5 Things We Always Tell Gay Friends Visiting Palm Springs for the First Time
Planning your first Palm Springs gaycation? Here are 5 things we always tell our gay friends visiting Palm Springs for the first time – insider vacation tips on weather, nightlife, resorts, and embracing your fabulous self.
We’ve lived in Palm Springs for five years now, and let us tell you – there’s simply nowhere else quite like it. If you’re a gay man looking to live your best vacation fantasy (and maybe even flirt with the idea of staying for good), Palm Springs is the sun-soaked, speedo-clad, cocktail-in-hand escape of your dreams.
Palm Springs isn’t just gay-friendly – it’s practically gay-designed. From the moment you land, the mountains flirt with you, the boys wink at you, and the warm desert breeze whispers, “Take off your shirt, sexy.”
Whether you're coming to party, relax, explore, connect, or disconnect, here are the 5 things we always tell our gay friends before their first visit.
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know (and let us know why)!
1. Yes, it’s hot here in the desert – but it’s not like how you imagine.
Here’s the truth: desert heat hits differently. If you’re coming from a humid place like NYC or DC, 80° there feels like 110°. But here, a dry 105° can actually feel... dare we say... refreshing. Or at least comfortable.
That said, don’t get cocky about it. The sun is strong, the booze is stronger, and the dehydration is real. Hydrate often (we love a reusable water bottle), layer on that SPF, and bring a fan you can snap open for dramatic effect (yaass, Queen).
Pro Tips:
Do your hiking, brunching, or grocery shopping early.
Head indoors mid-afternoon – think Palm Springs Art Museum exploration, or a stylish air-conditioned nap.
Take the Aerial Tramway to escape the heat – temps up there can be 20° cooler (and the views are magnificent)!
With more pools per capita than anywhere in the country, take a dip – day or night.
2. You’ll feel more seen here than anywhere else you’ve been – so embrace it.
Palm Springs is proudly over 40% LGBTQ+. That means wherever you go – whether it’s the farmer’s market, a drag brunch, or Trader Joe’s – you’ll feel like you belong here.
Don’t hold back. Hold hands. Rock the mesh tank. Flirt with strangers. Be the main character at brunch. Whether you’re 25 or 75 – a twink, a bear, or a daddy – you’re part of the tapestry here.
From our local government and police force to our local businesses and eateries – there’s something magical and deeply healing about being in a town where your queerness is celebrated.
3. Most of our resorts for men-only are clothing-optional – but that doesn’t mean what you think.
Yes, most of our resorts for men-only clothing-optional. But that can mean different things depending on where you stay.
Looking for a relaxed, classy vibe with a friendly crowd? Start with Santiago Resort – perfect for first-timers. Ready to crank up the steam? Casa Oliver brings the heat (and then some).
Etiquette 101:
Be yourself, but embrace the opportunity to be as free as you’d like.
Keep your phone to yourself (no photos!).
Respect everyone’s vibe – friendships and flings happen naturally.
And who knows? That stranger in the hot tub might just become your new bestie. It happens all the time here.
4. Check out the theme parties – but pace yourself!
Palm Springs nightlife comes to life when a good theme calls. At Tool Shed, underwear night is always a popular weekly attraction. Be sure to wear your sexiest jock strap and leather harness for this – or make a pit stop at Gear Leather & Fetish next door.
Pro tip: the “Palm Springs pour” is not for amateurs. One drink here is often a double (and it’s still 90° outside), so sip wisely, gurrrl.
After Dark Suggestions:
Start at Tool Shed or Dicks on Arenas
Dance it out at Chill Bar or Quadz in the Arenas district after, or…
If you're in the mood for more... Club 541 (Palm Springs’ new sex club) is across the street.
Take a Lyft or Uber. Nobody looks cute getting a DUI in a harness.
5. During in-season (September–May), make those dinner reservations in advance – and leave time for a disco nap.
Palm Springs is a seasonal lady – and when she’s in-season, everyone’s out. Tables book up fast, especially at hot spots like:
Bar Cecil (try booking 1–2 months out!)
Clandestino, Lola Rose, and Ponzu are also go-to faves.
Shows, concerts, and drag revues can start early (7 or 8 PM), but the bars don’t start hopping until 9 or 10. Our advice is to plan ahead for dinner, take a disco nap, then head out looking rested and radiant.
Why Gay Palm Springs Is Always a Good Idea
Year-round sunshine, breathtaking desert views, and one of the most welcoming LGBTQ+ communities in the world? Yes, please.
From chill pool days to wild theme nights, from world-class dining to once-in-a-lifetime friendships, Palm Springs invites you to strip off the expectations, dive into freedom, and just… be exactly who you are inside and out. You’ll come alive here.
If you could give one piece of advice to a gay friend visiting PS for the first time, what would it be? What surprised you most during your first visit to Palm Springs? Share your experiences!
If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs, Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs, and Santiago, Descanso & Twin Palms Resorts: A Three-Way Comparison.
Curious About Buying, Selling, or Relocating?
Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.
In addition to being one half of The Palm Springs Guys – Glen Nadeau is one of Palm Springs’ top-producing Realtors, known for his no-pressure approach, deep market expertise, and genuine commitment to his clients.
A member of The Caldwell & Linger Group – ranked a Top Real Estate Team by Palm Springs Life Magazine – Glen is also backed by COMPASS, which remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country. Glen takes great pride in knowing that his clients are in such good hands.
“Hospitality is what drives me because helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves.”
Visit Modern Living Palm Springs, or reach out to me directly. Ask me anything – I promise to give you much more support than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.
Your Palm Springs Insider,
Glen Nadeau (pronounced “Ned-oh” as in “meadow”)
📱 Call or Text: 805-220-8097
📨 Email: glen.nadeau@compass.com
🔎My Google Business Reviews ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Ultimate Guide to 2025 Gay Summer Pool Parties in Palm Springs
Planning your summer escape to Palm Springs? Dive into the ultimate guide to 2025 gay pool parties in Palm Springs, featuring every splash-worthy LGBTQ+ event with sizzling poolside vibes happening this season.
If you’re a gay man looking for the ultimate summer escape, there’s no better destination than Palm Springs. It’s where endless sunshine meets shirtless freedom, where poolside fantasies become sun-drenched realities, and where the social calendar is bursting with pool parties hotter than the desert pavement in July.
Welcome to your Ultimate Guide to 2025 Gay Summer Pool Parties in Palm Springs – because in this town, the only thing that should be dry is your martini. 🍸
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you love it too)!
Pro tip: check out all the Facebook Groups here in Palm Springs that cater to gay men for tips on additional private or invite-only parties happening throughout the summer as well.
In the meantime, here’s your one-stop splash zone. Bookmark it. Share it. Pack your sexiest speedos. 🩲💦
June 2025
Madd Men in the Pool – Father’s Day
June 15, 2025 | The Shag House
A sexy celebration of daddies and the men who love them.Tidal Wave Weekend Pool Events
June 18–22, 2025 | Various Locations
Think bears, bubbles, and barely-there swimsuits.Funshine Pool Party
June 21, 2025 | Hotel Zōsō
Sun, beats, and beautiful bodies at one of the most iconic pool decks in town.Splash & Slay: Drag Brunch at the Surf Club
June 29, 2025 | Palm Springs Surf Club
Where the Queens serve lewks and the drinks flow freely.Adult Night Swim Saturdays at PSSC
Saturdays (June 28-Aug 30, 2025) | Palm Springs Surf Club
LGBTQ-friendly after-dark DJ vibes and moonlit wave pool lounging.
July 2025
QUE CALOR Pool Party ft. Desert Studs
July 5, 2025 | The Velvet Rope Palm Springs
Spicy Latin beats, speedos, and the Desert Studs.
Ongoing Throughout The Summer
Casa Oliver Sunday Poolside Socials
Loverboy Sundays | Casa Oliver Hotel
Clothing optional, poolside DJ vibes with Go Go Dancers, indoor & outdoor mazes 😈CCBC Resort Pool Parties
Ongoing | CCBC Resort, Cathedral City
Clothing optional, ongoing parties 😈GED Magazine Pool Parties
Summer Dates TBA | Various Hotels | GED Magazine Events
When the city’s favorite gay mag throws a party, you show up.Gorilla Gay Bar
Ongoing | Palm Springs
Pool parties & various events popping up all over town!
Fall/Winter 2025 Highlights
PS Leather Pride Pool Mixers
Oct 30 – Nov 2, 2025 | Hotel Zōsō & more
Poolside + harness = yes please.Palm Springs Pride Pool Parties (HEAT)
Nov 6–9, 2025 | Hotel Zōsō
Pride, poolside, and perfectly Palm Springs.
Why Visiting Gay Palm Springs Is Always a Fabulous Idea
Palm Springs isn’t just a year-round destination – it’s a lifestyle. With 350+ days of sunshine, world-class mid-century modern charm, and a famously vibrant gay scene, this desert oasis is the kind of place where you come for the pool party and stay for the community. Whether you're making lifelong friends over mimosas or spontaneous connections in a heated pool, Palm Springs is a place where gay men of all ages, shapes & sizes are embraced, celebrated, and invited to be exactly who they are.
First-timer or seasoned splash-goer – what’s your top tip for making the most of a Palm Springs pool party? Share your experiences!
If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs, The Best Sex Shops and Adult Play Gear for Gay Men in Palm Springs, and Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs.
Curious About Buying, Selling, or Relocating?
In addition to being one half of The Palm Springs Guys – Glen Nadeau is one of Palm Springs’ top-producing Realtors, known for his no-pressure approach, deep market expertise, and genuine commitment to his clients.
A member of The Caldwell & Linger Group – ranked a Top Real Estate Team by Palm Springs Life Magazine – Glen is also backed by COMPASS, which remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country. Glen takes great pride in knowing that his clients are in such good hands.
“Hospitality is what drives me because helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves.”
Visit Modern Living Palm Springs, or reach out to me directly. Ask me anything – I promise to give you much more support than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.
Your Palm Springs Insider,
Glen Nadeau (pronounced “Ned-oh” as in “meadow”)
📱 Call or Text: 805-220-8097
📨 Email: glen.nadeau@compass.com
🔎 My Google Business Reviews ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Why the 2025 DBA Impact Awards Stole Our LGBTQ+ Hearts
A recap of the 2025 DBA Impact Awards in Palm Springs – celebrating LGBTQ+ changemakers, queer joy, and why gay travelers contribute so much to our vibrant, inclusive community here in the Coachella Valley!
Let’s get one thing straight – I mean, GAY. Because here in Palm Springs, we like our sunshine bright, our cocktails full, and our LGBTQ+ community loud and proud 365 days a year. And nowhere was our radiant community support more palpable than at the 2025 DBA Impact Awards this week – hosted by the Desert Business Association (DBA), our local LGBTQ+ and allied chamber of commerce.
For visitors and locals alike, events like these are a heartwarming reminder that Palm Springs isn’t just a destination – it’s a celebration of who we are.
What Are the DBA Impact Awards?
In case you’re new to town (hi, welcome, let’s grab a drink later), the Desert Business Association is the Coachella Valley’s only LGBTQ+ business chamber organization. Founded in 1979, DBA has been advocating for equality, inclusion, and economic empowerment for over 40 years.
Each year, the DBA Impact Awards shine a well-deserved spotlight on local businesses, nonprofits, and community members who uplift and inspire. From trailblazing trans advocates to queer-owned start-ups, this awards ceremony honors those making a meaningful difference across the desert – the tears were flowing like bottomless mimosas.
A Night to Remember
Presented at the Palm Springs Convention Center with a crowd full of style and chosen family vibes, the 2025 ceremony was surprisingly one of the more moving events we’ve attended. Emotional speeches, applause, and that signature Palm Springs charm created a space where love, recognition, and resilience took center stage.
Beyond the awards, the energy was actually the star of the show. The entire evening was an important reminder that this desert town continues to be a sanctuary where LGBTQ+ folks are not only safe, but celebrated.
Local Legends & Desert Pride
The entire evening flowed effortlessly thanks to the ever-charming Peter Daut of KESQ, who emceed with warmth, wit, and the kind of smile that should honestly have its own Instagram account.
And then came the honors – a lineup of truly deserving community champions whose work uplifts our region every day. This year’s Impact Award recipients included:
Business of the Year – Stonewall Gardens Assisted Living
Businessperson of the Year – Bob Smiland, Desert Hand Car Wash
Outstanding Community Service Organization – Dinner with Patsi
Outstanding Community Service Leader – Palm Springs Police Department – All Officers and Staff
Legacy Award – Lisa Middleton, Former Palm Springs Mayor and Council Member
Each acceptance speech was a love letter to the Coachella Valley – filled with tearful emotion, gratitude, and the kind of stories that reminded everyone in the room why this community is unlike anywhere else.
What’s more, the event raised funds to benefit Youth Educational Scholarships through Safe Schools Desert Cities, helping support the next generation of LGBTQ+ leaders. Because in Palm Springs, we don’t just talk about making a difference – we actually do it.
Why Gay Palm Springs Is Always a Good Idea
If you’re feeling pulled to a place where you can show up as your full, authentic, fabulous self – Palm Springs is it. With nearly 50% of the population identifying as LGBTQ+, our city has become a beacon for queer travelers from around the globe and a trailblazer for inclusivity – from our local government to our police force to our community itself.
Here’s what also makes it magical:
Endless sunshine (300+ days a year—yes, really ☀️)
Year-round events like Palm Springs Pride, Modernism Week, Coachella, Palm Springs Hot Rodeo, and SO many more
World-class resorts, spas, and nightlife tailored – many being for the gay male traveler
It’s not just the palm trees and the pool parties – it’s the people. The 2025 DBA Impact Awards reminded us why we fell in love with Palm Springs in the first place. The fearless and resilient, big-hearted humans who make this place feel like home, even if you’re just visiting.
So pack your short-shorts and come live your best gay life here in the desert. We’ll be here with clothes off (I mean, bells on).
Which local LGBTQ+ business or changemaker has made a difference in your life? Share your experiences with us!
If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs, The Best Sex Shops and Adult Play Gear for Gay Men in Palm Springs, and Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs.
Curious About Buying, Selling, or Relocating?
In addition to being one half of The Palm Springs Guys – Glen Nadeau is one of Palm Springs’ top-producing Realtors, known for his no-pressure approach, deep market expertise, and genuine commitment to his clients.
A member of The Caldwell & Linger Group – ranked a Top Real Estate Team by Palm Springs Life Magazine – Glen is also backed by COMPASS, which remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country. Glen takes great pride in knowing that his clients are in such good hands.
“Hospitality is what drives me because helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves.”
Visit Modern Living Palm Springs, or reach out to me directly. Ask me anything – I promise to give you much more support than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.
Your Palm Springs Insider,
Glen Nadeau (pronounced “Ned-oh” as in “meadow”)
📱 Call or Text: 805-220-8097
📨 Email: glen.nadeau@compass.com
🔎My Google Business Reviews ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Santiago Resort Celebrates 30 Sexy Years of Gay Hospitality in Palm Springs
Celebrate 30 sexy years of elevated gay hospitality at Santiago Resort in Palm Springs, California – one of the longest-running clothing-optional gay men’s resorts in the desert. Discover why it’s still a top destination for gay travelers seeking sun, style, and safe spaces in Gay Palm Springs.
Let’s give a round of applause (and maybe a poolside mimosa toast) to Santiago Resort, which is marking its 30th anniversary this year – a major accomplishment that just might make it the longest continuously operating gay resort in all of Palm Springs! 👏 🥂
What started in 1995 as a vision for a safe, welcoming, and elevated experience for gay men has blossomed into one of the most celebrated destinations in the Coachella Valley. Today, Santiago is a rite of passage for anyone serious about soul-refreshing ways to celebrate who they are, no matter where they are coming from.
“Now more than ever, the gay community needs places like Santiago where we can feel safe and welcome,” says Santiago’s General Manager Kent Taylor. We couldn’t agree more!
Under new gay ownership since 2015, Santiago has been consistently refreshed and elevated while staying true to its core values of warmth, inclusivity, and luxury. With nearly 1,000 glowing 5-star reviews across Google and TripAdvisor, guests rave about its lush tropical landscaping, peaceful ambiance, and the friendliest team a naked gay man could ask for.
And let’s take a look at just a few enticing highlights:
24 stylish King-bedded guest rooms with modern walk-in rain showers
The largest climate-controlled pool at any men’s resort in Palm Springs
Complimentary continental breakfast and poolside lunch daily
A bubbling spa, Insta-worthy outdoor shower, and shady new misted sun deck
It’s no wonder Santiago has racked up accolades like TripAdvisor’s Traveler’s Choice Award (for over 10 years running), "Best Gay Stay in the US" from GayCities, and OUTstanding Clothing Optional Resort by GED Magazine.
Meet Santiago’s Brothers: Descanso & Twin Palms
Like any successful big brother, Santiago eventually gave rise to a family of equally fierce sibling resorts. In 2021, Descanso Resort opened its doors, offering another elevated gay men's resort experience with a luxe spa feel. Then in 2022, Twin Palms Resort joined the party, offering chic mid-century vibes in a sleek, private setting.
Here’s the quickie breakdown:
Santiago Resort: Lush, tranquil, and iconic. The OG.
Descanso Resort: Spa-like, elegant, and refined. Think enchanting, but sexy.
Twin Palms Resort: Stylish, social, and full of retro charm. The boys love this one.
Can’t decide which one suits your vibe best? Don’t stress – we wrote a full comparison just for you 👉 Santiago, Descanso & Twin Palms Resorts: A Three-Way Comparison
Why “Gay Palm Springs” Should Be Your Next Escape
If you’ve been yearning for the kind of place where you can bask in the sun, make instant connections, and enjoy world-class LGBT-centered experiences – Palm Springs is your next stop. Whether you’re traveling solo, with your partner, or with your gaggle of gays besties, there’s no shortage of unforgettable moments waiting for you here.
And with resorts like Santiago leading the charge, your next clothing-optional stay will be joining a 30-year legacy of queer joy, chosen family, and naked poolside rejuvenation.
Have you stayed at Santiago, Descanso, or Twin Palms? Which was your fave and why?
If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs, The Best Sex Shops and Adult Play Gear for Gay Men in Palm Springs, and Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs.
Curious About Buying, Selling, or Relocating?
In addition to being one half of The Palm Springs Guys – Glen Nadeau is one of Palm Springs’ top-producing Realtors, known for his no-pressure approach, deep market expertise, and genuine commitment to his clients.
A member of The Caldwell & Linger Group – ranked a Top Real Estate Team by Palm Springs Life Magazine – Glen is also backed by COMPASS, which remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country. Glen takes great pride in knowing that his clients are in such good hands.
“Hospitality is what drives me because helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves.”
Visit Modern Living Palm Springs, or reach out to me directly. Ask me anything – I promise to give you much more support than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.
Your Palm Springs Insider,
Glen Nadeau (pronounced “Ned-oh” as in “meadow”)
📱 Call or Text: 805-220-8097
📨 Email: glen.nadeau@compass.com
🔎My Google Business Reviews ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Date Night, Upgraded: Palm Springs’ Most Romantic Speakeasy Bars
Explore our favorite hidden speakeasy bars in Palm Springs, perfect for a romantic date night. Uncover intimate settings, crafted cocktails, and the vibrant LGBTQ+ scene that makes Palm Springs a must-visit destination.
We recently co-wrote a roundup of five amazing speakeasy-style bars with Kathy Condon from the Palm Springs Insider Guide for our friends at Palm Springs Preferred Small Hotels. Whether you're into secret entrances, moody lighting, or next-level cocktails, this one's for you.
If you think Palm Springs is all pool floats and brunch spots, you’re only skimming the surface. When the sun dips behind the San Jacinto mountains, the night magic begins. Tucked behind velvet curtains and unmarked doors are some of the coolest, most intimate speakeasies you’d never know were there – unless a local let you in on the secret.
For gay men seeking a blend of intimacy, style, and a touch of mystery, these hidden speakeasies offer the perfect backdrop for unforgettable evenings. So consider this your official invite to dig deeper into low-desert nightlife because these hidden gems are serving moody lighting, jaw-dropping cocktails, and serious main-character energy.
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you love it too)!
In the meantime, here are five of Palm Springs’ Most Romantic Speakeasy Bars in our opinion…
1. Counter Reformation
Tucked within the lush grounds of the Parker Palm Springs, Counter Reformation offers a cozy setting reminiscent of a Parisian wine bar. With its eclectic wine selection (no spirits) and savory small plates, it's the perfect spot for a romantic evening or a chic pre-dinner drink. And there’s an actual confessional at the far end of the bar, should you feel the need for redemption after all the fun you’ve had in Palm Springs!
2. Seymour’s
Enter through Mr. Lyons Steakhouse and discover Seymour’s, a hidden gem that exudes mid-century elegance. With its cozy leather banquettes and vintage artwork, it's the ideal setting for whispering sweet nothings over expertly crafted cocktails. The outdoor patio, complete with a roaring fire pit, adds a touch of warmth to your evening rendezvous.
3. The Evening Citizen
With an intentionally cryptic entrance, The Evening Citizen invites you into a world of intrigue. Candlelit interiors and dark walls set the mood for deep conversations and shared secrets. Don't miss the "Backstabber," a dark twist on the classic Bees Knees cocktail, perfect for toasting to new beginnings or celebrating lasting connections.
4. Tailor Shop
Tailor Shop offers a refined atmosphere where every detail is meticulously crafted. From the plush seating to the curated playlist, it's a haven for couples seeking a sophisticated night out. Indulge in their delectable dumplings and let the evening unfold in style.
5. Bootlegger Tiki
Located right next to Tailor Shop, step into a tropical paradise at Bootlegger Tiki, where bamboo decor and exotic cocktails transport you to a bygone era. The intimate setting is perfect for cozying up with your date, sharing stories, and sipping on their renowned non-traditional mai tai.
Why Palm Springs is a Must-Visit for Gay Travelers
There’s so much to experience here in Palm Springs. With its year-round sunshine, vibrant LGBTQ+ community, and rich cultural offerings, it's a place where every gay man can feel at home. Whether you're lounging by the pool, exploring hidden speakeasies, or making new connections, Palm Springs offers a unique blend of relaxation and excitement that's hard to compete with elsewhere. So embrace the magic of the desert and let Palm Springs be the backdrop to your next romantic adventure.
What secret speakeasies have you discovered in Palm Springs? Did we spill your favorite secret spot? Share your experiences!
If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs, The Best Sex Shops and Adult Play Gear for Gay Men in Palm Springs, and Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs.
Curious About Buying, Selling, or Relocating?
In addition to being one half of The Palm Springs Guys – Glen Nadeau is one of Palm Springs’ top-producing Realtors, known for his no-pressure approach, deep market expertise, and genuine commitment to his clients.
A member of The Caldwell & Linger Group – ranked a Top Real Estate Team by Palm Springs Life Magazine – Glen is also backed by COMPASS, which remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country. Glen takes great pride in knowing that his clients are in such good hands.
“Hospitality is what drives me because helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves.”
Visit Modern Living Palm Springs, or reach out to me directly. Ask me anything – I promise to give you much more support than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.
Your Palm Springs Insider,
Glen Nadeau (pronounced “Ned-oh” as in “meadow”)
📱 Call or Text: 805-220-8097
📨 Email: glen.nadeau@compass.com
🔎My Google Business Reviews ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Is Mid-Century Modern on Hulu Just Gay Fiction? Here’s the Real Palm Springs Tea
Thinking about vacationing in Palm Springs? Hulu’s Mid-Century Modern is fueling the fantasy, but the real-life version is even better. Here’s what gay life in Palm Springs actually looks like — and why it should be your next getaway.
Let’s be real: Mid-Century Modern on Hulu is everything Gay Palm Springs. Iconic architecture. Sarcastic gay men in their prime. Poolside drama. Linda Lavin.
But the real gag? You don’t have to binge a sitcom pretending to live your best gay life when you can actually be here surrounded by palm trees, pool floats, and Palm Springs mid-century perfection.
Because here in Palm Springs, it’s not a fantasy. It’s the lifestyle!
Whether you’re visiting for the first time or you’ve been flirting with the idea of moving here permanently (you wouldn’t be the first!), let’s break down what this Hulu hit got right, what it got hilariously wrong, and why Palm Springs is still the desert capital that gay dreams are made of.
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know (and let us know why)!
In the meantime, here’s the real Palm Springs tea…
Mid-Century Modern: Glammed-Up Fiction or Desert Reality?
In Mid-Century Modern, three gay besties — Bunny, Jerry, and Arthur — move into a mid-century house in Palm Springs after a funeral and proceed to live together, surrounded by martinis, misadventures, and passive-aggressive zingers. Throw in Bunny’s live-in mother Sybil, and you've got a cross between Golden Girls and Will & Grace – but make it desert-chic.
Is this what life’s really like for gay men here in Palm Springs? Honestly? Kind of. But it’s also way better than you can imagine.
Yes, the Architecture Really Is That Sexy
Palm Springs is internationally known for its mid-century modern architecture. We’re talking:
Butterfly rooflines
Clerestory windows
Vintage breeze blocks
Pools that belong on a Slim Aarons postcard
Whether you’re strolling through Twin Palms, Vista Las Palmas, or Deepwell Estates, you’ll see homes that make you feel like you're in an Architectural Digest spread — except with fewer stylists and more shirtless men walking their dogs (aka their babies).
Want to geek out on architecture before you visit? Check out our Palm Springs Guys mid-century modern self-guided tour (Google Maps GPS-ready!) and discover the magic of Desert Modernism architecture for yourself.
Chosen Family Vibes? Very That.
The premise of friends becoming a chosen family? Not only realistic — it’s Palm Springs culture in a nutshell.
The community here is tight-knit, supportive, and refreshingly unbothered. Whether you’re single, partnered, throupled, or “it's complicated,” you’ll find your people here faster than you can say “poolside cocktail at 2.”
In fact, Palm Springs has the highest percentage of LGBTQ+ residents of any city in the U.S. That means the whole place is basically a gay friend group waiting to happen.
So… Should You Visit?
Uh, yes. Immediately. Especially now (considering the state our current government, if you can even call it governing). Palm Springs is like a double layer of protection for our beautiful, vibrant, and inclusive LGBTQ+ community and our allies here in Southern California. But I digress.
Mid-Century Modern may have put Palm Springs back on the map for Hulu-watching audiences, but the truth is — we’ve been living this dream in real time for years.
Here’s why gay men from across the country (and around the world) flock here year-round:
Weather That’s Practically a Drag Queen: Always Serving Looks
300+ days of sunshine
Stunning mountain views in every direction (in the desert? Yes)!
Pool season is… every season
Even our winters are giving “hot tub and rosé”
Culture & Events That Keep It Cute
Modernism Week is a dream for design lovers
Palm Springs Pride is one of the largest, most inclusive and joyful in the country
Drag brunches, cabaret nights, spa days, and shopping galore
Basically: There’s always something going on, and you’ll never feel out of place doing it
A Place Where You’ll Actually Make Friends
Whether it’s happy hours at Chill Bar, lounging at your boutique resort, or exchanging flirtatious smiles at the guy across the table at FARM — making new friends (and maybe more?) is the Palm Springs way.
You’ll meet locals. You’ll meet travelers. You might even meet someone who convinces you to come back... permanently. Don’t say we didn’t warn you.
Final Thoughts: Palm Springs Is the Gay Getaway You Deserve
If you’re looking for a place that combines stylish relaxation, a welcoming LGBTQ+ community, and enough retro-chic vibes to make your Hulu watchlist jealous, Palm Springs is it.
Come for the mid-century fantasy — stay for the sunshine, culture, and community that makes real life here even better than the show. Whether you're in your 20s or your golden years, Palm Springs is ready to show you a good time on repeat.
Which Mid-Century Modern character are YOU — Bunny, Jerry, Arthur, or Sybil? Have you been to Palm Springs before? What’s your favorite spot? Share your experiences!
If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs, The Best Sex Shops and Adult Play Gear for Gay Men in Palm Springs, and Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs.
Curious About Buying, Selling, or Relocating?
In addition to being one half of The Palm Springs Guys – Glen Nadeau is one of Palm Springs’ top-producing Realtors, known for his no-pressure approach, deep market expertise, and genuine commitment to his clients.
A member of The Caldwell & Linger Group – ranked a Top Real Estate Team by Palm Springs Life Magazine – Glen is also backed by COMPASS, which remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country. Glen takes great pride in knowing that his clients are in such good hands.
“Hospitality is what drives me because helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves.”
Visit Modern Living Palm Springs, or reach out to me directly. Ask me anything – I promise to give you much more support than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.
Your Palm Springs Insider,
Glen Nadeau (pronounced “Ned-oh” as in “meadow”)
📱 Call or Text: 805-220-8097
📨 Email: glen.nadeau@compass.com
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Rainbow Entertainment Group: Bridging Palm Springs with Provincetown
Discover how Rainbow Entertainment Group is bridging Palm Springs with Provincetown some of the most fabulous gay events a boy could hope for. From dazzling drag performances to tribute shows, plan your ultimate LGBTQ+ getaway!
As 2025 unfolds, our little desert city is set to dazzle with an array of LGBTQ+ events all year long. Some of our favorite Palm Springs events have been curated by the illustrious Rainbow Entertainment Group (such as drag superstars Dina Martina, Coco Peru, and Ginger Minj)!
With a legacy of crafting unforgettable experiences, they're busy bridging the gap between Palm Springs, California and Provincetown, Massachusetts (aka Ptown) – bringing a lineup that's as diverse and dynamic as our community itself.
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know (and let us know why)!
Meet the Maestro: Richy Pugh and Rainbow Entertainment Group
Helmed by the visionary CEO Richy Pugh, Rainbow Entertainment Group has been at the forefront of LGBTQ+ entertainment for over a decade. From orchestrating a successful holiday decor and event company between 2011 and 2019 to serving as the Executive Director of Entertainment for a prominent Provincetown-based company in 2023-2024, Richy's commitment to top-tier entertainment is unparalleled.
His collaborations read like a who's who of queer culture, featuring icons such as Miss CoCo Peru, Varla Jean Merman, Miss Richfield 1981, Dina Martina, Miss Conception, Ross Mathews, Kathy Griffin, Debby Holiday, and tribute bands honoring legends like Freddie Mercury, George Michael, and Elvis. Notably, he was a driving force behind the triumphant return of BOYZ Night OUT in the summer of 2023. Now, with Rainbow Entertainment Group, Richy is infusing Palm Springs with a series of events that always promises to elevate your desert experience.
Upcoming REG Events in Palm Springs
Mark your calendars, boyz! Here's what Rainbow Entertainment Group has in store for Palm Springs in the coming months:
Lady Bunny in "Don't Bring the Kids"
Date: Friday, February 21, 2025, at 7 PM
Venue: Palm Springs Cultural Center, 2300 E Baristo Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92262
After multiple sold-out residencies in New York, the legendary drag queen and razor-sharp comedian Lady Bunny brings her raunchy tour de force to the desert. Combining singing, comedy, and dance, this show is sure to make even the most conservative attendees squirm with delight. As the New York Times raves, it "will have audiences weeping with laughter while groaning in disgust."
George Michael Reborn
Date: Saturday, April 26, 2025, at 7 PM
Venue: Palm Springs Cultural Center, 2300 E Baristo Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92262
This incredible tribute to the late, great George Michael is a must-see! Starring Robert Bartko, who exudes the energy and passion of George in the '80s and '90s, the performance features live vocals (no lip-syncing here) that will have you dancing to hits like "Wake Me Up Before You Go-Go" and swaying to the soulful "Careless Whisper." Bartko's uncanny resemblance, vocal range, and charisma make this a tribute that truly honors the legend himself.
"With Love From the Bush" – A Dame Edna Tribute
Date: Saturday, May 17, 2025, at 7 PM
Venue: Palm Springs Cultural Center, 2300 E Baristo Rd
You’ve never seen Dame Edna like this! With Love From the Bush is a hilarious and tuneful celebration of Australian comedy icon Dame Edna Everage starring renowned actor, singer, and tribute artist Michael Walters! Get ready to explore the deepest, most private parts of the Diva from Down Under with lots of laughs, show-stopping musical numbers, and glittering gowns! Totaltheatre.com says "The closest thing to enjoying Dame Edna’s outrageous comedy on Broadway is to laugh ‘til you cry over Michael L. Walters’ Dame Edna!” and the original Dame Edna, Barry Humphries, says Michael’s homage is “SPECTACULAR!”
Upcoming Events in Provincetown
For those planning a coastal escape, Rainbow Entertainment Group has a VERY exciting lineup in Provincetown for Summer 2025 too. Here’s a quick-look:
CoCo Peru: One Night Only
Date: Friday, August 22, 2025, at 8 PM
Venue: Provincetown Town Hall, 260 Commercial St, Provincetown, MA 02657
Sutton Lee Seymour – "Witch, Please!"
Dates: Multiple performances throughout Summer 2025
Venue: The Art House, 214 Commercial St, Provincetown, MA 02657
Puppetry of the Penis
Dates: Select dates in Summer 2025
Venue: The Art House, 214 Commercial St, Provincetown, MA 02657
Bea Arthur's Brat Summer
Dates: Throughout Summer 2025
Venue: The Art House, 214 Commercial St, Provincetown, MA 02657
EDIE
Dates: Various dates in Summer 2025
Venue: The Art House, 214 Commercial St, Provincetown, MA 02657
Furever Yours: An Evening with Tom Goss
Dates: Select dates in Summer 2025
Venue: The Art House, 214 Commercial St, Provincetown, MA 02657
Idol Worship: An Evening with Mink Stole & Peaches Christ
Dates: Special engagements in Summer 2025
Venue: The Art House, 214 Commercial St, Provincetown, MA 02657
Have you attended any Rainbow Entertainment Group events yourself yet? Share your experiences with us.
If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs, The Best Sex Shops and Adult Play Gear for Gay Men in Palm Springs, and Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs.
Beyond fabulous events like these, Palm Springs offers a year-round haven for gay men seeking both relaxation and adventure. With over 300 days of sunshine annually, you can bask by the pool, explore the stunning desert landscapes, or indulge in the city's vibrant nightlife any time you visit. Our close-knit inclusive community and welcoming atmosphere make it effortless to forge new friendships and create lasting memories as well. Whether you're attending a Rainbow Entertainment Group event or simply soaking in the local culture, Palm Springs is the quintessential destination to live your best gay life.
Curious About Buying, Selling, or Relocating?
In addition to being one half of The Palm Springs Guys – I’m also one of Palm Springs top-producing Realtors.
And as a COMPASS agent, I can help you find and negotiate the best price for your desert dream home. COMPASS remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country, so I take great pride in knowing that my clients are in such good hands.
Hospitality is what drives me because helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves.
Check out my website at Modern Living Palm Springs, or reach out to me directly. Ask me anything – I promise to give you much more support than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.
Your Palm Springs Insider,
Glen Nadeau (pronounced “Ned-oh” as in “meadow”)
📱 Call or Text: 805-220-8097
📨 Email: glen.nadeau@compass.com
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The LGBTQ+ Realtor Connection: Where Inclusivity and Care Meet Expertise
Learn how our inclusive, care-centered Gay Realtor Referral Service can save you time and stress. Tailored for the LGBTQ+ community, we connect you with the perfect Realtor anywhere while offering ongoing support throughout your real estate journey.
Inclusivity and Care at the Forefront:
Real Estate Matchmaking, Reimagined
As gay men and full-time Palm Springs residents, we understand the unique needs and desires of our LGBTQ+ community when it comes to real estate – no matter where you’re located.
Since Palm Springs is a haven for LGBTQ+ individuals, it’s naturally our mission at The Palm Springs Guys to ensure it remains a safe, welcoming space for everyone. So if you’re buying or selling here in Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley, we’re here to guide your real estate journey with care and expertise.
But our reach doesn’t stop there. Through our robust personal network of LGBTQ+ Realtors across the globe, we can connect you with professionals who truly understand your lifestyle and priorities, wherever you are.
With inclusivity and care at the forefront, our Gay Realtor Connection Referral Service is your new best friend in making the often-stressful process of real estate feel like a breeze.
What Is the Gay Realtor Connection Referral Service?
Our personalized “matchmaking” service is designed to connect you (and anyone fabulous you know) with the perfect real estate professionals – whether here in Palm Springs or beyond:
Outbound Referrals: Finding Your Perfect Agent, Wherever You Are
Planning a move outside of Palm Springs or selling property in another state? We've got you covered:
Personalized Matchmaking: We start with a one-on-one consultation to understand your specific needs, preferences, and priorities. From there, we tap into our extensive network of trusted LGBTQ+-allied Realtors to find the ideal match for your situation.
Continued Support: We don’t just send you off – we stay involved! Think of us as your real estate fairy godparents, checking in periodically and advocating for you every step of the way.
Inbound Referrals: Bringing Your Friends and Family to Us
If you know someone who’s ready to buy or sell here in Palm Springs, we’re here to help them feel right at home. By connecting them with us, you’re setting them up for a seamless, stress-free experience (and earning major brownie points)!
Exclusive Resources: We leverage Compass’s cutting-edge technology, including Private Exclusives, to access the best listings.
Top-Tier Expertise: With Compass’s nationwide network of nearly 34,000 agents and our proven local market know-how, we’re perfectly positioned to help.
If for whatever reason you (or whoever you know) is still on the fence about Palm Springs, check out our article Palm Springs Real Estate: Why Palm Springs is THE Place to Live Your Best Gay Life in 2025.
Why Choose Our Gay Realtor Connection Referral Service?
Here’s what sets our service apart:
1. Tailored Matches
We take the guesswork out of finding the right Realtor. Our concierge service pairs you with LGBTQ+ professionals who truly understand your unique needs, like inclusivity and safety, or just someone with impeccable taste.
2. Ongoing Support
We’re not a one-and-done operation. From initial consultation to closing day, we’re by your side to offer advice, mediate when needed, and ensure everything runs smoothly.
3. Community-Focused
As a service by and for the LGBTQ+ community, inclusivity and trust are at the heart of what we do. We get what matters to you because it matters to us too.
How to Get Started
Getting started is as easy as sipping a cocktail by the pool. Simply schedule a complimentary Zoom consultation with us, and we’ll handle the rest. Whether you’re buying, selling, or referring, our Modern Living Referral Concierge LGBTQ+ Service is here to save you time, money, and stress.
Click here to contact us and schedule your consultation today!
Where’s your dream home located if you could live anywhere? Let us know in the comments below or reach out to us directly!
About Me | Glen Nadeau
Realtor® at COMPASS
DRE# 02167410
Hospitality is what drives me because it's been at the heart of everything I’ve done so far. I’ve learned that an experienced understanding of true hospitality is an invaluable skill to have and that helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves.
One of the top-producing Realtors in Palm Springs, I will help you find and negotiate the best price for your desert dream home. COMPASS remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country, so I take great pride in knowing that my clients are in such good hands. Check out my website at Modern Living Palm Springs.
What other questions do you have?
Consider an experienced and knowledgeable local realtor (like me) to help you make sense of things. If you’re ready to buy and/or sell yourself, I look forward to assisting you. I promise to give you a much more targeted answer than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.
Please feel free to give me a call, text, email me – or let’s schedule a Zoom meeting.
I’m looking forward to connecting with you!
Your Real Estate Matchmaker,
Glen Nadeau
📱 Call or Text: 805-220-8097
📨 Email: glen.nadeau@compass.com
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Palm Springs’ Resources for LA Fire Victims: A Safe Haven for the LGBTQ Community
Local assistance and resources in Palm Springs for those affected by the Los Angeles fires. We’re here to help victims find refuge and rebuild – especially members of the LGBTQ+ community seeking a supportive environment during this challenging time.
The devastating Los Angeles fires have forced many to flee their homes, leaving them in search of shelter, resources, and a supportive community. Palm Springs is opening its arms, offering a sanctuary for those affected. As a vibrant and inclusive city with a rich history of helping others in need, Palm Springs stands ready to provide assistance — especially for members of the LGBTQ+ community seeking a supportive environment during this challenging time.
This article compiles vital resources for fire victims, from emergency housing and pet care to healthcare and financial aid. Whether you’re seeking refuge or looking for ways to help, this guide is a comprehensive resource for navigating these challenging times.
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know!
Emergency Housing in Palm Springs
Hotels Offering Special Rates for Fire Victims
Palm Springs’ hospitality community is offering discounted accommodations to those displaced by the fires. Below are participating hotels:
The Saguaro Palm Springs: Promo Code: CALOCAL (760) 323-1711
Hilton Palm Springs: Promo Code: PFF (760) 320-6868
Rowan Palm Springs: (760) 904-5015
Avalon Hotel Palm Springs: (760) 318-3012
Ingleside Estate: (760) 325-0046
The Dunes Hotel: (760) 656-0021
Hotel Zoso: (760) 325-9676
Stardust Hotel: (760) 460-6845
La Serena Villas: (844) 932-8044
Amin Casa Historic Hotel and Gardens: (760) 507-1301
Inn at Palm Springs: (888) 788-8466
Los Arboles Hotel Palm Springs: (760) 459-3605
The Royal Sun Palm Springs: (760) 794-7991
The Muse Hotel: (760) 537-6411
For additional accommodation options across the Coachella Valley, visit Greater Palm Springs LA Fire Relief Offers.
Pet Care for Evacuees
Palm Springs Animal Shelter
If you’ve evacuated with pets, Palm Springs Animal Shelter provides essential supplies like pet food, leashes, crates, and more. Visit during open hours for assistance.
Address: 4575 Mesquite Ave., Palm Springs, CA 92264
Phone: (760) 416-5718
Website: psanimalshelter.org
Healthcare and LGBTQ+ Support Services
The LGBTQ Center of the Desert
Providing a safe and welcoming environment, the LGBTQ Center offers counseling, support groups, and other resources tailored to the LGBTQ+ community.
Website: thecentercv.org
Desert Care Network – LGBTQ Support Services
Offering inclusive healthcare services to meet the unique needs of the LGBTQ+ community in Greater Palm Springs.
Website: desertcarenetwork.com
Gay Desert Guide
This comprehensive directory lists LGBTQ-owned and friendly businesses across the Coachella Valley.
Website: gaydesertguide.com
Financial Assistance and Donations
FEMA Assistance
Federal assistance is available for fire victims. Apply directly through FEMA.
Application Link: fema.gov
California Fire Foundation
Donations to the Wildfire and Disaster Relief Fund directly support victims.
Donate: California Fire Foundation
GoFundMe Wildfire Relief Hub
Browse verified fundraising pages for wildfire victims and donate directly.
Website: GoFundMe Wildfire Relief
Direct Relief
This California-based organization provides medical supplies and N95 masks to affected residents.
Salvation Army – Southern California Division
Providing shelter, food, and personal necessities for fire victims.
Community Contributions: How You Can Help
If you’re looking to support fire victims, here are several ways to contribute:
Volunteer or Donate to the American Red Cross
Foster animals through Pasadena Humane (Sign up here)
Participate in local donation drives and fundraisers (LA Times Full List)
Navigating the Road to Recovery
Action Plans for Fire Victims
Donna Granata, a fire survivor, shared a helpful Facebook post outlining essential steps for victims:
View Post: Donna Granata Facebook Post
Wildfire Resources Spreadsheet
An extensive list of resources compiled by the Rose Gallery/Malan team:
Access Here: Wildfire Resources Spreadsheet
Palm Springs Safe Haven
In times of tragedy, Palm Springs is a safe haven of compassion and support. Whether you’re seeking temporary shelter, pet care, healthcare, or simply a warm community, Palm Springs is here to welcome you with open arms. The Palm Springs Guys are here to connect you with the resources you need to feel safe, supported, and at home.
You have friends in Palm Springs!
Palm Springs Real Estate: Why Palm Springs is THE Place to Live Your Best Gay Life in 2025
Discover why Palm Springs is the ultimate destination for gay men looking to relocate, invest, or vacation in paradise in 2025 and beyond. From gay-friendly neighborhoods to stunning real estate options, Palm Springs offers an unparalleled lifestyle for the LGBTQ+ community.
It’s true that Palm Springs has crystal blue skies, swaying palm trees, and a drag brunch scene that could rival any big city Pride parade. But if you’re a gay man looking to live your best life year-round, there’s simply nowhere else like Palm Springs, California. Nestled in the heart of the Coachella Valley, Palm Springs is more than just a vacation hotspot for many full and part-time locals (ourselves included) – it’s a desert oasis where gay men thrive, connect, while investing in both their community and their futures. Whether you’re contemplating a part-time getaway home or a full-time fabulous abode, Palm Springs is the place where your next chapter begins.
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know (and let us know why)!
In the meantime, here’s why Palm Springs is THE place to live your best gay life in 2025 (and beyond).
Why Palm Springs is the Ultimate Gay Escape (and Investment Opportunity)
Neighborhoods Tailored for You
First things first, every neighborhood in Palm Springs is as gay-friendly as a Chappell Roan concert. From the upscale Movie Colony district to the mid-century modern gems in Deepwell, there’s a perfect spot for every lifestyle and budget. The Historic Tennis Club area offers luxury and charm, while Warm Sands is known for its LGBTQ+-friendly resorts and social atmosphere. Not to mention various up-and-coming neighborhoods like Demuth Park that you have the chance to invest in and help make as fabulous as the rest.
If you want to learn more, check out Glen Nadeau’s 10 Welcoming Neighborhoods: Why Palm Springs Should Be Your Next Home
Price Points That Won’t Break the Bank
Yes, Palm Springs is glamorous, but it’s not Beverly Hills pricing. The market has cooled a bit, home prices are now more reasonable again, and there's more inventory all around. Homes here start around $800,000 for chic mid-century masterpieces, with plenty of investment properties available for part-time living or short-term rentals. It’s the kind of place where you can get a tan, sip a Rose Kennedy (the official unofficial gay drink of Palm Springs), and watch your property value soar – all in a day's work.
Investment Opportunities Galore
Even if you can’t commit to full-time living, Palm Springs is an investor’s paradise. With year-round tourism, short-term rental properties are hotter than the desert sun. And let’s be real – who doesn’t want to own a piece of gay paradise? The ROI on vacation rentals here can help fund those dreamy European getaways. Plus, it can be a smart way to build wealth for retirement – even serving as a future retirement home where you can eventually live full-time.
Open Houses are the New Sunday Funday
Next time you’re in town, skip the poolside daiquiris for an afternoon of open house hopping. It’s not just a way to scout for real estate – it’s practically a free mini Modernism Week event. Palm Springs open houses are where you’ll meet future neighbors, potential new besties, and maybe even get inspired to redesign your next desert home.
Meet Glen – Your Palm Springs Real Estate BFF
If you’re ready or even curious about what opportunities might exist for you here, Glen Nadeau – one half of The Palm Springs Guys – is the go-to gay local Realtor in town. And we’re not just being biased. He’s been a top-producing Real Estate Agent here since 2023. And since he’s with COMPASS – the #1 ranked brokerage in the country – Glen takes great pride in knowing that his clients are in such good hands with the most robust resources on the market available to them.
Glen loves connecting and talking shop. Whether you’re curious about neighborhoods, need help navigating the market, or just want to dish about the best spots in town – don’t be shy, reach out to Glen any time. He’s lovable, knowledgeable, and ready to help you on your real estate journey. He promises to give you a much more targeted answer than ChatGPT, Google or the news ever will.
Visit, Invest, or Stay for Good
Thinking about selling your home or just curious about its value? Head over to Glen’s Home Valuation page for a free home valuation, and get an accurate estimate from a local expert of what your property is worth in today’s market.
The new year is a time for fresh starts and bold decisions. Whether you’re buying your dream home or selling to embrace new opportunities, getting prepared now will set you up for success in 2025.
Even if you’re not ready to make the big move, Palm Springs is always worth a visit (or two, or ten). With endless sunny days, vibrant LGBTQ+ events, and the friendliest folks you’ll ever meet, Palm Springs is a place where community, culture, and connection thrive. Whether you come for a weekend or a lifetime, the desert welcomes you with open arms and the promise of unforgettable experiences. Embrace the journey, and let Palm Springs become a meaningful part of your next chapter.
What other questions do you have?
Consider an experienced and knowledgeable local realtor (like Glen) to help you make sense of things.
📱 Call or Text: 805-220-8097
📨 Email: glen.nadeau@compass.com
📅 Zoom: Click here and let's schedule it
💻 Website: https://www.modernlivingpalmsprings.com/
🔎 My Google Business Profile: https://goo.gl/maps/hipgpHfDezGWBTxd6
PS- Are you a part of the LGBTQ+ community and looking to relocate to Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley? Check out our FREE “Palm Springs Enthusiasts LGBTQ+ Relocation Guide” and find out why Palm Springs is such an oasis of Pride and inclusivity – brought to you by The Palm Springs Guys and Glen Nadeau Real Estate at Modern Living Palm Springs 🏳️🌈
*We cannot guarantee any of the above statements or third-party links. Before you enter any transaction, you should read and review all contracts, leases, and information as they are unique and subject to changes. We recommend you consult with your accountant, attorney, tax advisor, and local real estate professionals prior to any real estate transactions.
Your Ultimate 2025 Events Guide to Gay Palm Springs (So Far)…
Discover the ultimate Palm Springs and Coachella Valley events for the first half of 2025, from Modernism Week to Coachella. Plan your gay getaway with our fabulous guide!
*This article was originally published on 1/2/25 and has been updated on 6/12/25 for more accuracy and relevance.
Palm Springs is year-round sunshine, a welcoming LGBTQ+ community, and a cultural calendar so packed you’ll wish you had more vacation days. If you’re a gay traveler craving a fabulous escape, Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley offer an electrifying blend of art, music, fashion, and fun. So, let’s dive into the can’t-miss events for the first half of 2025 (January - July)!
Shout-out to our friends at Gay Desert Guide for their annual compiling of events (which we are ruthlessly borrowing for this article). Check them out for day-by-day listings of nightlife, drag shows, happy hours, and more!
And just a heads up, White Party Palm Springs will NOT be taking place in 2025. They are taking a year off, but they’ll be back in full-swing in 2026!
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us (and let us know why)!
In the meantime, here are our votes on the ultimate 2025 events guide to Gay Palm Springs (so far)…
2025 Ultimate Palm Springs and Coachella Valley Calendar of Events
January
Palm Springs International Film Festival (Jan 2-13): Roll out the red carpet for an unparalleled cinematic experience.
Coachella Valley Firebirds Pride Night (Jan 11): Hockey meets fabulousness at Acrisure Arena.
The Center & Equality California: From Resilience to Action (Jan 13): Advocacy and inspiration collide in this impactful event.
Palm Springs Art Festivals (Jan 18-19): Celebrate creativity at Frances Stevens Park.
Justin Timberlake - Forget Tomorrow World Tour (Jan 20): Experience JT live in an unforgettable concert.
The Center Social (Jan 22): Meet and mingle at this community favorite.
The Southwest Arts Festival (Jan 23-26): A dazzling display of artistic talent in Indio.
5th Annual Desert Open Studios Tour (Jan 24-26): Peek inside the studios of Coachella Valley’s finest artists.
Palm Springs Health Run & Fitness Expo (Jan 25): Get moving and stay healthy at this high-energy event.
Art Party 2025 (Jan 25): A night of art, entertainment, and elegance.
February
Taste of Jalisco Festival (Jan 31-Feb 2): A fiesta of flavors in Cathedral City.
PS Test Fest (Feb 6): Experience drag, music, and cocktails galore at Toucans.
Tour de Palm Springs (Feb 7-8): Bike through the stunning Coachella Valley.
Palm Springs Readers' Festival (Feb 7-9): Celebrate literature and storytelling at Hotel Zoso.
Riverside County Fair & National Date Festival (Feb 13-Mar 2): Enjoy this annual celebration of dates and fun.
Modernism Week (Feb 13-23): A celebration of architecture and design.
Out at the Fair (Feb 15): Celebrate inclusivity at the Riverside County Fair.
International Bear Convergence (Feb 20-24): Bears, cubs, and otters unite at Hotel Zoso.
2025 Palm Springs International Pride Hockey Tournament (Feb 21-23): Watch LGBTQ+ athletes shine on the ice.
McCormick's Palm Springs Collector Car Auction (Feb 21-23): Bid on vintage cars at this iconic auction.
ARRIVAL from Sweden: The Music of ABBA (Feb 22): Relive the magic of ABBA live on stage.
March
2025 BNP Paribas Open (Mar 2-16): World-class tennis takes over Indian Wells.
Luck Be a Lady Gala (Mar 1): A glamorous evening of glitz and giving.
Mini Gay Day (Mar 1): Disneyland gets a fabulous LGBTQ+ twist.
Cathedral City LGBT Days (Mar 7-9): Celebrate diversity and inclusion in Cathedral City.
Metropolitan Fashion Week (Mar 8-9): Fashion and elegance at the Palm Springs Art Museum.
Desert X (Mar 8-May 11): Discover cutting-edge art installations across the desert.
Red Dress Dress Red Party (Mar 15): Dress to impress at this Palm Springs Air Museum extravaganza.
Fashion Week El Paseo (Mar 15-19): Haute couture takes center stage.
Steve Chase Humanitarian Awards (Mar 29): Celebrate philanthropy and community impact.
April
Faux Fur Ball (Apr 5): A paw-some evening benefiting animal welfare.
Coachella (Apr 11-13 & 18-20): The iconic music festival returns with star-studded lineups (with Lady Gaga leading the lineup)!
Glow with Pride – The Living Desert (Apr 17): A magical night of lights and Pride under the stars at the zoo.
Dining Out For Life – DAP Health (Apr 24): Dine local to support HIV/AIDS services—one bite at a time.
Disney Pride in Concert – PSGMC (Apr 24–27): Disney magic gets a fabulous Pride remix with the Palm Springs Gay Men’s Chorus.
Stagecoach (Apr 25–27): Country fans, boots, and LGBTQ+ cowboys take over the desert.
May
Hot Rodeo Palm Springs (May 2-5): Yeehaw! Experience LGBTQ+ rodeo magic.
David Sedaris – Palm Springs Cultural Center / Camelot Theatre (May 3): The beloved humorist brings his wit to the desert stage.
Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast (May 8): Honoring Harvey Milk’s legacy with an inspiring community breakfast.
Int’l Day Against Homophobia (May 17): A global day of LGBTQ+ awareness and allyship.
Long Beach Pride (May 17–18): Just a drive away, this coastal Pride fest features parades, performances, and good vibes.
WorldPride – Washington DC (May 17 – Jun 8): A global Pride celebration of unity, advocacy, and fabulousness.
Greater Palm Springs Restaurant Week (May 30 – Jun 8): Savor prix-fixe menus from local LGBTQ+-friendly restaurants.
June
AIDS/LifeCycle 2025: The Final Ride (June 1-7): Ride for a cause in this inspiring event.
Home Movies Out of the Closet / PSCC (June 1): A day-long celebration at the Palm Springs Cultural Center with a free LGBTQ+ home-movie preservation session, followed by rare film screenings and a reception.
Dazzling Divas Cabaret Fundraiser / PSGMC (June 1): A fabulous fundraising cabaret by the Palm Springs Gay Men’s Chorus celebrating iconic divas to support their 2025 season.
Give OUT 2025 (June 5): A national LGBTQ+ giving day encouraging community donations to support local nonprofit organizations.
Firefighters Fish Fry / Ruth Hardy Park (June 6): A beloved annual fundraiser featuring fish dinners, country dancing, raffles, and good old community spirit.
Equality Wine & Food Fest / Hyatt Palm Springs (June 7): A celebration of LGBTQ+ and BIPOC winemakers and chefs with tastings, live music, and community pride.
LA Pride! Marches On (June 8): LA Pride’s roving celebration heads to Palm Springs with music, drag, and mobile joy.
Pride Live! Hollywood (June 11–29): A national storytelling and advocacy tour uplifting LGBTQ+ voices, including performances in Hollywood and Palm Springs.
No Kings Mass Protest / DTPS Park (June 14): A bold trans-led protest and community gathering in downtown Palm Springs for visibility and liberation.
Big Gay BBQ / Arenas District (June 14–15): A festive BBQ takeover with DJs, drag, and dancing in the heart of the Arenas District.
Palm Springs International ShortFest / Festival Theaters (June 24–30): The world’s largest short-film festival with LGBTQ+ showcases, filmmaker panels, and networking events.
The Center Social / 103.1 MeTV FM (June 25): A monthly LGBTQ+ social mixer broadcast live on local radio and filled with great vibes and local connections.
San Francisco Pride (June 28–29): The iconic West Coast Pride celebration with parades, stages, and performances.
July
Gay Wine Weekend – Sonoma (Jul 18–20): Wine tastings, vineyard parties, and the famous Twilight T-Dance.
San Diego Pride 2025 (July 19–20): One of SoCal’s biggest Pride events with parades, block parties, and empowerment for all.
August
Splash House 2025 (August 8–10 & 15–17): A desert dance music oasis spread over two weekends with pool parties, after-hours, and float-worthy fun.
Big Bear Romp (August 14–17): A leather and leisure mountain getaway with hiking, hot tubs, and homoerotic camaraderie.
Out On The Mountain / Six Flags (August 22): An LGBTQ+ private pride night at Six Flags Magic Mountain filled with thrill rides and live performances.
September
Gay Days Anaheim 2025 (September 12–14): Disneyland-adjacent Pride weekend with group outings, red shirts, and magic in the air.
The Dinah / The Riviera Resort (September 24–29): The world’s largest women’s party and music festival returns to Palm Springs with poolside beats and queer empowerment.
October
One Night Out Paris / PS Air Museum (October 4): A glamorous Parisian-themed party under the stars with DJs, live drag, and couture-inspired looks.
Pride Under the Pines / Idyllwild (October 4): A high-altitude LGBTQ+ retreat with live music, vendors, and fresh mountain air.
Joshua Tree Music Festival (October 9–12): An eclectic, intimate, and magical music festival set in the soulful desert landscape of Joshua Tree.
Modernism Week – October (October 16–19): A mini version of Palm Springs’ iconic celebration of midcentury architecture and design.
Center Stage Gala / The Center CV (October 17): An elegant evening of philanthropy and entertainment supporting The LGBTQ Center of the Desert.
Casual Concours / Great Autos (October 18): Palm Springs’ favorite car show for modernist motors and vintage vibes.
IGLTA Convention in Palm Springs (October 21–25): The International LGBTQ+ Travel Association brings its global convention to Palm Springs for the first time.
Palm Springs Pride Equality Walk (October 25): A brand-new kickoff event for Pride weekend promoting LGBTQ+ equity and community visibility.
Palm Springs Leather Pride 2025 (October 30–November 2): Four days of leather, kink, and community with parties, contests, and brotherhood.
November
Palm Springs Pride (Nov 6–9): One of the most vibrant Pride events in the U.S.—parades, parties, and rainbow love.
For Even More Fun 😈
If classic cruising and sex-positive fun is more what you seek, check out our favorite hot spots and their ongoing calendar of events…
Canyon Club Hotel
Canyon Club Hotel is the only gay men’s resort in downtown Palm Springs, offering a saltwater pool, a 16-man spa, and a unique garden oasis hedge maze. Affordable rates and day passes make it a popular choice for visitors seeking fun and relaxation.
Casa Oliver
Formerly All Worlds Resort, Casa Oliver is the largest gay men’s clothing-optional resort in Warm Sands. Enjoy their spacious pool, hot tub, outdoor showers, and both an outdoor and indoor maze play area. Day and night passes are available on weekends for added convenience.
CCBC
The CCBC Resort in Cathedral City (aka Cat City) is a haven for exploration and fun. Known for hosting special events like CUMUNION parties and pop-up events, this clothing-optional resort also offers day and night passes for endless possibilities.
Club 541
Club 541 is Palm Springs’ newest men’s-only club, designed for those eager to explore their fantasies. Open most nights and Wednesday afternoons (happy hump day!), it’s also conveniently close to the Tool Shed and several men-only hotels like Santiago.
Tool Shed
Known as Palm Springs’ premier leather and Levi bar, the Tool Shed is famous for its daily happy hours, cruising, and themed nights like Thursday Underwear Nights. Located in Warm Sands, it’s a must-visit for nightlife enthusiasts.
Why Palm Springs is Your Next Gay Paradise
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With events for every interest, you’ll find yourself enchanted by the charm of Palm Springs. Whether lounging by the pool, drinking bottomless mimosas at drag brunch, exploring the breathtaking desert landscapes, or down on your knees in a dark room – there’s no shortage of fun to be had and opportunities to make new friends and unforgettable memories. So pack your bags and let Palm Springs work its magic because you’ll likely be planning your next visit before you even leave!
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Desert Drama: A Gay Man’s Guide to Palm Springs’ Local Theater Scene
Discover greater Palm Springs’ finest local theaters with our guide tailored for gay men. From Broadway-caliber productions to LGBTQ+ gems, Palm Springs is the ultimate destination for drama lovers seeking culture, connection, and year-round sunshine.
While Palm Springs may be a gay man’s paradise for poolside lounging and brunching—our little desert city also boasts a dazzling lineup of local theaters that serve up everything from Broadway-level productions to provocative LGBTQ+ works. Whether you’re in the mood for heartfelt drama, sidesplitting comedy, or something refreshingly gay and risqué, Palm Springs is an intriguing cultural oasis you didn’t know you existed. Considering what relatively small towns Palm Springs and our surrounding desert cities are, we have a surprisingly robust theater scene!
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know.
In the meantime, here’s our spotlight on the desert’s theatrical darlings (in alphabetical order) that’ll have you shouting, “Encore!”
Coachella Valley Repertory
Theater Company: Coachella Valley Repertory
Location: 68510 E. Palm Canyon Drive, Cathedral City
Website: cvrep.org
Show: Next to Normal
About: Coachella Valley Repertory (CV Rep) delivers Broadway-level aspirations in an intimate setting that strives for you to feel the synchronized heartbeats between both the actors and your fellow audience members. With visionary leadership under Adam Karsten, CV Rep is redefining what’s possible in the desert. Their commitment to affordable, high-quality productions and new-works program makes this a must-visit for theater buffs.
Our Experience: Next to Normal left us breathless. Emotional, stirring, and superbly acted, this production rivaled our Broadway memories. There were definitely tears and synchronized sniffles from the crowd.
Desert Ensemble Theatre
Theater Company: Desert Ensemble Theatre
Location: 2300 E Baristo Rd, Palm Springs
Website: desertensembletheatre.org
Show: LOOT
About: Known for innovative storytelling, Desert Ensemble Theatre explores human complexity with award-winning productions. They’re also actively grooming the next generation of thespians through various scholarships and internships.
Our Experience: The black farce LOOT had us smiling with its dark humor abound. The cast balanced absurdity and authenticity, making it an unexpectedly unique experience.
Dezart Performs
Theater Company: Dezart Performs
Location: 314 S Cahuilla Road, Palm Springs
Website: dezartperforms.org
Show: Hillary and Clinton
About: Dezart Performs is the Coachella Valley’s hub for thought-provoking and contemporary plays. Their plans to convert a historic building into a state-of-the-art theater promise exciting things ahead as well.
Our Experience: This alternate-universe tale of Hillary Clinton’s 2008 campaign was witty, sharp, and quite captivating throughout. And seeing fellow Vermonter Craig Wells behind the scenes directing was a bonus as well.
Palm Canyon Theater
Theater Company: Palm Canyon Theater
Location: 538 North Palm Canyon Drive, Palm Springs
Website: palmcanyontheatre.net
Show: La Cage aux Folles
About: As the valley’s longest-running theater, Palm Canyon Theater is synonymous with community and creativity. Their lineup features ambitious productions that make the stage a spectacle to behold.
Our Experience: La Cage aux Folles sparkled with charm and relevance, reminding us why this story remains iconic. And Raul Valenzuela’s performance as Jacob was the cherry on top for us.
Revolution Stage Company
Theater Company: Revolution Stage Company
Location: 611 S Palm Canyon Dr Suite 16, Palm Springs
Website: revolutionstagecompany.com
Show: Little Shop of Horrors
About: Revolution Stage Company is transforming Palm Springs into a premier theater destination with fresh takes on beloved classics, bold new works, and diverse concerts as well.
Our Experience: Little Shop of Horrors was a feast for the senses. The puppetry and performances were exceptional, and the energy in the room was electric from beginning to end.
The BENT
Theater Company: The BENT
Location: 2300 E Baristo Rd, Palm Springs
Website: thebent.org
Show: FUCKING MEN
About: The BENT champions LGBTQ+ theater in Palm Springs with a sharp focus on authenticity and representation. Only a few years running, they’ve already made an honorable splash here in the local theater scene.
Our Experience: FUCKING MEN was provocative and heartfelt, exploring themes of love, connection, and good-old-fashioned gay cruising culture. The stellar cast made this a standout experience.
If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs, The Best Sex Shops and Adult Play Gear for Gay Men in Palm Springs, and Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs.
With its active theater scene, endless sunshine, and welcoming community, it’s no wonder gay men flock to Palm Springs to relax, connect, and indulge. Whether you’re living your best gay life at one of our fabulous clothing-optional resorts or attending a cutting-edge show, Palm Springs has everything you need for the ultimate getaway. So pack your bags, bring your short-shorts, and prepare for an unforgettable gay desert adventure!
Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs
Every bar in Palm Springs is a gay bar as far as we're concerned. That's the beauty of a town that caters to the gay experience, so no matter where we go here in Palm Springs, we're free to be who we are without question…
*This article was originally published on 12/2/21 and has been updated on 11/26/24 for accuracy and relevance.
Every bar in Palm Springs is a gay bar as far as we're concerned. That's the beauty of a town that caters to the gay experience, so no matter where we go here in Palm Springs, we're free to be who we are without question.
The Arenas district is the gayborhood epicenter of all things Gay Palm Springs. And while there's plenty of fun to be had in the Arenas, there's even more fun to be had all over Palm Springs and Cathedral City (aka Cat City).
That said, even Stefan from SNL is excited about Palm Springs hottest night clubs, so here is the Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs in our opinion (in alphabetical order)...
Bar Cecil celebrate those who follow the beat to their own drum with an asthetic as creative and inspiring as their food and cocktails.
Winner of Desert Sun's Best Restaurant in 2020, Blackbook is a the real "chill bar" in the Arenas district as far as we're concerned. It's sleek industrial style also features the largest whiskey selection in Palm Springs.
Located in the same space as the original Don the Beachcomber restaurant that opened in 1953, Bootlegger Tiki serves up delicious tiki cocktails in an intimate speakeasy-style setting.
Boozehounds aims to provide a friendly environment for both canines and their humans. By day, they are a coffee, co-working, and lunch spot. By night, they are a perfect happy hour and dinner destination for the whole family.
A sophisticated newcomer that elevates the Palm Springs bar scene, Canopy Wine Lounge boasts a curated selection of world-class wines. With its sleek atmosphere and commitment to unforgettable experiences, this stylish lounge has quickly become a must-visit destination for wine enthusiasts and trendsetters alike.
The coolest (pun fully intended) gay bar and dance club here in Palm Springs, Chill Bar is another staple gay-borhood bar in our beloved Arenas district, featuring drag bingo, go-go boys, and our favotie disco-ball male statues (featured on The Palm Springs Guys website)!
Dick’s wants you to cruise heavy, drink up, have a blast, get horny, find a ride, and come back for more. It's right in the Arenas district too.
Hunters is Palm Springs’ go-to gay bar and dance club fun for 20 years now. Featuring the longest happy hour in all the Valley, Hunters serves up drag shows, karaoke, and Djs that keep the dance floor pumping (loudly!) right in the Arenas district.
Formerly Studio One 11, One Eleven Bar has everything you need to enjoy a cocktail with old friends and then a second with new ones. They've got weekly drag shows, karaoke, and live local entertainment (they've even got a grand piano they wheel onto the stage). Always free and always a good time, One Eleven is our favorite bar in Cat City!
PS Air Bar is a fun Airline-themed speakeasy inside the Bouschet wine store, featuring cocktails, dinner, naught flight attendants, and live entertainment on the weekends. You know we love a good theme bar!
Honoring the Rat Pack era, Michael Holmes’ Purple Room is the desert’s premier supper club and live performance space, featuring local and national jazz artists and the always popular, The Judy Show!, a parody of the great icons of the 60s.
This is our kind of "sports bar" because Quadz is a TV bar showing popular, classic & obscure music video clips that gay men just LOVE to sing along to in the Arenas district!
With plenty of atmosphere for all patrons “to roost,” the Roost Lounge in Cat City is a another friendly neighborhood gay bar with ongoing entertainment and karaoke.
Open since 1991, Streetbar is a neighborhood bar attracting locals and tourists. They specialize in Cabaret, Karaoke, and the strongest (cash-only) drinks on the block (but you didn't hear it from us)!
Nestled in Uptown Palm Springs, Tailor Shop offers a speakeasy-inspired escape into "fine spirits and bespoke traditions." Its dark, moody interior features velvet banquettes, leather chairs, and a striking wrap-around marble bar, creating an intimate and luxurious vibe—ideal for cooling off on warm desert nights.
The only leather and Levi bar in Palm Springs, the Tool Shed serves up daily happy hours, heavy cruising, and fun theme nights like their signature Thursday night "Underwear Nights" in the Warm Sands district.
Truss & Twine, the chic cocktail bar by Workshop Kitchen, takes you on a journey through time with its era-inspired classic cocktails. Paired with a desert-influenced menu crafted from fresh Coachella Valley ingredients, this spot is a perfect blend of timeless style and local flavor.
This mid-century lounge serves up boutique California wines, craft beers, and throwback cocktails. It's also a favorite destination for live music and drag performances, like Ross Mathew's "Dragtastic Bubbly Brunch".
How Palm Springs Became the Safest LGBTQ+ Place in America
Discover why LGBTQ+ Americans are flocking to Palm Springs – a vibrant oasis where safety, inclusivity, and community meet. Explore the city’s rich LGBTQ+ culture, supportive infrastructure, and investment opportunities from our local gay perspective.
When the world feels more like a bad sequel than a hopeful reboot, LGBTQ+ Americans are doing what they do best – securing their promising futures. Enter Palm Springs, California, a city so welcoming it will greet you with a Pride flag and a martini as soon as you arrive. This desert oasis has become our fulltime home – and it’s the place to be right now for those looking to combine safety, community, and endless sunshine.
Here’s why gay men and the broader LGBTQ+ community are packing their bags for Palm Springs faster than they can say, “Get me the F**K out of here!”
A Safe Haven in Tumultuous Times
It’s no secret that political turbulence has left many LGBTQ+ individuals questioning their safety. With threats like Project 2025 looming and human rights hanging in the balance, finding a sanctuary isn’t just a luxury – it’s a necessity.
Palm Springs shines as a beacon of hope now more than ever. Nearly 40% of the city’s population identifies as LGBTQ+, making it truly one of the most inclusive places in America. Here, you’re not just tolerated – you are embraced and celebrated.
A City That Says ‘No’ to Hate (and Yes to Drag!)
While many places in the U.S. are entangled in debates over LGBTQ+ rights, Palm Springs is busy doubling down on inclusivity. Case in point? The City of Palm Springs recently declared itself a sanctuary for drag performers – a bold move that screams in response to drag bans as, “Not here, not ever.”
Between local government and police force, our city's local leadership is unapologetically progressive, prioritizing policies that protect residents and foster a sense of belonging.
The Heart of LGBTQ+ History and Culture
Palm Springs is steeped in LGBTQ+ history that’s as rich as its present culture. From historical landmarks to art galleries and museums, the city celebrates its roots in ways that keep the spirit of resilience alive.
Even events like Palm Springs Pride festival and the legendary White Party take things up a notch, blending activism and celebration seamlessly. Living here is safe and downright joyful. And in case you’re wondering, yes, you can wear your short shorts at the grocery store.
Supportive Infrastructure Tailored to You
Safety is about acceptance and resources. Palm Springs delivers with a slew of LGBTQ+ organizations like The LGBTQ Center of the Desert, offering everything from mental health services to social engagement opportunities. Whether you’re seeking a sense of community or just someone to rave about the new season of Drag Race with, you’ll find it here.
Plus, local businesses go the extra mile to ensure inclusivity, from healthcare providers like DAP Health who understand your needs to boutique hotels that cater to your lifestyle.
Investing in Your Future: The Real Estate Advantage
Now, let’s talk dollars and cents – because safety and inclusivity aside, Palm Springs is a smart financial move too. Real estate in inclusive cities is in demand, and Palm Springs is no exception. Buying property here is both an investment in your peace of mind and in your future.
From mid-century modern masterpieces to cozy desert retreats, the city’s housing market offers something for every taste. And let’s be real – your Zoom meetings will hit differently working remotely from somewhere you love (and with a palm tree backdrop).
Make the Move, Gurrrlll
If you’re curious to learn more about our vibrant LGBTQ+ community here in Palm Springs, check out our other articles 10 Welcoming Neighborhoods: Why Palm Springs Should Be Your Next Home and Palm Springs LGBTQ+ Community: What You Need To Know.
Palm Springs is a place where you can be yourself unapologetically, surrounded by a community that lifts you up and celebrates your journey. Whether you’re looking for safety, connection, or the perfect spot for a pool party – Palm Springs has it all. Your best gay life awaits you here…
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Pride Highlights: Palm Springs Pride 2024
Relive the unforgettable highlights of Palm Springs Pride 2024 – a dazzling celebration of LGBTQ+ culture! From electrifying drag shows and leather parties to star-studded performances by Neon Trees and SISTER SLEDGE, discover why Palm Springs is the ultimate gay destination.
Palm Springs isn’t just a Pride destination for the LGBTQ+ community – it’s a way of life here. Our little California desert oasis has become the destination for gay men seeking sun-soaked fun and fabulousness year-round. And when it comes to event season, no celebration shines brighter than Palm Springs Pride. Whether you’re a leather aficionado, a lover of drag, or a dance party connoisseur, there’s something for everyone here. So, mark your calendars now because Palm Springs Pride 2025 will surely be as epic as this year was!
To learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs, The Best Sex Shops and Adult Play Gear for Gay Men in Palm Springs, and Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs.
We had gay-old time this year experiencing various Pride events ourselves, so here are our Pride highlights for Palm Springs Pride 2024!
Pride Highlights: Palm Springs Pride 2024
Palm Springs Leather Pride
The festivities began with a steamy weekend of Palm Springs Leather Pride, where the city’s sultry side was on full display. From the Dark Alley Marketplace at Tool Shed to the Go Deep! Dungeon & Play Party at Hotel Zoso, this event embraced liberation and kink with sophistication. Blackbook’s Just For Fans Meetup? A sultry cherry on top.
Día de la Reina Featuring Neon Trees
Arenas District was electric as NEON TREES headlined the Pride Stage, turning this free block party into a night of pure magic. Think less ghouls and goblins, more glitter and glamour!
Jurassic Drag at Oscar’s
The iconic Coco Peru, Jackie Beat, and their Jurassic drag sisters Sherry Vine, and Varla Jean Merman delivered a prehistoric riot at Oscar’s. Their collective wit and talent? Positively Jurassic in scale.
DESERTOPIA
For the younger, edgier crowd, DESERTOPIA served up queer magic. Poolside caftans, gender-fluid vibes, and a backdrop of Mt. San Jacinto made this a celebration of art, music, and individuality. Not the typical Palm Springs scene, but a new generation of refreshingly queer inclusivity!
PRIDE MASSIVE / PALM SPRINGS
"Drag-A-Licious" was a highlight for us – a spectacular drag show featuring an all-star lineup of Ru Girls (aka Drag Race Queenz), including Kimora Blac, Shannel, Roxxxy Andrews, Jorgeous, Kylie Sonique Love, and Vanessa Vanjie Mateo – and kicking off three incredible pool parties that left us gagging for more.
Dina Martina Halloween
Presented by Rainbow Entertainment Group at the Revolution Stage Company, Dina Martina – one of our all time favorite Provincetown comedy queens – returned to Palm Springs with her tragically hilarious blend of absurdity and drag brilliance. If you missed her, pencil in January 2025 – she’s not to be missed!
Palm Springs Pride 5k Run and Walk
The Palm Springs Front Runners & Walkers hosted another successful 5K event to raise funds for local LGBTQ+ organizations. All ages and abilities were (and are always) welcome to participate in this annual community-building event.
SISTER SLEDGE at the Palm Springs Pride Festival Marketplace
The legendary SISTER SLEDGE brought down the house with timeless hits, while the Festival Marketplace offered an irresistible mix of shopping, dining, and cultural vibes.
CCBC’s Rainbow Splash Pool Party
The clothing-optional Rainbow Splash at CCBC Resort provided the perfect mix of fun and relaxation, with DJ Bobby spinning tunes and a “play” area to boot.
Palm Springs Pride Parade
Nothing compares to the iconic Pride Parade, which transformed Palm Canyon Drive into a kaleidoscope of love, music, and community spirit!
Palm Springs Pride on the Rooftop
We saved the best for last: our very own Palm Springs Pride on the Rooftop Party. With stunning views from the Flannery Exchange rooftop our celebration included music by DJ MODGIRL, The Desert Studs dancers, and yours truly – The Palm Springs Guys! Delicious drinks & bites were provided by Lulu’s, and a portion of the proceeds benefited the LGBTQ Center of the Desert. Keep an eye out for next year’s rooftop event as tickets went fast this year!
George Michael Reborn at the Festival Marketplace
George Michael Reborn graced the Palm Canyon Drive Main Stage this year, which was almost as good as the man himself. They definitely brought the energy and nostalgia we all know and love from the music!
Brunch with Miss Richfield 1981
The inimitable Miss Richfield 1981 brought Pride to a delightful close at EIGHT4NINE with a brunch that had everyone laughing, eating, and loving every minute.
What was your favorite Palm Springs Pride event this year? Let us know!
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Lucky for us locals, Pride is a year-round experience here in Palm Springs. It’s a haven of sunshine, community, and fabulous living with events that have locals and visitors alike feeling safe and free to be who they are.
From our stunning mid-century modern architecture to our vibrant nightlife, it’s easy to fall in love with this desert gem. Friendships are formed over martinis at local gay bars, memories are made lounging by resort pools, and the sunsets are pure magic. Whether it’s for Pride or a quiet weekend away, Palm Springs will always welcome you with open arms.
Palm Springs Pride 2024: The Ultimate Guide
Palm Springs Pride 2024 is coming! Get ready for another fabulous Pride weekend with our ultimate guide to events, parades, parties, and more in the heart of the desert.
Get ready, because Palm Springs Pride 2024 is about to take over the desert again! With a jam-packed schedule of events from October 30th to November 3rd, there’s something for everyone looking to live their best gay life. Whether you're into drag shows, film nights, block parties, or parades, Palm Springs Pride promises an unforgettable experience. Here’s your comprehensive guide to all the essential events you won’t want to miss.
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you want to include it too)!
Which Palm Springs Pride event are you most excited for this year? What's your go-to Pride outfit? Let us know in the comments!
In the meantime, here is our Ultimate Guide to Palm Springs Pride 2024!
Palm Springs Pride 2024 Events Map
🖤 Oct 24 - 27 | Palm Springs Leather Pride
Where: Hotel Zoso, 150 S Indian Canyon Dr, Palm Springs (Official Host Hotel) & Multiple Locations
Kick off Pride with an enticing weekend of sexual liberation at this year’s Palm Springs Leather Pride! From pool parties to play parties, they’ve got everything your dark leather heart could ask for. Don’t miss the Just For Fans meetup at Blackbook, the Dark Alley Marketplace at Tool Shed, or the Go Deep! dungeon & play party at Hotel Zoso.
🎬 Oct 30 - Film Night: Tom of Finland & Selected Shorts | 6:00 PM – 9:00 PM
Where: Palm Springs Cultural Center, 2300 E Baristo Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92262, USA
Kick off Pride with an evening celebrating the Tom of Finland Foundation's 40th Anniversary. Enjoy a mix of art, film, and cocktails in honor of the foundation’s legacy and cultural impact.
🌈 Oct 31 - Arenas District Stage | 5:00 PM – 10:00 PM
The Pride celebrations start in the heart of Palm Springs' gayborhood Arenas District! Join the crowd for an evening of music, dancing, and festivities that set the tone for the days ahead.
🕺 Oct 31 - Día de la Reina Featuring Neon Trees | 5:00 PM – 10:30 PM
Where: Arenas District Pride Stage, 302 E Arenas Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92262, USA
NEON TREES will headline this free block party celebration dedicated to the Queens and Kings of Palm Springs. It’s a night traditionally known for ghouls and goblins, but this year, it’s all about reveling in fabulousness.
🎉 Nov 1 - Arenas District Block Party & Pride Weekend Kickoff 2024 | 4:00 PM – 11:00 PM
Celebrate the start of Pride weekend with high-energy DJs, dancing, and food trucks. The Arenas District transforms into the ultimate party zone with outdoor beverage lounges and house music that will keep you dancing all night long.
🎭 Nov 1 - La Cage Aux Folles - VIP Performance | 7:00 PM – 10:00 PM
Where: Palm Canyon Theatre, 538 N Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, CA 92262
This VIP performance is a must-see! Enjoy a pre-show reception with champagne, light bites, and luscious desserts during intermission. After the performance, meet the cast and capture some memorable photos.
🦖 Nov 1 - Jurassic Drag at Oscar’s | 7:00 PM & 9:30 PM
Get ready for a prehistoric performance featuring the legendary Coco Peru, Jackie Beat, Sherry Vine, and Varla Jean Merman. This show combines musical spectaculars and comedy, showcasing some of the most talented drag queens who have collectively "survived a hostile world" for millions of years (in drag time, that is).
🕺 Nov 1-2 - DESERTOPIA
Where: The Sonoran / Infusion Beach Club Hotel / Palms Springs Surf Club
A very queer celebration of music, dance, art and a uniquely Palm Springs experience. Featuring a caftan-laden pool party, a club night of extravagant proportions and an outdoor afternoon festival featuring the finest in queer talent and music under the sun and stars in the majestic backdrop of Mt. San Jacinto.
🕺 Nov 1-3 - PRIDE MASSIVE / PALM SPRINGS
Where: RIVIERA RESORT & SPA (Formerly Margaritaville), 1600 N Indian Canyon Dr, Palm Springs.
Beginning with a star-studded "Drag-A-Licious" drag show into three massive pool parties. "Drag-A-Licious" at 7:30 PM. This spectacular drag show features an all-star lineup of Ru Girls (aka Drag Race Queenz), including Kimora Blac, Shannel, Roxxxy Andrews, Jorgeous, Kylie Sonique Love, and Vanessa Vanjie Mateo.
👑 Nov 1-3 - Miss Dina Martina Halloween
Where: Revolution Stage Company, 611 South Palm Canyon Drive, Palm Springs
Dina Martina returns to Palm Springs with a blend of surreal comedy and “tragically funny” performance. This drag legend is known for leaving audiences in hysterics, so don’t miss out on this experience!
🕺 Nov 1-3 - Desert Heat Palm Springs Pride
Where: Hotel Zoso, 150 S Indian Canyon Dr, Palm Springs
Paul Nicholls & Justin David present The Biggest Parties of Palm Springs Pride with 3 Days, 5 Events, and 12 All Star DJs – including BRUT, HEAT Pool Party, The GPS, PARADISE Pool Party, and SUPER SUNSET TEA CLOSING PARTY.
🏃 Nov 2 - Palm Springs Pride 5k Run and Walk | 8:00 AM – 10:00 AM
Where: W Chino Dr & Belardo Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92262
Join the Palm Springs Front Runners & Walkers for a 5K event to raise funds for local LGBTQ+ organizations. All ages and abilities are welcome to participate in this annual community-building event.
🛍️ Nov 2 - Festival Marketplace and Entertainment | 11:00 AM – 11:30 PM
Don’t miss SISTER SLEDGE at 8:00 P.M. on the Palm Canyon Drive Main Stage. The marketplace on Palm Canyon Drive opens up, featuring a diverse array of artists, food, beverages, and shopping. It’s the heart of Pride where you can sip, sashay, and celebrate with friends.
🏊 Nov 2 - Rainbow Splash Pool Party | 12:00 PM – 4:00 PM
Where: CCBC Resort, 68-300 Gay Resort Dr, Cathedral City, CA 92234
Cool off with a splash at CCBC Resort's pool party. Your ticket includes day-pass resort access and music by DJ Bobby. Dive in and relax with friends old and new!
🎶 Nov 2 - Arenas District Official Block Party 2024 | 4:00 PM – 11:00 PM
The biggest free LGBTQ+ street party in Palm Springs takes over the Arenas District. The bars and businesses will be packed to the rafters with people dancing to DJs under the stars. Open-air beverage lounges and revelers fill the streets to celebrate Pride.
🎤 Nov 2 & 3 - Shakira “Las Mujeres Ya No Lloran” World Tour at Acrisure Arena
On November 2nd, Shakira kicks off the North American leg of her world tour at Acrisure Arena in Greater Palm Springs. It’s your chance to see this GRAMMY® Award-winning artist perform live.
🏳️🌈 Nov 3 - Palm Springs Pride Parade | 10:00 AM - Noon
Where: Palm Canyon Dr from Tachevah to Amado
The iconic parade steps off in the Uptown Design District, making its way through downtown Palm Springs in a riot of color, music, and joy. It’s the highlight of Pride weekend, filled with vibrant floats and community pride.
🥂 Nov 3 - Palm Springs Pride on the Rooftop | 9:00 AM - 2:00 PM
Where: Flannery Exchange, 750 North Palm Canyon Drive, Palm Springs
Party with a parade view! This rooftop celebration includes music, drinks, bites, and plenty of fun with local celebs like DJ MODGIRL, The Desert Studs, and yours truly – The Palm Springs Guys! Presale tickets include two free drinks from the full bar. Delicious drinks & bites provided by Lulu’s. In addition to the GA tickets, there are some limited parking passes and 6-pack VIP table options available too (yaasss, VIP)! Limited parking available for purchase as well. Benefitting the LGBTQ Center of the Desert. Tickets now on sale – and use the discount code PSGUYS to get $5 off general admission tickets.
🛍️ Nov 3 - Festival Marketplace and Entertainment | 11:00 AM – 6 PM
Don’t miss GEORGE MICHAEL REBORN on the Palm Canyon Drive Main Stage. The marketplace on Palm Canyon Drive continues, featuring a diverse array of artists, food, beverages, and shopping. It’s the heart of Pride where you can sip, sashay, and celebrate with friends.
🍳 Nov 3 - Brunch with Miss Richfield 1981 | 1:00 PM
Where: EIGHT4NINE Restaurant & Lounge, 849 N Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs
End your Pride weekend on a high note with brunch hosted by the drag legend Miss Richfield 1981. Her interactive format, homespun warmth, and edgy improv promise an unforgettable experience.
Why Palm Springs Pride is a Must-Visit
Palm Springs is more than just a city; it’s a year-round playground where the sun shines and the LGBTQ+ community thrives. With its welcoming atmosphere, breathtaking desert landscapes, and endless array of cultural events, it’s the ultimate destination to celebrate love, equality, and pride. So come for Pride, stay for the friendships, the nightlife, and the promise of unforgettable memories. See you soon in Palm Springs! 🏳️🌈
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10 Best Gay Bars in Palm Springs for Your Next Gaycation Getaway
Discover the 10 best gay bars in Palm Springs for an unforgettable gaycation getaway. From chill vibes to dance floors, explore the top gay-friendly spots in the Arenas district and beyond. Your ultimate guide to Palm Springs gay nightlife!
Palm Springs is a destination-state-of-mind for gay men looking to let their guard down and embrace their inner selves. With our stunning desert landscapes, year-round sunshine, and thriving LGBTQ+ scene, there’s nowhere quite like Palm Springs for a fun-filled gaycation getaway.
So let’s talk about the gay bars! Our city is sprinkled with fun and flirtatious nightlife gems, from cozy neighborhood watering holes to dance clubs. While there is much more to the magic of Palm Springs than simply getting our drink on, I always like to remember that our gay history is rooted in bar culture. Undercover gay bars run by the brave few were where we first found our community in stealth – and it wasn’t that long ago when it was extremely dangerous to do so. In many other parts of the world, it’s still dangerous just to be gay – let alone the kind of out-and-proud we get to be here in Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley. So, the next time you’re here in Palm Springs, raise a glass to our community and how far we’ve come!
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you love it too)!
In the meantime, here are our votes on the 10 Best Gay Bars in Palm Springs! 🥂🌴
The 10 Best Gay Bars in Palm Springs:
1. Blackbook Bar & Kitchen
Winner of Desert Sun's Best Restaurant in 2020, Blackbook is the real "chill bar" in the Arenas district. Its sleek, industrial style creates the perfect atmosphere for relaxing with friends or making new ones. Plus, they boast some of the best bar food in Palm Springs! Whether you’re looking to meet new friends at their welcoming bar and communal tables or just want a laid-back spot to unwind, Blackbook has you covered. Visit Website
2. Chill Bar
The coolest gay bar and dance club (pun fully intended) in Palm Springs as far as we’re concerned. Chill Bar is a beloved staple in the Arenas district, offering drag bingo, go-go boys, and those iconic disco-ball male statues that make for perfect Instagram moments. It’s where you go when you want to let loose and get your dance on (on the weekends), or just be unapologetically you any night of the week. Their Monday night happy hours are some of the best (and cheapest) in town too ;) Visit Website
3. Dicks
Dicks is all about cruising, drinking, and having a blast. It’s cruising culture at its most traditional, and that’s why we love it. This Arenas district gem is gay-owned, operated, and dedicated to serving the gay community. The drinks are strong and so are the bartenders. Their Friday happy hour is even more affordable (but the drinks are just as strong). With an unapologetically bold vibe, Dicks wants you to come, have fun, and keep cumming (or coming) back for more. Visit Website
4. Hunters
Hunters has been the go-to gay bar and dance club in Palm Springs for over 20 years. With the longest (Friday) happy hour in the Valley, this Arenas district hotspot serves up drag shows, karaoke, and DJs that keep the dance floor packed all night long. It’s loud, proud, and always entertaining. It’s also an in-season destination hot spot for bachelorette parties these days. We realize our gay community has mixed feelings about that, so consider yourself warned. Visit Website
5. One Eleven Bar
Formerly known as Studio One 11, One Eleven Bar has everything you need for a memorable night out. With weekly drag shows, karaoke, and live local entertainment (they’ve even got a grand piano they magically roll off and on stage!), it’s a versatile spot where old friends meet new ones. One Eleven is also home to Vanity’s Dollhaus, and lots of Ru Girls (Ru Paul’s Drag Race) Queen make cameo appearances there as well. Free entry and good vibes make this the top pick in Cathedral City. Visit Website
6. Quadz
Quadz is our kind of video "sports bar" — but swap the sports for showtunes, popular, classic, and gay-iconic film & TV moments that gay men LOVE to sing and monologue along to! The also host ongoing karaoke and weekly events. The Arenas district wouldn’t be the same without this TV bar, where everyone gets to revel in gay culture and music nostalgia. Visit Instagram
7. Roost Lounge
This neighborhood bar in Cathedral City offers a welcoming atmosphere where all are free to "roost." With ongoing weekly entertainment and karaoke, Roost Lounge is perfect for a laid-back evening out in Cat City. It’s a bit of an older crowd of regulars, but entertainment always brings a mixed crowd to the nest. Visit Website
8. Streetbar
Open since 1991, Streetbar is a Palm Springs institution! Mostly known as drawing an older crowd, this neighborhood bar is a favorite among locals and tourists alike. Known for their strong, cash-only drinks, they also serve up cabaret and karaoke to keep the party going. Visit Website
9. Tool Shed
The last remaining leather bar in Palm Springs (RIP, Barracks!), Tool Shed is all about that warm sands cruising scene. With daily happy hours and themed nights like Thursday's "Underwear Nights," it's the place to be for a more fetish-forward adventure. It also happens to be right across the street from Club 541 – our newest (and only) sex club. Just saying ;) Visit Website
10. Toucans Tiki Lounge
Dance your heart out at this no-attitude bar, known for its friendly patrons, great music, and packed dance floor. With regular drag shows, live performances, and Sunday tea dances, Toucans Tiki Lounge is the ultimate spot to let your inner diva shine. Visit Website
Comparisons:
Hunters vs. Chill Bar: Both offer lively dance floors, but Hunters is known for its lengthy happy hour, while Chill Bar shines with its variety of drag events and go-go boys.
Blackbook Bar & Kitchen vs. One Eleven Bar: Blackbook is all about a sleek, modern vibe with its industrial style and whiskey selection, while One Eleven Bar gives off a more classic, piano-bar ambiance with a mix of karaoke and live entertainment.
Tool Shed vs. Dicks: Tool Shed caters to the leather and cruising scene with themed nights, while Dicks offers a more laid-back cruising experience with more of a dive bar feel.
Palm Springs: Your Next Gaycation
Palm Springs is the place to be for a fun, flirty, and fabulous gaycation getaway. Whether you’re dancing the night away at Chill Bar or enjoying a chill evening at Blackbook, there’s a spot here for every mood. Plus, with an inviting community, making new friends, having new experiences, and creating lasting connections is practically a given. It's easy to see why this desert oasis has become a haven for gay men. So pack your harness, put on your best swimwear, and come experience the magic of Gay Palm Springs for yourself!
Top Sushi Restaurants in Palm Springs: Serving you fish, Queen!
Planning your next gaycation? Be sure to include some of the best sushi restaurants in Palm Springs along your journey. From Sandfish Sushi & Whiskey modern vibe to Ponzu Sushi’s traditional fare, find out where to dine in style. We’re serving you fish, Queen!
Palm Springs is a vibrant playground for gay men looking to live their best lives. Whether you’re in town for the sun, the fun, or the stunning landscapes, one thing you can't miss out on is the… sushi?
We realize that “fresh fish” isn’t the first thing that comes to mind when you’re thinking about the desert. But, YES, Palm Springs has some fabulous sushi spots that cater to all tastes and styles. 🍣 😋
What’s your favorite sushi roll? Have you visited any of these sushi spots in Palm Springs? Which Palm Springs sushi restaurant are you excited to try next? Tell us your best Palm Springs dining story!
If you have any particular favorites you feel should absolutely be included in this article, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you love it too)!
So, if you’re fishy queens like we are, here are our votes on the Top Sushi Restaurants in Palm Springs!
Sandfish Sushi & Whiskey
1556 N Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, CA 92262
Sandfish Sushi & Whiskey offers an eclectic mix that satisfies both sushi purists and adventurous eaters. We’re talking innovative sushi rolls paired with a selection of fine whiskeys. The ambiance is chic, making it a perfect spot for the sophisticated yet casual dinner. If the LA vibe is your style, then you’ll likely be a fan of what Sandfish is serving up.
Ponzu Sushi
100 W Tahquitz Canyon Way UNIT 130, Palm Springs, CA 92262
Ponzu Sushi is the newest kid on the block, located right in front of the “Forever Marilyn” Marilyn Monroe statue and the Kimpton Rowan Hotel. With its focus on fresh ingredients and friendly atmosphere, this restaurant offers a range of traditional and inventive sushi rolls as well as creative concoctions. It's an excellent spot in a prime downtown location for those who appreciate a mix of classic and contemporary sushi flavors.
TAKA SHIN
641 N Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, CA 92262
If you’re looking for simplicity and authenticity, TAKA SHIN is the place to try. This spot offers an authentic Japanese dining experience with meticulously crafted sushi. The chefs are highly skilled, ensuring that each piece of sushi is a work of art. It’s a minimalist, unpretentious atmosphere that is as relaxing as it is delicious. That said, I’d like a bit more sashimi for that price tag please!
Shabu Shabu Zen and Sake Bar
71680 Hwy111 #F, Rancho Mirage, CA 92270
While not directly in Palm Springs – and not technically a sushi spot – this might be our favorite spot to rave about of all. Located in nearby Rancho Mirage, Shabu Shabu Zen and Sake Bar is a family-owned Japanese restaurant that offers a unique dining experience. Specializing in shabu-shabu (think Japanese fondue) and offering a great selection of sake, this intimate spot is perfect for those looking to enjoy a flavorful, authentic, and interactive meal. Reservations are recommended due to limited capacity. This is as authentic Japanese cuisine as it gets out here in the desert! Shout-out to the guys (owners) at Wabi Sabi Japan Living in Palm Springs – a home goods retail store that imports tableware, Sake, chopsticks, cookware and food from Japan and Asia – for first introducing us to this place!
Torakichi Ramen
5001 Ramon Rd, Ste 2 A, Palm Springs, CA 92264
Ok, this is not a sushi place at all. But sticking with the Japanese cuisine-theme, Torakichi Ramen offers some fabulous ramen at a very reasonable price. And good thing because it’s really the only ramen joint in town. It’s in the Staples complex out by the box stores at S Gene Autry Trail (Highway 111) and Ramon Rd, so it’s worth a pit stop after you’re done collecting paint swatches at Lowes.
Happy Sushi
155 S Palm Canyon Dr B-7, Palm Springs, CA 92262
Happy Sushi lives up to its name, serving a joyful dining experience with a wide variety of sushi rolls. It’s a more laid-back spot, better suited for lunch in our opinion – though the happy hour deals are also enticing. It’s not gourmet, so lower your expectations a bit, but you certainly won’t leave hungry.
Joyce’s Sushi (Palm Springs)
425 S Sunrise Way F-2, Palm Springs, CA 92264
Joyce’s Sushi is another new kid in town, and a hidden gem in Palm Springs. Their sister (and primary) location in Rancho Mirage has always been a quality spot. Now, with their second location in the Ralph’s shopping plaza (at Sunrise & Ramon), Joyce’s offers a cozy atmosphere with a very fresh menu that features a mix of traditional and innovative sushi rolls. They even have a “big whole tuna cutting show” every week if you’ve ever been curious where your sashimi comes from. But be aware: their website’s banner reads “In God We Trust,” and they are a bit God-heavy in their promotion. That said, if you decide to eat there, we fully encourage you to bring your posse of fearless, fabulous gay friends with you ;)
If you’re hungry for more, check out our The Perfect Gay Getaway in Palm Springs for the Solo Traveler article and our Best Dining in Gay Palm Springs article.
If you’re curious to learn more about Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley surrounding desert cities, check out Glen Nadeau’s Living in Palm Springs California YouTube channel. From hidden gems to best restaurants to best neighborhoods, uncover the magic of Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley with us as Palm Springs Guy (and local Realtor) Glen Nadeau guides you through the ins-and-outs of our vibrant Southern California desert haven!
Beyond the gay wonderland that is our low-desert oasis, Palm Springs is also about eclectic culinary experiences. The sushi restaurants themselves are even diverse, offering everything from authentic Japanese to creative and refreshing sushi rolls. The year-round warm climate makes sushi an always-refreshing option. And the friendly atmosphere always makes it easy to meet new people and form lasting connections. So pack your bags and get ready for a fabulous getaway in Gay Palm Springs!
Why The Barracks Bar is Closing: The Facts and Speculations
The significance of The Barracks Bar in Cathedral City and its upcoming closure on August 4, 2024 – and why Palm Springs still remains the ultimate gay travel destination.
The vibrant LGBTQ+ community in Cathedral City, California (aka Cat City), is about to lose a beloved landmark. The Barracks Bar, a renowned gay leather bar, will shut its doors for the last time on Sunday, August 4, 2024. This closure marks the end of an era for many of us who have found camaraderie and acceptance within its walls.
Despite this loss, Palm Springs remains an unbeatable destination for gay travelers, offering vibrant nightlife, cultural events, welcoming atmosphere – and an unmatched escape for gay men seeking a fun, sex-positive getaway.
Naturally, there have been a whirlwind of rumors going around about the reasons behind the Barrack’s sudden farewell. After further investigating things ourselves, here are some facts and speculations that make up our take as to why the Barracks Bar is closing.
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know.
A Leather & Kink Cornerstone
Founded in 1992 as WOLF's, The Barracks Bar quickly became a cornerstone for the leather and kink community here in the greater Palm Springs area. Renamed and rebranded over the years, The Barracks earned a reputation for hosting the world's most-attended Sunday Beer Bust and other enticing leather events. For 31 years, it served as a significant gathering spot, fostering a strong sense of community and providing a safe haven for its patrons.
Despite its popularity, The Barracks faced mounting challenges. For one, the City of Cathedral City significantly reduced the bar's occupancy, demanding over $100,000 in upgrades to the aging building. These requirements, coupled with ongoing disputes and speculations about lewd conduct, ultimately led to the decision to close.
In a heartfelt message, Scott Murchison, owner of Barrack’s Bar and Dick’s on Arenas, announced the closure and hinted at future plans for The Barracks brand. The bar's license to serve alcohol will expire on August 5, 2024, but the brand is set to continue its legacy in Phoenix, Arizona.
Unanswered Questions and Community Impact
The exact reasons behind the state of California's decision to “revoke” The Barracks' liquor license remain unclear. The California Department of Alcoholic Beverage Control has stated that no final disciplinary actions have been taken, leaving room for speculation and confusion. Here are some of the most discussed reasons behind the closure:
City Disputes and Building Upgrades
The City of Cathedral City reduced the bar's occupancy and demanded over $100,000 in upgrades to the old building. These requirements were significant and may have played a crucial role in the decision to close.
Lewd Conduct Allegations
There have been allegations that The Barracks hosted lewd conduct, leading to scrutiny from the state. However, the specifics and validity of these allegations still remain unclear.
State Liquor License Issues
Owner Scott Murchison announced that the state of California is set to “revoke” The Barracks' liquor license as of August 5, 2024. However, the Department of Alcoholic Beverage Control has stated that no final disciplinary actions have been taken yet, adding to the confusion surrounding the closure.
Speculations of Financial and Structural Issues
Some speculate that the building's age required substantial financial investment for necessary upgrades. There are also rumors that the owners wanted to move the business to a new location for personal reasons.
Community and Emotional Impact
The closing of The Barracks has left the local gay community heartbroken. Many of us view it as a significant loss of a cultural and social hub that has been a part of our lives for over three decades.
The End of an Era and a New Beginning
These reasons combined paint a complex picture of why The Barracks is closing. If you’d like to go even deeper down the rabbit hole of speculations, check out the GAY MEN OF PALM SPRINGS CA Facebook Group.
Regardless of the specifics, the bar's departure marks the end of an era for our gay leather and kink community. We remain hopeful that the owners of The Barracks recognize the profound impact the bar has had over the years – specifically in the greater Palm Springs area. Its contribution to fostering a sense of belonging and solidarity has been unparalleled in the area. As the owners move forward with their plans, we hope they understand the deep void their departure leaves and the significance of what they built for the community.
So what's next? The future of the site remains uncertain. Whether another gay leather and kink bar will emerge in Cathedral City or another part of the Coachella Valley is also unknown. However, there is a strong desire within the community for someone to step up and fill this void. The legacy of The Barracks demonstrates the need for such spaces – safe and welcoming spaces – and we can only hope a new establishment will rise to continue serving the community with the same spirit and dedication. Until then, the memories and connections forged at The Barracks will be cherished and missed deeply.
Why Gay Palm Springs is Still a Must-Visit
The spirit of Palm Springs' LGBTQ+ community still remains vibrant and strong. Palm Springs offers an unparalleled experience for gay men looking to explore their wild side. From the ever-popular gay bars in the Arenas District in downtown Palm Springs to the numerous LGBTQ+-owned businesses, and clothing-optional resorts for men-only, there are endless opportunities to connect, celebrate, and make lasting memories here.
If you’re curious to learn more about what a playground Palm Springs is for gay men, you can start by checking out our articles on The Best Sex Shops and Adult Play Gear for Gay Men in Palm Springs and Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs.
The Barracks Bar will close its doors on August 4, 2024, so go pay your respects and get your drink one last time before they do.
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Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs
Indulge in ultimate relaxation at the top gay men's spas in Palm Springs. Rejuvenate with luxurious treatments, stunning settings, and the best places to unwind in desert paradise. We are a gay man’s guide to living your best gay life in Palm Springs.
Palm Springs is the ultimate desert oasis for gay men seeking fun, relaxation, and fun. Whether you're planning a weekend getaway or a longer retreat, there are so many gay men's spas and resorts to help you unwind that our fabulous city has to offer. Palm Springs is known for its warm weather, endless sunshine, stunning landscapes, and welcoming atmosphere. We’ve got a variety of luxurious spa and massage experiences for everyone under the sun – and lucky for us, many of them cater specifically to gay men.
What are your favorite spas and resorts for gay men here in Palm Springs?
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this post, please email us and let us know.
In the meantime, here are our votes on the Best Gay Men's Spas in Palm Springs!
But first… Spa and Massage Etiquette
It’s important you understand the spectrum of experiences here in Gay Palm Springs when you’re getting pampered. Some say that anything goes here, but don’t just assume that because your massage therapist (for example) is super hot and his touch is even hotter that your massage will result in a happy ending. Just as is the case in cruising culture, you must always carry a mutual respect with everyone you come into contact with. Massage services are professional services. Of course, every “professional” has rules of their own, but always assume you are in good professional hands and be careful not to cross any lines. Now, just take a deep breath in… And relax ;)
Top Spas and Massages in Palm Springs for Gay Men
Men's Wellness Retreat
Palm Springs Men's Wellness Retreat is an exclusive massage spa designed by men for men located in downtown Palm Springs. It offers peaceful private treatment rooms as well as an upscale wet room with a table shower. Luxury products including coconut oil, wine scrubs, milk scrubs, and professional large size massage tables for additional comfort are part of their services. They also offer their services at the most competitive rates in downtown Palm Springs.
Men's Grooming Spot
The only complete men’s spa in the Coachella Valley, Men's Grooming Spot is the destination for men to relax, recoup, renew, and just be. Their spa services are specialized to provide men with a well-rounded experience, ensuring that every visit is a pampering one.
Palm Springs Gay Massage
Pamper yourself with a soothing and rejuvenating massage at Palm Springs Gay Massage. Services include massage therapy, Swedish massage, deep tissue massage, and sensual massage to soothe tight muscles and relieve stress. They also offer same-day appointments and gay massage services seven days a week.
Gay Wellness
Gay Wellness is an online platform that connects clients with quality gay massage therapists and wellness practitioners. More than just a directory, Gay Wellness is a hub for connection and wellness in a friendly, safe, and inclusive environment.
Top Gay Saunas and Bathhouses in Palm Springs for Gay Men
Palm Springs is a unique destination when it comes to its sex-positive offerings. You won’t find traditional gay bathhouses or gay saunas here (yet) like you might find in bigger cities. Instead, these types of amenities and play areas are infused into our many fabulous boutique resorts for men-only – all of which are clothing-optional (aka swimsuit-optional), and some of which even offer day passes and night passes for those who are more interested to play vs. stay (keep reading)…
That said, it’s worth a pit-stop at CLUB541 – Palm Springs’ newest (and hottest) sex club. It’s the ultimate playground for gay men seeking a thrilling, sex-positive adventure when the sun goes down. Check out our CLUB541: Discover Palm Springs' Newest Sex Club article to learn more about it.
Top Spa Resorts in Palm Springs for Gay Men
Santiago Resort
Located in the heart of Palm Springs, Santiago Resort is an exclusive boutique hotel for gay men. Staying at Santiago feels like a never ending spa day. The resort's serene atmosphere and top-notch service make it a must-visit for those looking to unwind in luxury. Check out their brother properties Twin Palms Resort and Descanso Resort for an equally pampered and luxurious stay.
The Hacienda at Warm Sands
This dreamy gay resort is landscaped with palms and backed by the stunning San Jacinto Mountains. The Hacienda offers a tranquil spa experience designed to help you unwind and relax. It's the perfect spot for those seeking a peaceful retreat.
Desert Paradise Gay Men’s Resort
Desert Paradise is aptly named, offering a wonderful escape with excellent spa-like amenities. Guests rave about the superb staff and the relaxing pool area, making it a perfect destination for those looking to unwind in comfort and style.
CCBC Resort Hotel
CCBC Resort Hotel is more than just a place to stay and play – it's an experience. This all-men’s resort features spa-like amenities and play areas. The resort's cruisy social scene and relaxing atmosphere make it a must-visit for any curious gay traveler. They even offer day passes.
All Worlds Resort
Known for its cruisy vibe and welcoming community, All Worlds Resort also offers spa-like amenities and both indoor and outdoor maze play areas. They offer day passes as well, so be sure to check things out at your leisure.
Top Spas and Massages in Palm Springs for Everyone
The Spa at Séc-he
Recognized as the top spa in the U.S. for 2023, The Spa at Séc-he is a premier spa complex spanning over 73,000 square feet, renowned for its state-of-the-art treatments and therapies in a tranquil environment. It features 15 treatment rooms offering massages, facials, and body treatments, ensuring a holistic spa experience. Located at the Agua Caliente Cultural Plaza in the heart of Palm Springs, the spa blends rich heritage with healing treatments and luxurious amenities, including men's and women's bathhouses, a salon, fitness room, and outdoor mineral pools.
The Spa at Colony Palms
If you love a good White Lotus aesthetic as much as we do, The Spa at Colony Palms is a delightful sanctuary that will make you feel like you’re on set with Jennifer Cooliage. They offer luxurious treatments to relax your muscles, purify your body, and rejuvenate your spirit. Their spa menu includes a wide range of restorative massages, invigorating body wraps, and refreshing facials. Utilizing contemporary therapies, their holistic treatments are crafted to provide a tranquil experience and invigorate the senses. They carefully select natural, organic tools and products to ensure an exceptional experience.
Azure Palm Hot Springs Resort & Day Spa
Located just outside of town, Azure is a newer place to experience the desert’s legendary restorative hot springs. The star of this modern adults-only facility is the oversized outdoor pool filled with warm, soft, and odorless mineral water, plus two indoor and two outdoor spa pools naturally heated to different temperatures. Purchase a day pass to enjoy the spring-fed pools, cedar sauna, and relaxing lounging areas. Book a reasonably priced massage or mud wrap and receive complimentary admission to the mineral pools for the day of your treatment.
Come Visit Us in Gay Palm Springs
Visiting Gay Palm Springs is a fabulous idea for countless reasons. With year-round sunshine, a rich cultural scene, and a welcoming community, it's the perfect destination for making new friends and lasting connections. Whether you're here for the spas, the nightlife, or the stunning desert landscapes, Palm Springs offers something for every gay traveler. So pack your bags, book your spa appointments, and get ready to relax and rejuvenate in one of the most vibrant and inclusive destinations in the world.