is a lifestyle here in Palm Springs: The city is now a global queer mecca, where identity is celebrated, and the healing, expression, and liberation continues.
The Common Thread: Health
As Anita brilliantly summarizes, health is the throughline across all five eras:
The Agua Caliente: Water as sacred life force
Founding Mothers: Wellness retreats in the healing desert air
Hollywood: Emotional and mental refuge
Modernism: Design as freedom of thought and spirit
Queer Era: Healing and community through crisis and recovery
Why You Belong Here, Too
Anita Doll’s Drag & Fly Tours
Whether it’s the sacred wisdom of the Agua Caliente or the fierce resilience of the queer community during the AIDS crisis, Palm Springs has always been a place of transformation, freedom, and healing – especially for those of us seeking to live our best gay lives. And thanks to Anita Doll’s Drag & Fly Tours, this rich history is now more accessible and entertaining than ever.
So, if you're planning a visit (and you absolutely should), add this drag queen-hosted joyride to your must-do list. Between the sunshine, the architecture, the pool parties, and now the most fabulous sightseeing tour on wheels, Palm Springs proves again and again that there’s nowhere quite like it.
What’s your favorite piece of Palm Springs queer history? Share your experiences!
If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like:
Curious About Buying, Selling, or Relocating?
In addition to being one half of The Palm Springs Guys – Glen Nadeau is one of Palm Springs’ top-producing Realtors, known for his no-pressure approach, deep market expertise, and genuine commitment to his clients.
A member of The Caldwell & Linger Group – ranked a Top Real Estate Team by Palm Springs Life Magazine – Glen is also backed by COMPASS, which remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country. Glen takes great pride in knowing that his clients are in such good hands.
“Hospitality is what drives me because helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves.”
Visit Modern Living Palm Springs, or reach out to me directly. Ask me anything – I promise to give you much more support than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.
Your Palm Springs Insider,
Glen Nadeau (pronounced “Ned-oh” as in “meadow”)
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5 Things We Always Tell Gay Friends Visiting Palm Springs for the First Time
Planning your first Palm Springs gaycation? Here are 5 things we always tell our gay friends visiting Palm Springs for the first time – insider vacation tips on weather, nightlife, resorts, and embracing your fabulous self.
We’ve lived in Palm Springs for five years now, and let us tell you – there’s simply nowhere else quite like it. If you’re a gay man looking to live your best vacation fantasy (and maybe even flirt with the idea of staying for good), Palm Springs is the sun-soaked, speedo-clad, cocktail-in-hand escape of your dreams.
Palm Springs isn’t just gay-friendly – it’s practically gay-designed. From the moment you land, the mountains flirt with you, the boys wink at you, and the warm desert breeze whispers, “Take off your shirt, sexy.”
Whether you're coming to party, relax, explore, connect, or disconnect, here are the 5 things we always tell our gay friends before their first visit.
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1. Yes, it’s hot here in the desert – but it’s not like how you imagine.
Here’s the truth: desert heat hits differently. If you’re coming from a humid place like NYC or DC, 80° there feels like 110°. But here, a dry 105° can actually feel... dare we say... refreshing. Or at least comfortable.
That said, don’t get cocky about it. The sun is strong, the booze is stronger, and the dehydration is real. Hydrate often (we love a reusable water bottle), layer on that SPF, and bring a fan you can snap open for dramatic effect (yaass, Queen).
Pro Tips:
Do your hiking, brunching, or grocery shopping early.
Head indoors mid-afternoon – think Palm Springs Art Museum exploration, or a stylish air-conditioned nap.
Take the Aerial Tramway to escape the heat – temps up there can be 20° cooler (and the views are magnificent)!
With more pools per capita than anywhere in the country, take a dip – day or night.
2. You’ll feel more seen here than anywhere else you’ve been – so embrace it.
Palm Springs is proudly over 40% LGBTQ+. That means wherever you go – whether it’s the farmer’s market, a drag brunch, or Trader Joe’s – you’ll feel like you belong here.
Don’t hold back. Hold hands. Rock the mesh tank. Flirt with strangers. Be the main character at brunch. Whether you’re 25 or 75 – a twink, a bear, or a daddy – you’re part of the tapestry here.
From our local government and police force to our local businesses and eateries – there’s something magical and deeply healing about being in a town where your queerness is celebrated.
3. Most of our resorts for men-only are clothing-optional – but that doesn’t mean what you think.
Yes, most of our resorts for men-only clothing-optional. But that can mean different things depending on where you stay.
Looking for a relaxed, classy vibe with a friendly crowd? Start with Santiago Resort – perfect for first-timers. Ready to crank up the steam? Casa Oliver brings the heat (and then some).
Etiquette 101:
Be yourself, but embrace the opportunity to be as free as you’d like.
Keep your phone to yourself (no photos!).
Respect everyone’s vibe – friendships and flings happen naturally.
And who knows? That stranger in the hot tub might just become your new bestie. It happens all the time here.
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4. Check out the theme parties – but pace yourself!
Palm Springs nightlife comes to life when a good theme calls. At Tool Shed, underwear night is always a popular weekly attraction. Be sure to wear your sexiest jock strap and leather harness for this – or make a pit stop at Gear Leather & Fetish next door.
Pro tip: the “Palm Springs pour” is not for amateurs. One drink here is often a double (and it’s still 90° outside), so sip wisely, gurrrl.
After Dark Suggestions:
Start at Tool Shed or Dicks on Arenas
Dance it out at Chill Bar or Quadz in the Arenas district after, or…
If you're in the mood for more... Club 541 (Palm Springs’ new sex club) is across the street.
Take a Lyft or Uber. Nobody looks cute getting a DUI in a harness.
5. During in-season (September–May), make those dinner reservations in advance – and leave time for a disco nap.
Palm Springs is a seasonal lady – and when she’s in-season, everyone’s out. Tables book up fast, especially at hot spots like:
Bar Cecil (try booking 1–2 months out!)
Clandestino, Lola Rose, and Ponzu are also go-to faves.
Shows, concerts, and drag revues can start early (7 or 8 PM), but the bars don’t start hopping until 9 or 10. Our advice is to plan ahead for dinner, take a disco nap, then head out looking rested and radiant.
Why Gay Palm Springs Is Always a Good Idea
Year-round sunshine, breathtaking desert views, and one of the most welcoming LGBTQ+ communities in the world? Yes, please.
From chill pool days to wild theme nights, from world-class dining to once-in-a-lifetime friendships, Palm Springs invites you to strip off the expectations, dive into freedom, and just… be exactly who you are inside and out. You’ll come alive here.
If you could give one piece of advice to a gay friend visiting PS for the first time, what would it be? What surprised you most during your first visit to Palm Springs? Share your experiences!
If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs, Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs, and Santiago, Descanso & Twin Palms Resorts: A Three-Way Comparison.
Curious About Buying, Selling, or Relocating?
Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.
In addition to being one half of The Palm Springs Guys – Glen Nadeau is one of Palm Springs’ top-producing Realtors, known for his no-pressure approach, deep market expertise, and genuine commitment to his clients.
A member of The Caldwell & Linger Group – ranked a Top Real Estate Team by Palm Springs Life Magazine – Glen is also backed by COMPASS, which remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country. Glen takes great pride in knowing that his clients are in such good hands.
“Hospitality is what drives me because helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves.”
Visit Modern Living Palm Springs, or reach out to me directly. Ask me anything – I promise to give you much more support than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.
Your Palm Springs Insider,
Glen Nadeau (pronounced “Ned-oh” as in “meadow”)
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Palm Springs’ Resources for LA Fire Victims: A Safe Haven for the LGBTQ Community
Local assistance and resources in Palm Springs for those affected by the Los Angeles fires. We’re here to help victims find refuge and rebuild – especially members of the LGBTQ+ community seeking a supportive environment during this challenging time.
The devastating Los Angeles fires have forced many to flee their homes, leaving them in search of shelter, resources, and a supportive community. Palm Springs is opening its arms, offering a sanctuary for those affected. As a vibrant and inclusive city with a rich history of helping others in need, Palm Springs stands ready to provide assistance — especially for members of the LGBTQ+ community seeking a supportive environment during this challenging time.
This article compiles vital resources for fire victims, from emergency housing and pet care to healthcare and financial aid. Whether you’re seeking refuge or looking for ways to help, this guide is a comprehensive resource for navigating these challenging times.
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know!
Emergency Housing in Palm Springs
Hotels Offering Special Rates for Fire Victims
Palm Springs’ hospitality community is offering discounted accommodations to those displaced by the fires. Below are participating hotels:
The Saguaro Palm Springs: Promo Code: CALOCAL (760) 323-1711
Hilton Palm Springs: Promo Code: PFF (760) 320-6868
Rowan Palm Springs: (760) 904-5015
Avalon Hotel Palm Springs: (760) 318-3012
Ingleside Estate: (760) 325-0046
The Dunes Hotel: (760) 656-0021
Hotel Zoso: (760) 325-9676
Stardust Hotel: (760) 460-6845
La Serena Villas: (844) 932-8044
Amin Casa Historic Hotel and Gardens: (760) 507-1301
Inn at Palm Springs: (888) 788-8466
Los Arboles Hotel Palm Springs: (760) 459-3605
The Royal Sun Palm Springs: (760) 794-7991
The Muse Hotel: (760) 537-6411
For additional accommodation options across the Coachella Valley, visit Greater Palm Springs LA Fire Relief Offers.
Pet Care for Evacuees
Palm Springs Animal Shelter
If you’ve evacuated with pets, Palm Springs Animal Shelter provides essential supplies like pet food, leashes, crates, and more. Visit during open hours for assistance.
Address: 4575 Mesquite Ave., Palm Springs, CA 92264
Phone: (760) 416-5718
Website: psanimalshelter.org
Healthcare and LGBTQ+ Support Services
The LGBTQ Center of the Desert
Providing a safe and welcoming environment, the LGBTQ Center offers counseling, support groups, and other resources tailored to the LGBTQ+ community.
Website: thecentercv.org
Desert Care Network – LGBTQ Support Services
Offering inclusive healthcare services to meet the unique needs of the LGBTQ+ community in Greater Palm Springs.
Website: desertcarenetwork.com
Gay Desert Guide
This comprehensive directory lists LGBTQ-owned and friendly businesses across the Coachella Valley.
Website: gaydesertguide.com
Financial Assistance and Donations
FEMA Assistance
Federal assistance is available for fire victims. Apply directly through FEMA.
Application Link: fema.gov
California Fire Foundation
Donations to the Wildfire and Disaster Relief Fund directly support victims.
Donate: California Fire Foundation
GoFundMe Wildfire Relief Hub
Browse verified fundraising pages for wildfire victims and donate directly.
Website: GoFundMe Wildfire Relief
Direct Relief
This California-based organization provides medical supplies and N95 masks to affected residents.
Salvation Army – Southern California Division
Providing shelter, food, and personal necessities for fire victims.
Community Contributions: How You Can Help
If you’re looking to support fire victims, here are several ways to contribute:
Volunteer or Donate to the American Red Cross
Foster animals through Pasadena Humane (Sign up here)
Participate in local donation drives and fundraisers (LA Times Full List)
Navigating the Road to Recovery
Action Plans for Fire Victims
Donna Granata, a fire survivor, shared a helpful Facebook post outlining essential steps for victims:
View Post: Donna Granata Facebook Post
Wildfire Resources Spreadsheet
An extensive list of resources compiled by the Rose Gallery/Malan team:
Access Here: Wildfire Resources Spreadsheet
Palm Springs Safe Haven
In times of tragedy, Palm Springs is a safe haven of compassion and support. Whether you’re seeking temporary shelter, pet care, healthcare, or simply a warm community, Palm Springs is here to welcome you with open arms. The Palm Springs Guys are here to connect you with the resources you need to feel safe, supported, and at home.
You have friends in Palm Springs!
How Palm Springs Became the Safest LGBTQ+ Place in America
Discover why LGBTQ+ Americans are flocking to Palm Springs – a vibrant oasis where safety, inclusivity, and community meet. Explore the city’s rich LGBTQ+ culture, supportive infrastructure, and investment opportunities from our local gay perspective.
When the world feels more like a bad sequel than a hopeful reboot, LGBTQ+ Americans are doing what they do best – securing their promising futures. Enter Palm Springs, California, a city so welcoming it will greet you with a Pride flag and a martini as soon as you arrive. This desert oasis has become our fulltime home – and it’s the place to be right now for those looking to combine safety, community, and endless sunshine.
Here’s why gay men and the broader LGBTQ+ community are packing their bags for Palm Springs faster than they can say, “Get me the F**K out of here!”
A Safe Haven in Tumultuous Times
It’s no secret that political turbulence has left many LGBTQ+ individuals questioning their safety. With threats like Project 2025 looming and human rights hanging in the balance, finding a sanctuary isn’t just a luxury – it’s a necessity.
Palm Springs shines as a beacon of hope now more than ever. Nearly 40% of the city’s population identifies as LGBTQ+, making it truly one of the most inclusive places in America. Here, you’re not just tolerated – you are embraced and celebrated.
A City That Says ‘No’ to Hate (and Yes to Drag!)
While many places in the U.S. are entangled in debates over LGBTQ+ rights, Palm Springs is busy doubling down on inclusivity. Case in point? The City of Palm Springs recently declared itself a sanctuary for drag performers – a bold move that screams in response to drag bans as, “Not here, not ever.”
Between local government and police force, our city's local leadership is unapologetically progressive, prioritizing policies that protect residents and foster a sense of belonging.
The Heart of LGBTQ+ History and Culture
Palm Springs is steeped in LGBTQ+ history that’s as rich as its present culture. From historical landmarks to art galleries and museums, the city celebrates its roots in ways that keep the spirit of resilience alive.
Even events like Palm Springs Pride festival and the legendary White Party take things up a notch, blending activism and celebration seamlessly. Living here is safe and downright joyful. And in case you’re wondering, yes, you can wear your short shorts at the grocery store.
Supportive Infrastructure Tailored to You
Safety is about acceptance and resources. Palm Springs delivers with a slew of LGBTQ+ organizations like The LGBTQ Center of the Desert, offering everything from mental health services to social engagement opportunities. Whether you’re seeking a sense of community or just someone to rave about the new season of Drag Race with, you’ll find it here.
Plus, local businesses go the extra mile to ensure inclusivity, from healthcare providers like DAP Health who understand your needs to boutique hotels that cater to your lifestyle.
Investing in Your Future: The Real Estate Advantage
Now, let’s talk dollars and cents – because safety and inclusivity aside, Palm Springs is a smart financial move too. Real estate in inclusive cities is in demand, and Palm Springs is no exception. Buying property here is both an investment in your peace of mind and in your future.
From mid-century modern masterpieces to cozy desert retreats, the city’s housing market offers something for every taste. And let’s be real – your Zoom meetings will hit differently working remotely from somewhere you love (and with a palm tree backdrop).
Make the Move, Gurrrlll
If you’re curious to learn more about our vibrant LGBTQ+ community here in Palm Springs, check out our other articles 10 Welcoming Neighborhoods: Why Palm Springs Should Be Your Next Home and Palm Springs LGBTQ+ Community: What You Need To Know.
Palm Springs is a place where you can be yourself unapologetically, surrounded by a community that lifts you up and celebrates your journey. Whether you’re looking for safety, connection, or the perfect spot for a pool party – Palm Springs has it all. Your best gay life awaits you here…
What other questions do you have?
Consider an experienced and knowledgeable local realtor (like me) to help you make sense of things.
If you’re ready to buy and/or sell yourself, I look forward to assisting you. I promise to give you a much more targeted answer than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.
Please feel free to give me a call, text, email me – or let’s schedule a Zoom meeting.
I’m looking forward to connecting with you!
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Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs
Indulge in ultimate relaxation at the top gay men's spas in Palm Springs. Rejuvenate with luxurious treatments, stunning settings, and the best places to unwind in desert paradise. We are a gay man’s guide to living your best gay life in Palm Springs.
Palm Springs is the ultimate desert oasis for gay men seeking fun, relaxation, and fun. Whether you're planning a weekend getaway or a longer retreat, there are so many gay men's spas and resorts to help you unwind that our fabulous city has to offer. Palm Springs is known for its warm weather, endless sunshine, stunning landscapes, and welcoming atmosphere. We’ve got a variety of luxurious spa and massage experiences for everyone under the sun – and lucky for us, many of them cater specifically to gay men.
What are your favorite spas and resorts for gay men here in Palm Springs?
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this post, please email us and let us know.
In the meantime, here are our votes on the Best Gay Men's Spas in Palm Springs!
But first… Spa and Massage Etiquette
It’s important you understand the spectrum of experiences here in Gay Palm Springs when you’re getting pampered. Some say that anything goes here, but don’t just assume that because your massage therapist (for example) is super hot and his touch is even hotter that your massage will result in a happy ending. Just as is the case in cruising culture, you must always carry a mutual respect with everyone you come into contact with. Massage services are professional services. Of course, every “professional” has rules of their own, but always assume you are in good professional hands and be careful not to cross any lines. Now, just take a deep breath in… And relax ;)
Top Spas and Massages in Palm Springs for Gay Men
Men's Wellness Retreat
Palm Springs Men's Wellness Retreat is an exclusive massage spa designed by men for men located in downtown Palm Springs. It offers peaceful private treatment rooms as well as an upscale wet room with a table shower. Luxury products including coconut oil, wine scrubs, milk scrubs, and professional large size massage tables for additional comfort are part of their services. They also offer their services at the most competitive rates in downtown Palm Springs.
Men's Grooming Spot
The only complete men’s spa in the Coachella Valley, Men's Grooming Spot is the destination for men to relax, recoup, renew, and just be. Their spa services are specialized to provide men with a well-rounded experience, ensuring that every visit is a pampering one.
Palm Springs Gay Massage
Pamper yourself with a soothing and rejuvenating massage at Palm Springs Gay Massage. Services include massage therapy, Swedish massage, deep tissue massage, and sensual massage to soothe tight muscles and relieve stress. They also offer same-day appointments and gay massage services seven days a week.
Gay Wellness
Gay Wellness is an online platform that connects clients with quality gay massage therapists and wellness practitioners. More than just a directory, Gay Wellness is a hub for connection and wellness in a friendly, safe, and inclusive environment.
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Top Gay Saunas and Bathhouses in Palm Springs for Gay Men
Palm Springs is a unique destination when it comes to its sex-positive offerings. You won’t find traditional gay bathhouses or gay saunas here (yet) like you might find in bigger cities. Instead, these types of amenities and play areas are infused into our many fabulous boutique resorts for men-only – all of which are clothing-optional (aka swimsuit-optional), and some of which even offer day passes and night passes for those who are more interested to play vs. stay (keep reading)…
That said, it’s worth a pit-stop at CLUB541 – Palm Springs’ newest (and hottest) sex club. It’s the ultimate playground for gay men seeking a thrilling, sex-positive adventure when the sun goes down. Check out our CLUB541: Discover Palm Springs' Newest Sex Club article to learn more about it.
Top Spa Resorts in Palm Springs for Gay Men
Santiago Resort
Located in the heart of Palm Springs, Santiago Resort is an exclusive boutique hotel for gay men. Staying at Santiago feels like a never ending spa day. The resort's serene atmosphere and top-notch service make it a must-visit for those looking to unwind in luxury. Check out their brother properties Twin Palms Resort and Descanso Resort for an equally pampered and luxurious stay.
The Hacienda at Warm Sands
This dreamy gay resort is landscaped with palms and backed by the stunning San Jacinto Mountains. The Hacienda offers a tranquil spa experience designed to help you unwind and relax. It's the perfect spot for those seeking a peaceful retreat.
Desert Paradise Gay Men’s Resort
Desert Paradise is aptly named, offering a wonderful escape with excellent spa-like amenities. Guests rave about the superb staff and the relaxing pool area, making it a perfect destination for those looking to unwind in comfort and style.
CCBC Resort Hotel
CCBC Resort Hotel is more than just a place to stay and play – it's an experience. This all-men’s resort features spa-like amenities and play areas. The resort's cruisy social scene and relaxing atmosphere make it a must-visit for any curious gay traveler. They even offer day passes.
All Worlds Resort
Known for its cruisy vibe and welcoming community, All Worlds Resort also offers spa-like amenities and both indoor and outdoor maze play areas. They offer day passes as well, so be sure to check things out at your leisure.
Top Spas and Massages in Palm Springs for Everyone
The Spa at Séc-he
Recognized as the top spa in the U.S. for 2023, The Spa at Séc-he is a premier spa complex spanning over 73,000 square feet, renowned for its state-of-the-art treatments and therapies in a tranquil environment. It features 15 treatment rooms offering massages, facials, and body treatments, ensuring a holistic spa experience. Located at the Agua Caliente Cultural Plaza in the heart of Palm Springs, the spa blends rich heritage with healing treatments and luxurious amenities, including men's and women's bathhouses, a salon, fitness room, and outdoor mineral pools.
The Spa at Colony Palms
If you love a good White Lotus aesthetic as much as we do, The Spa at Colony Palms is a delightful sanctuary that will make you feel like you’re on set with Jennifer Cooliage. They offer luxurious treatments to relax your muscles, purify your body, and rejuvenate your spirit. Their spa menu includes a wide range of restorative massages, invigorating body wraps, and refreshing facials. Utilizing contemporary therapies, their holistic treatments are crafted to provide a tranquil experience and invigorate the senses. They carefully select natural, organic tools and products to ensure an exceptional experience.
Azure Palm Hot Springs Resort & Day Spa
Located just outside of town, Azure is a newer place to experience the desert’s legendary restorative hot springs. The star of this modern adults-only facility is the oversized outdoor pool filled with warm, soft, and odorless mineral water, plus two indoor and two outdoor spa pools naturally heated to different temperatures. Purchase a day pass to enjoy the spring-fed pools, cedar sauna, and relaxing lounging areas. Book a reasonably priced massage or mud wrap and receive complimentary admission to the mineral pools for the day of your treatment.
Come Visit Us in Gay Palm Springs
Visiting Gay Palm Springs is a fabulous idea for countless reasons. With year-round sunshine, a rich cultural scene, and a welcoming community, it's the perfect destination for making new friends and lasting connections. Whether you're here for the spas, the nightlife, or the stunning desert landscapes, Palm Springs offers something for every gay traveler. So pack your bags, book your spa appointments, and get ready to relax and rejuvenate in one of the most vibrant and inclusive destinations in the world.