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Why Summer Is the Best Time to Buy in Gay Palm Springs

Discover why summer is the best time to buy in the Palm Springs real estate market, how it’s giving buyers the upper hand – and why gay Palm Springs is calling your name.

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If you’ve ever stepped foot in Palm Springs and thought, “Could I just… stay forever?” – you’re not alone. Between the sunshine, sexy pool parties, and more mid-century modern eye candy than anywhere else, Palm Springs is the place gay dreams are made of. 

If you’re considering buying into a slice of this desert paradise, now might be the smartest (and hottest) time to do it.

If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us (and let us know why).

In the meantime, here’s why we think summer is the best time to buy in Gay Palm Springs.

It's (Currently) A Buyer's Playground

Yep, you heard that right. Palm Springs is still in a buyer’s market, which means you’ve got leverage, gurl. That means more wiggle room on price, better options, better terms, and the chance to actually sleep on it (without losing the deal). But fair warning: this won’t last much longer.

Hot Summers Are Ideal For Buyers

Palm Springs summers may be toasty, but that’s precisely why smart buyers are making their moves now. Fewer tourists means less competition – and sellers are more likely to negotiate when the city’s a little quieter. While everyone else is cooling off in the pool, savvy gays are locking in their desert dream homes.

Inventory Is Still Plentiful

There’s still plenty of inventory to choose from across Palm Springs' beautiful neighborhoods, from high-style condos in the historic Tennis Club district to sprawling mid-century marvels in Vista Las Palmas. Whether you're looking for a weekend retreat or your full-time queer sanctuary, the options are diverse.

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But Change Is Coming

Word on the street (and by street, we mean data from actual real estate economists) is that we could see a shift toward a seller’s market this fall. Translation: more buyers, less inventory, and tighter competition. So if you want in before the crowd, the time is now.

Book Those Private Tours

If you're ready to see for yourself, I (Glen Nadeau) am happy to be your Palm Springs real estate spirit guide. As a local expert (and one half of this fabulous duo behind The Palm Springs Guys), I know this market inside and out. Let’s book your private tours now and start your journey towards finding your gay desert dream home.

Don’t be shy. Call or text me at: 805-220-8097– or email me directly at: glen.nadeau@compass.com.

Why Palm Springs Is Always a Smart Idea

Palm Springs is like summer camp for grown-up gay men with free spirits and great taste. Whether it’s January or July, this desert oasis offers 350+ days of sunshine and a welcoming LGBTQ+ community that’s unmatched anywhere else. From world-class dining and mid-century-made-modern design to poolside flirtations and drag brunches, every season is gay pride here. 

Palm Springs is full of kindred spirits ready to become new friends. It will always be a smart investment – in your dream home, your community, and your quality of life.

Would you move to Palm Springs full-time if you could? What would your dream home look like? Let us know.

If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like: 


Curious About Buying, Selling, or Relocating?

In addition to being one half of The Palm Springs Guys – Glen Nadeau is one of Palm Springs’ top-producing Realtors, known for his no-pressure approach, deep market expertise, and genuine commitment to his clients. 

A member of The Caldwell & Linger Group – ranked a Top Real Estate Team by Palm Springs Life Magazine – Glen is also backed by COMPASS, which remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country. Glen takes great pride in knowing that his clients are in such good hands.

“Hospitality is what drives me because helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves.”

Visit Modern Living Palm Springs, or reach out to me directly. Ask me anything – I promise to give you much more  support than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.

Your Palm Springs Insider,

Glen Nadeau (pronounced “Ned-oh” as in “meadow”)

📱 Call or Text: 805-220-8097
📨 Email: glen.nadeau@compass.com
🔎 My Google Business Reviews ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️


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Drag & Fly Tours: Anita Doll’s Five Eras of Palm Springs

The five eras that shaped Palm Springs – from yesterday’s sacred springs to today’s LGBTQ+ mecca – through the eyes of local drag queen Anita Doll. Her Drag & Fly Tour blends history, humor, and high camp aboard Palm Springs’ most fabulous attraction.

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Gregory Douglass, Anita Doll & Glen Nadeau

Have you ever gotten Palm Springs history lessons from a drag queen on a tour bus with music videos, trivia, and actual prizes? Because that’s how we roll in the desert these days – literally. 

Recently, The Palm Springs Guys experienced the iconic Drag & Fly Tours hosted by Anita Doll and Miss B. Guided (aka Rosemary Galore), and Palm Springs has never been more fabulously educational.

Anita, a former journalist turned storytelling showgirl, guides guests through five distinct eras that shaped Palm Springs into the queer desert utopia it is today – all aboard a luxury “theater on wheels” that turns history into herstory. 

Thanks to Anita (a.k.a. JD Cargill), we now have a sassy, smart, and deeply thoughtful breakdown of Palm Springs’ queer-coded history – and as far as we’re concerned, it’s a theory worth considering.

If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us (and let us know why).

In the meantime, here is Drag & Fly Tour’s Anita Doll’s five eras of Palm Springs... 

Era 1: The Agua Caliente Era (Ancient–19th Century)

Cahuilla people courtesy of the Palm Springs Historical Society

Cahuilla people courtesy of the Palm Springs Historical Society

Before the movie stars and muscle gays, the Agua Caliente Band of Cahuilla Indians were the first to call Palm Springs home – for thousands of years before Western settlers. The sacred hot springs were the literal and spiritual lifeblood of this region.

They believed in at least three genders, recognizing a “Two-Spirit” identity long before Westerners caught up. Their worldview instinctively saw gender as non-binary, rooted in spiritual and social balance – which means that this level of Queer wisdom has been around longer than all 1 million seasons of Drag Race.

The spring, still bubbling beneath the luxurious Séc-he Spa, was much more than just a spa day back then. It was survival, spirituality, and sanctuary. The stage was being set for Palm Springs eventually becoming a place of healing, transformation, and deeper connection. 

In many ways, this era centers around the healing power of water – a resource so vital that it defined where and how people lived for generations.

Era 2: The Founding Mothers Era (Late 1800s–Early 1900s)

Nellie with her sons Owen and George. Photo courtesy of the Palm Springs Historical Society

Nellie with her sons Owen and George. Photo courtesy of the Palm Springs Historical Society

The early 1900s gave us the original wellness influencers: a fierce group of women who built guest houses, sanitariums, and health retreats around those mineral-rich waters and our refreshingly dry desert air.

Enter Nellie Coffman (who built the iconic Desert Inn in 1909), Pearl McCallum, Cornelia White, Ruth Hardy, and more. These ladies created what Anita calls the “Girl Power Era,” establishing Palm Springs as a healing hideaway, rooted in the belief that the mineral-rich waters and arid desert air offered therapeutic benefits – especially for those suffering respiratory conditions.

They were building empires before they could vote, honey.

Today, their impact still echoes. The site of the Desert Inn is now home to the Rowan Hotel, and the Marilyn Monroe statue is just a stone throw away – both symbols of modern Palm Springs still standing on historic ground.

Era 3: The Hollywood’s Playground Era (1920s–1960s)

Liberace in Palm Springs

Liberace in Palm Springs

Once word got out about Palm Springs, the stars began to descend. Why? Because Palm Springs was just far enough (100 miles) from Hollywood that paparazzi wouldn't follow. Locals still refer to this as the “100 mile” rule. 

Actors were also contractually obligated to still be close enough if they needed to be called into the studio last-minute. Palm Springs was the perfect escape.

Later, once cameras did arrive, the resorts were walled, gated, and gloriously hush-hush. Resorts were discreet, and owners were known for fiercely protecting their guests' privacy.

From the silent film era to the Rat Pack years, Palm Springs became a secret escape for the famous and fabulous during this era: Liberace, Rock Hudson, Truman Capote, Tallulah Bankhead, Marlene Dietrich, Cary Grant, and dozens more.

This was the era of mental health and personal freedom. Queer (but closeted) stars with “career-ending secrets” could live, love, and lounge under the radar – poolside martini in hand. 🍸

Notable venues included El Mirador, Ingleside Inn, the Desert Inn, the Oasis Hotel, and the Racquet Club (where Marilyn Monroe famously caught the eye of her agent).

Era 4: The Modernism Era (1940s–1970s)

The Sinatra House History with Piano Shaped Swimming Pool

Eventually, Hollywood’s elite stopped renting and started building.

As stars like Frank Sinatra and Bob Hope began buying and building homes, they hired the top architects of the day (now known as the Modern MastersAlbert Frey, Donald Wexler, William Krisel) to design custom homes that mirrored their liberated lives.

It was all about clean lines, indoor-outdoor living, and a fresh way of thinking – modernism as metaphor. Open floor plans met open sexuality, and a new aesthetic was born. Modernism symbolized freedom of thought and lifestyle – again tying back to health in terms of creative and personal expression.

The stars settled in, and the culture of design, art, and inclusivity blossomed. Even behind the scenes, queer influence shaped Palm Springs’ look and feel.

So next time you’re touring a MCM house in Palm Springs, remember that you’re walking through decades of queer-forward design thinking.

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Era 5: The Queer Era (1980s–Present)

Then came the 1980s. A dark time, indeed – but also one of resilience.

As AIDS devastated our community, many sick gay men came to Palm Springs seeking the same healing energy their predecessors had. Gay men from San Francisco who were HIV+ had nowhere else to turn because the only hospitals who would treat them were here in Palm Springs. They essentially came here to die – and be cared for with dignity until then.

This marked the beginning of Desert AIDS Project (now DAP Health) – and from there, something powerful bloomed.

Palm Springs became a safe haven for the LGBTQ+ community. Over the decades, a chosen family gathered: survivors, lovers, best friends, and allies. Now, it’s a place where representation reigns – from KGAY 106.5 FM to rainbow crosswalks and a majority-LGBTQ city council.

Today, inclusivity is a lifestyle here in Palm Springs: The city is now a global queer mecca, where identity is celebrated, and the healing, expression, and liberation continues.

The Common Thread: Health

As Anita brilliantly summarizes, health is the throughline across all five eras:

  • The Agua Caliente: Water as sacred life force

  • Founding Mothers: Wellness retreats in the healing desert air

  • Hollywood: Emotional and mental refuge

  • Modernism: Design as freedom of thought and spirit

  • Queer Era: Healing and community through crisis and recovery

Why You Belong Here, Too

Anita Doll’s Drag & Fly Tours

Anita Doll’s Drag & Fly Tours

Whether it’s the sacred wisdom of the Agua Caliente or the fierce resilience of the queer community during the AIDS crisis, Palm Springs has always been a place of transformation, freedom, and healing – especially for those of us seeking to live our best gay lives. And thanks to Anita Doll’s Drag & Fly Tours, this rich history is now more accessible and entertaining than ever.

So, if you're planning a visit (and you absolutely should), add this drag queen-hosted joyride to your must-do list. Between the sunshine, the architecture, the pool parties, and now the most fabulous sightseeing tour on wheels, Palm Springs proves again and again that there’s nowhere quite like it.

What’s your favorite piece of Palm Springs queer history? Share your experiences!

If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like: 


Curious About Buying, Selling, or Relocating?

In addition to being one half of The Palm Springs Guys – Glen Nadeau is one of Palm Springs’ top-producing Realtors, known for his no-pressure approach, deep market expertise, and genuine commitment to his clients. 

A member of The Caldwell & Linger Group – ranked a Top Real Estate Team by Palm Springs Life Magazine – Glen is also backed by COMPASS, which remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country. Glen takes great pride in knowing that his clients are in such good hands.

“Hospitality is what drives me because helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves.”

Visit Modern Living Palm Springs, or reach out to me directly. Ask me anything – I promise to give you much more  support than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.

Your Palm Springs Insider,

Glen Nadeau (pronounced “Ned-oh” as in “meadow”)

📱 Call or Text: 805-220-8097
📨 Email: glen.nadeau@compass.com
🔎My Google Business Reviews ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️


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5 Things We Always Tell Gay Friends Visiting Palm Springs for the First Time

Planning your first Palm Springs gaycation? Here are 5 things we always tell our gay friends visiting Palm Springs for the first time – insider vacation tips on weather, nightlife, resorts, and embracing your fabulous self.

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We’ve lived in Palm Springs for five years now, and let us tell you – there’s simply nowhere else quite like it. If you’re a gay man looking to live your best vacation fantasy (and maybe even flirt with the idea of staying for good), Palm Springs is the sun-soaked, speedo-clad, cocktail-in-hand escape of your dreams.

Palm Springs isn’t just gay-friendly – it’s practically gay-designed. From the moment you land, the mountains flirt with you, the boys wink at you, and the warm desert breeze whispers, “Take off your shirt, sexy.”

Whether you're coming to party, relax, explore, connect, or disconnect, here are the 5 things we always tell our gay friends before their first visit.

If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know (and let us know why)!

1. Yes, it’s hot here in the desert – but it’s not like how you imagine.

Here’s the truth: desert heat hits differently. If you’re coming from a humid place like NYC or DC, 80° there feels like 110°. But here, a dry 105° can actually feel... dare we say... refreshing. Or at least comfortable.

That said, don’t get cocky about it. The sun is strong, the booze is stronger, and the dehydration is real. Hydrate often (we love a reusable water bottle), layer on that SPF, and bring a fan you can snap open for dramatic effect (yaass, Queen).

Pro Tips:

  • Do your hiking, brunching, or grocery shopping early.

  • Head indoors mid-afternoon – think Palm Springs Art Museum exploration, or a stylish air-conditioned nap.

  • Take the Aerial Tramway to escape the heat – temps up there can be 20° cooler (and the views are magnificent)!

  • With more pools per capita than anywhere in the country, take a dip – day or night.

2. You’ll feel more seen here than anywhere else you’ve been – so embrace it.

Palm Springs is proudly over 40% LGBTQ+. That means wherever you go – whether it’s the farmer’s market, a drag brunch, or Trader Joe’s – you’ll feel like you belong here.

Don’t hold back. Hold hands. Rock the mesh tank. Flirt with strangers. Be the main character at brunch. Whether you’re 25 or 75 – a twink, a bear, or a daddy – you’re part of the tapestry here.

From our local government and police force to our local businesses and eateries – there’s something magical and deeply healing about being in a town where your queerness is celebrated.

3. Most of our resorts for men-only are clothing-optional – but that doesn’t mean what you think.

Yes, most of our resorts for men-only clothing-optional. But that can mean different things depending on where you stay.

Looking for a relaxed, classy vibe with a friendly crowd? Start with Santiago Resort – perfect for first-timers. Ready to crank up the steam? Casa Oliver brings the heat (and then some).

Etiquette 101:

  • Be yourself, but embrace the opportunity to be as free as you’d like.

  • Keep your phone to yourself (no photos!).

  • Respect everyone’s vibe – friendships and flings happen naturally.

And who knows? That stranger in the hot tub might just become your new bestie. It happens all the time here.

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4. Check out the theme parties – but pace yourself!

Palm Springs nightlife comes to life when a good theme calls. At Tool Shed, underwear night is always a popular weekly attraction. Be sure to wear your sexiest jock strap and leather harness for this – or make a pit stop at Gear Leather & Fetish next door.

Pro tip: the “Palm Springs pour” is not for amateurs. One drink here is often a double (and it’s still 90° outside), so sip wisely, gurrrl.

After Dark Suggestions:

  • Start at Tool Shed or Dicks on Arenas

  • Dance it out at Chill Bar or Quadz in the Arenas district after, or…

  • If you're in the mood for more... Club 541 (Palm Springs’ new sex club) is across the street.

  • Take a Lyft or Uber. Nobody looks cute getting a DUI in a harness.

5. During in-season (September–May), make those dinner reservations in advance – and leave time for a disco nap.

Palm Springs is a seasonal lady – and when she’s in-season, everyone’s out. Tables book up fast, especially at hot spots like:

Shows, concerts, and drag revues can start early (7 or 8 PM), but the bars don’t start hopping until 9 or 10. Our advice is to plan ahead for dinner, take a disco nap, then head out looking rested and radiant.

Why Gay Palm Springs Is Always a Good Idea

Year-round sunshine, breathtaking desert views, and one of the most welcoming LGBTQ+ communities in the world? Yes, please.

From chill pool days to wild theme nights, from world-class dining to once-in-a-lifetime friendships, Palm Springs invites you to strip off the expectations, dive into freedom, and just… be exactly who you are inside and out. You’ll come alive here.

If you could give one piece of advice to a gay friend visiting PS for the first time, what would it be? What surprised you most during your first visit to Palm Springs? Share your experiences!

If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs, Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs, and Santiago, Descanso & Twin Palms Resorts: A Three-Way Comparison.


Curious About Buying, Selling, or Relocating?

Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.

In addition to being one half of The Palm Springs Guys – Glen Nadeau is one of Palm Springs’ top-producing Realtors, known for his no-pressure approach, deep market expertise, and genuine commitment to his clients. 

A member of The Caldwell & Linger Group – ranked a Top Real Estate Team by Palm Springs Life Magazine – Glen is also backed by COMPASS, which remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country. Glen takes great pride in knowing that his clients are in such good hands.

“Hospitality is what drives me because helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves.”

Visit Modern Living Palm Springs, or reach out to me directly. Ask me anything – I promise to give you much more  support than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.

Your Palm Springs Insider,

Glen Nadeau (pronounced “Ned-oh” as in “meadow”)

📱 Call or Text: 805-220-8097
📨 Email: glen.nadeau@compass.com
🔎My Google Business Reviews ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️


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Ultimate Guide to 2025 Gay Summer Pool Parties in Palm Springs

Planning your summer escape to Palm Springs? Dive into the ultimate guide to 2025 gay pool parties in Palm Springs, featuring every splash-worthy LGBTQ+ event with sizzling poolside vibes happening this season.

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If you’re a gay man looking for the ultimate summer escape, there’s no better destination than Palm Springs. It’s where endless sunshine meets shirtless freedom, where poolside fantasies become sun-drenched realities, and where the social calendar is bursting with pool parties hotter than the desert pavement in July. 

Welcome to your Ultimate Guide to 2025 Gay Summer Pool Parties in Palm Springs – because in this town, the only thing that should be dry is your martini. 🍸

If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you love it too)!

Pro tip: check out all the Facebook Groups here in Palm Springs that cater to gay men for tips on additional private or invite-only parties happening throughout the summer as well.

In the meantime, here’s your one-stop splash zone. Bookmark it. Share it. Pack your sexiest speedos. 🩲💦

June 2025

July 2025

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Ongoing Throughout The Summer

  • Casa Oliver Sunday Poolside Socials
    Loverboy Sundays | Casa Oliver Hotel
    Clothing optional, poolside DJ vibes with Go Go Dancers, indoor & outdoor mazes 😈

  • CCBC Resort Pool Parties
    Ongoing | CCBC Resort, Cathedral City
    Clothing optional, ongoing parties 😈

  • GED Magazine Pool Parties
    Summer Dates TBA | Various Hotels | GED Magazine Events
    When the city’s favorite gay mag throws a party, you show up.

  • Gorilla Gay Bar
    Ongoing | Palm Springs
    Pool parties & various events popping up all over town!

Fall/Winter 2025 Highlights

  • PS Leather Pride Pool Mixers
    Oct 30 – Nov 2, 2025 | Hotel Zōsō & more
    Poolside + harness = yes please.

  • Palm Springs Pride Pool Parties (HEAT)
    Nov 6–9, 2025 | Hotel Zōsō
    Pride, poolside, and perfectly Palm Springs.

Why Visiting Gay Palm Springs Is Always a Fabulous Idea

Palm Springs isn’t just a year-round destination – it’s a lifestyle. With 350+ days of sunshine, world-class mid-century modern charm, and a famously vibrant gay scene, this desert oasis is the kind of place where you come for the pool party and stay for the community. Whether you're making lifelong friends over mimosas or spontaneous connections in a heated pool, Palm Springs is a place where gay men of all ages, shapes & sizes are embraced, celebrated, and invited to be exactly who they are.

First-timer or seasoned splash-goer – what’s your top tip for making the most of a Palm Springs pool party? Share your experiences!

If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs, The Best Sex Shops and Adult Play Gear for Gay Men in Palm Springs, and Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs.


Curious About Buying, Selling, or Relocating?

In addition to being one half of The Palm Springs Guys – Glen Nadeau is one of Palm Springs’ top-producing Realtors, known for his no-pressure approach, deep market expertise, and genuine commitment to his clients. 

A member of The Caldwell & Linger Group – ranked a Top Real Estate Team by Palm Springs Life Magazine – Glen is also backed by COMPASS, which remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country. Glen takes great pride in knowing that his clients are in such good hands.

“Hospitality is what drives me because helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves.”

Visit Modern Living Palm Springs, or reach out to me directly. Ask me anything – I promise to give you much more  support than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.

Your Palm Springs Insider,

Glen Nadeau (pronounced “Ned-oh” as in “meadow”)

📱 Call or Text: 805-220-8097
📨 Email: glen.nadeau@compass.com
🔎 My Google Business Reviews ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️


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Why the 2025 DBA Impact Awards Stole Our LGBTQ+ Hearts

A recap of the 2025 DBA Impact Awards in Palm Springs – celebrating LGBTQ+ changemakers, queer joy, and why gay travelers contribute so much to our vibrant, inclusive community here in the Coachella Valley!

Let’s get one thing straight – I mean, GAY. Because here in Palm Springs, we like our sunshine bright, our cocktails full, and our LGBTQ+ community loud and proud 365 days a year. And nowhere was our radiant community support more palpable than at the 2025 DBA Impact Awards this week – hosted by the Desert Business Association (DBA), our local LGBTQ+ and allied chamber of commerce.

For visitors and locals alike, events like these are a heartwarming reminder that Palm Springs isn’t just a destination – it’s a celebration of who we are.

What Are the DBA Impact Awards?

In case you’re new to town (hi, welcome, let’s grab a drink later), the Desert Business Association is the Coachella Valley’s only LGBTQ+ business chamber organization. Founded in 1979, DBA has been advocating for equality, inclusion, and economic empowerment for over 40 years.

Each year, the DBA Impact Awards shine a well-deserved spotlight on local businesses, nonprofits, and community members who uplift and inspire. From trailblazing trans advocates to queer-owned start-ups, this awards ceremony honors those making a meaningful difference across the desert – the tears were flowing like bottomless mimosas.

A Night to Remember

Presented at the Palm Springs Convention Center with a crowd full of style and chosen family vibes, the 2025 ceremony was surprisingly one of the more moving events we’ve attended. Emotional speeches, applause, and that signature Palm Springs charm created a space where love, recognition, and resilience took center stage.

Beyond the awards, the energy was actually the star of the show. The entire evening was an important reminder that this desert town continues to be a sanctuary where LGBTQ+ folks are not only safe, but celebrated.

Local Legends & Desert Pride

The entire evening flowed effortlessly thanks to the ever-charming Peter Daut of KESQ, who emceed with warmth, wit, and the kind of smile that should honestly have its own Instagram account. 

And then came the honors – a lineup of truly deserving community champions whose work uplifts our region every day. This year’s Impact Award recipients included:

Each acceptance speech was a love letter to the Coachella Valley – filled with tearful emotion, gratitude, and the kind of stories that reminded everyone in the room why this community is unlike anywhere else.

What’s more, the event raised funds to benefit Youth Educational Scholarships through Safe Schools Desert Cities, helping support the next generation of LGBTQ+ leaders. Because in Palm Springs, we don’t just talk about making a difference – we actually do it.

Why Gay Palm Springs Is Always a Good Idea

If you’re feeling pulled to a place where you can show up as your full, authentic, fabulous self – Palm Springs is it. With nearly 50% of the population identifying as LGBTQ+, our city has become a beacon for queer travelers from around the globe and a trailblazer for inclusivity – from our local government to our police force to our community itself.

Here’s what also makes it magical:

It’s not just the palm trees and the pool parties – it’s the people. The 2025 DBA Impact Awards reminded us why we fell in love with Palm Springs in the first place. The fearless and resilient, big-hearted humans who make this place feel like home, even if you’re just visiting.

So pack your short-shorts and come live your best gay life here in the desert. We’ll be here with clothes off (I mean, bells on).

Which local LGBTQ+ business or changemaker has made a difference in your life? Share your experiences with us!

If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs, The Best Sex Shops and Adult Play Gear for Gay Men in Palm Springs, and Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs.


Curious About Buying, Selling, or Relocating?

In addition to being one half of The Palm Springs Guys – Glen Nadeau is one of Palm Springs’ top-producing Realtors, known for his no-pressure approach, deep market expertise, and genuine commitment to his clients. 

A member of The Caldwell & Linger Group – ranked a Top Real Estate Team by Palm Springs Life Magazine – Glen is also backed by COMPASS, which remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country. Glen takes great pride in knowing that his clients are in such good hands.

“Hospitality is what drives me because helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves.”

Visit Modern Living Palm Springs, or reach out to me directly. Ask me anything – I promise to give you much more  support than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.

Your Palm Springs Insider,

Glen Nadeau (pronounced “Ned-oh” as in “meadow”)

📱 Call or Text: 805-220-8097
📨 Email: glen.nadeau@compass.com
🔎My Google Business Reviews ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️


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Santiago Resort Celebrates 30 Sexy Years of Gay Hospitality in Palm Springs

Celebrate 30 sexy years of elevated gay hospitality at Santiago Resort in Palm Springs, California – one of the longest-running clothing-optional gay men’s resorts in the desert. Discover why it’s still a top destination for gay travelers seeking sun, style, and safe spaces in Gay Palm Springs.

Let’s give a round of applause (and maybe a poolside mimosa toast) to Santiago Resort, which is marking its 30th anniversary this year – a major accomplishment that just might make it the longest continuously operating gay resort in all of Palm Springs! 👏 🥂

What started in 1995 as a vision for a safe, welcoming, and elevated experience for gay men has blossomed into one of the most celebrated destinations in the Coachella Valley. Today, Santiago is a rite of passage for anyone serious about soul-refreshing ways to celebrate who they are, no matter where they are coming from.

“Now more than ever, the gay community needs places like Santiago where we can feel safe and welcome,” says Santiago’s General Manager Kent Taylor. We couldn’t agree more!

Under new gay ownership since 2015, Santiago has been consistently refreshed and elevated while staying true to its core values of warmth, inclusivity, and luxury. With nearly 1,000 glowing 5-star reviews across Google and TripAdvisor, guests rave about its lush tropical landscaping, peaceful ambiance, and the friendliest team a naked gay man could ask for.

And let’s take a look at just a few enticing highlights:

  • 24 stylish King-bedded guest rooms with modern walk-in rain showers

  • The largest climate-controlled pool at any men’s resort in Palm Springs

  • Complimentary continental breakfast and poolside lunch daily

  • A bubbling spa, Insta-worthy outdoor shower, and shady new misted sun deck

It’s no wonder Santiago has racked up accolades like TripAdvisor’s Traveler’s Choice Award (for over 10 years running), "Best Gay Stay in the US" from GayCities, and OUTstanding Clothing Optional Resort by GED Magazine.

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Meet Santiago’s Brothers: Descanso & Twin Palms

Like any successful big brother, Santiago eventually gave rise to a family of equally fierce sibling resorts. In 2021, Descanso Resort opened its doors, offering another elevated gay men's resort experience with a luxe spa feel. Then in 2022, Twin Palms Resort joined the party, offering chic mid-century vibes in a sleek, private setting.

Here’s the quickie breakdown:

  • Santiago Resort: Lush, tranquil, and iconic. The OG.

  • Descanso Resort: Spa-like, elegant, and refined. Think enchanting, but sexy.

  • Twin Palms Resort: Stylish, social, and full of retro charm. The boys love this one.

Can’t decide which one suits your vibe best? Don’t stress – we wrote a full comparison just for you 👉 Santiago, Descanso & Twin Palms Resorts: A Three-Way Comparison

Why “Gay Palm Springs” Should Be Your Next Escape

If you’ve been yearning for the kind of place where you can bask in the sun, make instant connections, and enjoy world-class LGBT-centered experiences – Palm Springs is your next stop. Whether you’re traveling solo, with your partner, or with your gaggle of gays besties, there’s no shortage of unforgettable moments waiting for you here.

And with resorts like Santiago leading the charge, your next clothing-optional stay will be joining a 30-year legacy of queer joy, chosen family, and naked poolside rejuvenation.

Have you stayed at Santiago, Descanso, or Twin Palms? Which was your fave and why?

If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs, The Best Sex Shops and Adult Play Gear for Gay Men in Palm Springs, and Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs.


Curious About Buying, Selling, or Relocating?

In addition to being one half of The Palm Springs Guys – Glen Nadeau is one of Palm Springs’ top-producing Realtors, known for his no-pressure approach, deep market expertise, and genuine commitment to his clients. 

A member of The Caldwell & Linger Group – ranked a Top Real Estate Team by Palm Springs Life Magazine – Glen is also backed by COMPASS, which remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country. Glen takes great pride in knowing that his clients are in such good hands.

“Hospitality is what drives me because helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves.”

Visit Modern Living Palm Springs, or reach out to me directly. Ask me anything – I promise to give you much more  support than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.

Your Palm Springs Insider,

Glen Nadeau (pronounced “Ned-oh” as in “meadow”)

📱 Call or Text: 805-220-8097
📨 Email: glen.nadeau@compass.com
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Is Mid-Century Modern on Hulu Just Gay Fiction? Here’s the Real Palm Springs Tea

Thinking about vacationing in Palm Springs? Hulu’s Mid-Century Modern is fueling the fantasy, but the real-life version is even better. Here’s what gay life in Palm Springs actually looks like — and why it should be your next getaway.

Let’s be real: Mid-Century Modern on Hulu is everything Gay Palm Springs. Iconic architecture. Sarcastic gay men in their prime. Poolside drama. Linda Lavin.

But the real gag? You don’t have to binge a sitcom pretending to live your best gay life when you can actually be here surrounded by palm trees, pool floats, and Palm Springs mid-century perfection.

Because here in Palm Springs, it’s not a fantasy. It’s the lifestyle!

Whether you’re visiting for the first time or you’ve been flirting with the idea of moving here permanently (you wouldn’t be the first!), let’s break down what this Hulu hit got right, what it got hilariously wrong, and why Palm Springs is still the desert capital that gay dreams are made of.

If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know (and let us know why)!

In the meantime, here’s the real Palm Springs tea… 

Mid-Century Modern: Glammed-Up Fiction or Desert Reality?

In Mid-Century Modern, three gay besties — Bunny, Jerry, and Arthur — move into a mid-century house in Palm Springs after a funeral and proceed to live together, surrounded by martinis, misadventures, and passive-aggressive zingers. Throw in Bunny’s live-in mother Sybil, and you've got a cross between Golden Girls and Will & Grace – but make it desert-chic.

Is this what life’s really like for gay men here in Palm Springs? Honestly? Kind of. But it’s also way better than you can imagine.

Yes, the Architecture Really Is That Sexy

Palm Springs is internationally known for its mid-century modern architecture. We’re talking:

  • Butterfly rooflines

  • Clerestory windows

  • Vintage breeze blocks

  • Pools that belong on a Slim Aarons postcard

Whether you’re strolling through Twin Palms, Vista Las Palmas, or Deepwell Estates, you’ll see homes that make you feel like you're in an Architectural Digest spread — except with fewer stylists and more shirtless men walking their dogs (aka their babies).

Want to geek out on architecture before you visit? Check out our Palm Springs Guys mid-century modern self-guided tour (Google Maps GPS-ready!) and discover the magic of Desert Modernism architecture for yourself.

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Chosen Family Vibes? Very That.

The premise of friends becoming a chosen family? Not only realistic — it’s Palm Springs culture in a nutshell.

The community here is tight-knit, supportive, and refreshingly unbothered. Whether you’re single, partnered, throupled, or “it's complicated,” you’ll find your people here faster than you can say “poolside cocktail at 2.”

In fact, Palm Springs has the highest percentage of LGBTQ+ residents of any city in the U.S. That means the whole place is basically a gay friend group waiting to happen.

So… Should You Visit?

Uh, yes. Immediately. Especially now (considering the state our current government, if you can even call it governing). Palm Springs is like a double layer of protection for our beautiful, vibrant, and inclusive LGBTQ+ community and our allies here in Southern California. But I digress.

Mid-Century Modern may have put Palm Springs back on the map for Hulu-watching audiences, but the truth is — we’ve been living this dream in real time for years.

Here’s why gay men from across the country (and around the world) flock here year-round:

Weather That’s Practically a Drag Queen: Always Serving Looks

  • 300+ days of sunshine

  • Stunning mountain views in every direction (in the desert? Yes)!

  • Pool season is… every season

  • Even our winters are giving “hot tub and rosé”

Culture & Events That Keep It Cute

  • Modernism Week is a dream for design lovers

  • Palm Springs Pride is one of the largest, most inclusive and joyful in the country

  • Drag brunches, cabaret nights, spa days, and shopping galore

Basically: There’s always something going on, and you’ll never feel out of place doing it

A Place Where You’ll Actually Make Friends

Whether it’s happy hours at Chill Bar, lounging at your boutique resort, or exchanging flirtatious smiles at the guy across the table at FARM — making new friends (and maybe more?) is the Palm Springs way.

You’ll meet locals. You’ll meet travelers. You might even meet someone who convinces you to come back... permanently. Don’t say we didn’t warn you.

Final Thoughts: Palm Springs Is the Gay Getaway You Deserve

If you’re looking for a place that combines stylish relaxation, a welcoming LGBTQ+ community, and enough retro-chic vibes to make your Hulu watchlist jealous, Palm Springs is it.

Come for the mid-century fantasy — stay for the sunshine, culture, and community that makes real life here even better than the show. Whether you're in your 20s or your golden years, Palm Springs is ready to show you a good time on repeat.

Which Mid-Century Modern character are YOU — Bunny, Jerry, Arthur, or Sybil? Have you been to Palm Springs before? What’s your favorite spot? Share your experiences!

If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs, The Best Sex Shops and Adult Play Gear for Gay Men in Palm Springs, and Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs.


Curious About Buying, Selling, or Relocating?

In addition to being one half of The Palm Springs Guys – Glen Nadeau is one of Palm Springs’ top-producing Realtors, known for his no-pressure approach, deep market expertise, and genuine commitment to his clients. 

A member of The Caldwell & Linger Group – ranked a Top Real Estate Team by Palm Springs Life Magazine – Glen is also backed by COMPASS, which remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country. Glen takes great pride in knowing that his clients are in such good hands.

“Hospitality is what drives me because helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves.”

Visit Modern Living Palm Springs, or reach out to me directly. Ask me anything – I promise to give you much more  support than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.

Your Palm Springs Insider,

Glen Nadeau (pronounced “Ned-oh” as in “meadow”)

📱 Call or Text: 805-220-8097
📨 Email: glen.nadeau@compass.com
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The LGBTQ+ Realtor Connection: Where Inclusivity and Care Meet Expertise

Learn how our inclusive, care-centered Gay Realtor Referral Service can save you time and stress. Tailored for the LGBTQ+ community, we connect you with the perfect Realtor anywhere while offering ongoing support throughout your real estate journey.

Inclusivity and Care at the Forefront:
Real Estate Matchmaking, Reimagined

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As gay men and full-time Palm Springs residents, we understand the unique needs and desires of our LGBTQ+ community when it comes to real estate – no matter where you’re located. 

Since Palm Springs is a haven for LGBTQ+ individuals, it’s naturally our mission at The Palm Springs Guys to ensure it remains a safe, welcoming space for everyone. So if you’re buying or selling here in Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley, we’re here to guide your real estate journey with care and expertise.

But our reach doesn’t stop there. Through our robust personal network of LGBTQ+ Realtors across the globe, we can connect you with professionals who truly understand your lifestyle and priorities, wherever you are. 

With inclusivity and care at the forefront, our Gay Realtor Connection Referral Service is your new best friend in making the often-stressful process of real estate feel like a breeze.

What Is the Gay Realtor Connection Referral Service?

Our personalized “matchmaking” service is designed to connect you (and anyone fabulous you know) with the perfect real estate professionals – whether here in Palm Springs or beyond:

Outbound Referrals: Finding Your Perfect Agent, Wherever You Are

Planning a move outside of Palm Springs or selling property in another state? We've got you covered:

  1. Personalized Matchmaking: We start with a one-on-one consultation to understand your specific needs, preferences, and priorities. From there, we tap into our extensive network of trusted LGBTQ+-allied Realtors to find the ideal match for your situation.

  2. Continued Support: We don’t just send you off – we stay involved! Think of us as your real estate fairy godparents, checking in periodically and advocating for you every step of the way.

Inbound Referrals: Bringing Your Friends and Family to Us

If you know someone who’s ready to buy or sell here in Palm Springs, we’re here to help them feel right at home. By connecting them with us, you’re setting them up for a seamless, stress-free experience (and earning major brownie points)!

  1. Exclusive Resources: We leverage Compass’s cutting-edge technology, including Private Exclusives, to access the best listings.

  2. Top-Tier Expertise: With Compass’s nationwide network of nearly 34,000 agents and our proven local market know-how, we’re perfectly positioned to help.

If for whatever reason you (or whoever you know) is still on the fence about Palm Springs, check out our article Palm Springs Real Estate: Why Palm Springs is THE Place to Live Your Best Gay Life in 2025.

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Why Choose Our Gay Realtor Connection Referral Service?

Here’s what sets our service apart:

1. Tailored Matches

We take the guesswork out of finding the right Realtor. Our concierge service pairs you with LGBTQ+ professionals who truly understand your unique needs, like inclusivity and safety, or just someone with impeccable taste.

2. Ongoing Support

We’re not a one-and-done operation. From initial consultation to closing day, we’re by your side to offer advice, mediate when needed, and ensure everything runs smoothly.

3. Community-Focused

As a service by and for the LGBTQ+ community, inclusivity and trust are at the heart of what we do. We get what matters to you because it matters to us too.

How to Get Started

Getting started is as easy as sipping a cocktail by the pool. Simply schedule a complimentary Zoom consultation with us, and we’ll handle the rest. Whether you’re buying, selling, or referring, our Modern Living Referral Concierge LGBTQ+ Service is here to save you time, money, and stress.

Click here to contact us and schedule your consultation today!

Where’s your dream home located if you could live anywhere? Let us know in the comments below or reach out to us directly!

About Me | Glen Nadeau

Realtor® at COMPASS

DRE# 02167410

Hospitality is what drives me because it's been at the heart of everything I’ve done so far. I’ve learned that an experienced understanding of true hospitality is an invaluable skill to have and that helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves. 

One of the top-producing Realtors in Palm Springs, I will help you find and negotiate the best price for your desert dream home. COMPASS remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country, so I take great pride in knowing that my clients are in such good hands. Check out my website at Modern Living Palm Springs.

What other questions do you have?

Consider an experienced and knowledgeable local realtor (like me) to help you make sense of things. If you’re ready to buy and/or sell yourself, I look forward to assisting you. I promise to give you a much more targeted answer than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.

Please feel free to give me a call, text, email me – or let’s schedule a Zoom meeting.

I’m looking forward to connecting with you!

Your Real Estate Matchmaker,

Glen Nadeau

📱 Call or Text: 805-220-8097
📨 Email: glen.nadeau@compass.com
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Palm Springs’ Resources for LA Fire Victims: A Safe Haven for the LGBTQ Community

Local assistance and resources in Palm Springs for those affected by the Los Angeles fires. We’re here to help victims find refuge and rebuild – especially members of the LGBTQ+ community seeking a supportive environment during this challenging time.

The devastating Los Angeles fires have forced many to flee their homes, leaving them in search of shelter, resources, and a supportive community. Palm Springs is opening its arms, offering a sanctuary for those affected. As a vibrant and inclusive city with a rich history of helping others in need, Palm Springs stands ready to provide assistance — especially for members of the LGBTQ+ community seeking a supportive environment during this challenging time.

This article compiles vital resources for fire victims, from emergency housing and pet care to healthcare and financial aid. Whether you’re seeking refuge or looking for ways to help, this guide is a comprehensive resource for navigating these challenging times.

If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know!

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Emergency Housing in Palm Springs

Hotels Offering Special Rates for Fire Victims

Palm Springs’ hospitality community is offering discounted accommodations to those displaced by the fires. Below are participating hotels:

  • The Saguaro Palm Springs: Promo Code: CALOCAL (760) 323-1711

  • Hilton Palm Springs: Promo Code: PFF (760) 320-6868

  • Rowan Palm Springs: (760) 904-5015

  • Avalon Hotel Palm Springs: (760) 318-3012

  • Ingleside Estate: (760) 325-0046

  • The Dunes Hotel: (760) 656-0021

  • Hotel Zoso: (760) 325-9676

  • Stardust Hotel: (760) 460-6845

  • La Serena Villas: (844) 932-8044

  • Amin Casa Historic Hotel and Gardens: (760) 507-1301

  • Inn at Palm Springs: (888) 788-8466

  • Los Arboles Hotel Palm Springs: (760) 459-3605

  • The Royal Sun Palm Springs: (760) 794-7991

  • The Muse Hotel: (760) 537-6411

For additional accommodation options across the Coachella Valley, visit Greater Palm Springs LA Fire Relief Offers.

Pet Care for Evacuees

Palm Springs Animal Shelter
If you’ve evacuated with pets, Palm Springs Animal Shelter provides essential supplies like pet food, leashes, crates, and more. Visit during open hours for assistance.

  • Address: 4575 Mesquite Ave., Palm Springs, CA 92264

  • Phone: (760) 416-5718

  • Website: psanimalshelter.org

Healthcare and LGBTQ+ Support Services

The LGBTQ Center of the Desert
Providing a safe and welcoming environment, the LGBTQ Center offers counseling, support groups, and other resources tailored to the LGBTQ+ community.

Desert Care Network – LGBTQ Support Services
Offering inclusive healthcare services to meet the unique needs of the LGBTQ+ community in Greater Palm Springs.

Gay Desert Guide
This comprehensive directory lists LGBTQ-owned and friendly businesses across the Coachella Valley.

Financial Assistance and Donations

FEMA Assistance
Federal assistance is available for fire victims. Apply directly through FEMA.

California Fire Foundation
Donations to the Wildfire and Disaster Relief Fund directly support victims.

GoFundMe Wildfire Relief Hub
Browse verified fundraising pages for wildfire victims and donate directly.

Direct Relief
This California-based organization provides medical supplies and N95 masks to affected residents.

Salvation Army – Southern California Division
Providing shelter, food, and personal necessities for fire victims.

Community Contributions: How You Can Help

If you’re looking to support fire victims, here are several ways to contribute:

  • Volunteer or Donate to the American Red Cross

  • Foster animals through Pasadena Humane (Sign up here)

  • Participate in local donation drives and fundraisers (LA Times Full List)

Navigating the Road to Recovery

Action Plans for Fire Victims

Donna Granata, a fire survivor, shared a helpful Facebook post outlining essential steps for victims:

Wildfire Resources Spreadsheet

An extensive list of resources compiled by the Rose Gallery/Malan team:

Palm Springs Safe Haven

In times of tragedy, Palm Springs is a safe haven of compassion and support. Whether you’re seeking temporary shelter, pet care, healthcare, or simply a warm community, Palm Springs is here to welcome you with open arms. The Palm Springs Guys are here to connect you with the resources you need to feel safe, supported, and at home.

You have friends in Palm Springs!

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Palm Springs Real Estate: Why Palm Springs is THE Place to Live Your Best Gay Life in 2025

Discover why Palm Springs is the ultimate destination for gay men looking to relocate, invest, or vacation in paradise in 2025 and beyond. From gay-friendly neighborhoods to stunning real estate options, Palm Springs offers an unparalleled lifestyle for the LGBTQ+ community.

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It’s true that Palm Springs has crystal blue skies, swaying palm trees, and a drag brunch scene that could rival any big city Pride parade. But if you’re a gay man looking to live your best life year-round, there’s simply nowhere else like Palm Springs, California. Nestled in the heart of the Coachella Valley, Palm Springs is more than just a vacation hotspot for many full and part-time locals (ourselves included) – it’s a desert oasis where gay men thrive, connect, while investing in both their community and their futures. Whether you’re contemplating a part-time getaway home or a full-time fabulous abode, Palm Springs is the place where your next chapter begins.

If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know (and let us know why)!

In the meantime, here’s why Palm Springs is THE place to live your best gay life in 2025 (and beyond).

Why Palm Springs is the Ultimate Gay Escape (and Investment Opportunity)

Neighborhoods Tailored for You 

First things first, every neighborhood in Palm Springs is as gay-friendly as a Chappell Roan concert. From the upscale Movie Colony district to the mid-century modern gems in Deepwell, there’s a perfect spot for every lifestyle and budget. The Historic Tennis Club area offers luxury and charm, while Warm Sands is known for its LGBTQ+-friendly resorts and social atmosphere. Not to mention various up-and-coming neighborhoods like Demuth Park that you have the chance to invest in and help make as fabulous as the rest. 

If you want to learn more, check out Glen Nadeau’s 10 Welcoming Neighborhoods: Why Palm Springs Should Be Your Next Home 

Price Points That Won’t Break the Bank 

Yes, Palm Springs is glamorous, but it’s not Beverly Hills pricing. The market has cooled a bit, home prices are now more reasonable again, and there's more inventory all around. Homes here start around $800,000 for chic mid-century masterpieces, with plenty of investment properties available for part-time living or short-term rentals. It’s the kind of place where you can get a tan, sip a Rose Kennedy (the official unofficial gay drink of Palm Springs), and watch your property value soar – all in a day's work.

Investment Opportunities Galore 

Even if you can’t commit to full-time living, Palm Springs is an investor’s paradise. With year-round tourism, short-term rental properties are hotter than the desert sun. And let’s be real – who doesn’t want to own a piece of gay paradise? The ROI on vacation rentals here can help fund those dreamy European getaways. Plus, it can be a smart way to build wealth for retirement – even serving as a future retirement home where you can eventually live full-time.

Open Houses are the New Sunday Funday 

Next time you’re in town, skip the poolside daiquiris for an afternoon of open house hopping. It’s not just a way to scout for real estate – it’s practically a free mini Modernism Week event. Palm Springs open houses are where you’ll meet future neighbors, potential new besties, and maybe even get inspired to redesign your next desert home.

Meet Glen – Your Palm Springs Real Estate BFF 

If you’re ready or even curious about what opportunities might exist for you here, Glen Nadeau – one half of The Palm Springs Guys – is the go-to gay local Realtor in town. And we’re not just being biased. He’s been a top-producing Real Estate Agent here since 2023. And since he’s with COMPASS – the #1 ranked brokerage in the country – Glen takes great pride in knowing that his clients are in such good hands with the most robust resources on the market available to them.

Glen loves connecting and talking shop. Whether you’re curious about neighborhoods, need help navigating the market, or just want to dish about the best spots in town – don’t be shy, reach out to Glen any time. He’s lovable, knowledgeable, and ready to help you on your real estate journey. He promises to give you a much more targeted answer than ChatGPT, Google or the news ever will.

Visit, Invest, or Stay for Good 

Thinking about selling your home or just curious about its value? Head over to Glen’s Home Valuation page for a free home valuation, and get an accurate estimate from a local expert of what your property is worth in today’s market.

The new year is a time for fresh starts and bold decisions. Whether you’re buying your dream home or selling to embrace new opportunities, getting prepared now will set you up for success in 2025.

Even if you’re not ready to make the big move, Palm Springs is always worth a visit (or two, or ten). With endless sunny days, vibrant LGBTQ+ events, and the friendliest folks you’ll ever meet, Palm Springs is a place where community, culture, and connection thrive. Whether you come for a weekend or a lifetime, the desert welcomes you with open arms and the promise of unforgettable experiences. Embrace the journey, and let Palm Springs become a meaningful part of your next chapter.

What other questions do you have?

Consider an experienced and knowledgeable local realtor (like Glen) to help you make sense of things.

📱 Call or Text: 805-220-8097
📨 Email: glen.nadeau@compass.com
📅 Zoom: Click here and let's schedule it
💻 Website: https://www.modernlivingpalmsprings.com/​
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PS- Are you a part of the LGBTQ+ community and looking to relocate to Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley? Check out our FREE “Palm Springs Enthusiasts LGBTQ+ Relocation Guide” and find out why Palm Springs is such an oasis of Pride and inclusivity – brought to you by The Palm Springs Guys and Glen Nadeau Real Estate at Modern Living Palm Springs 🏳️‍🌈

*We cannot guarantee any of the above statements or third-party links. Before you enter any transaction, you should read and review all contracts, leases, and information as they are unique and subject to changes. We recommend you consult with your accountant, attorney, tax advisor, and local real estate professionals prior to any real estate transactions. 

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Your Ultimate 2025 Events Guide to Gay Palm Springs (So Far)…

Discover the ultimate Palm Springs and Coachella Valley events for the first half of 2025, from Modernism Week to Coachella. Plan your gay getaway with our fabulous guide!

*This article was originally published on 1/2/25 and has been updated on 7/17/25 for more accuracy and relevance.

Palm Springs is year-round sunshine, a welcoming LGBTQ+ community, and a cultural calendar so packed you’ll wish you had more vacation days. If you’re a gay traveler craving a fabulous escape, Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley offer an electrifying blend of art, music, fashion, and fun. So, let’s dive into the can’t-miss events for the first half of 2025 (January - July)!

Shout-out to our friends at Gay Desert Guide for their annual compiling of events (which we are ruthlessly borrowing for this article). Check them out for day-by-day listings of nightlife, drag shows, happy hours, and more!

And just a heads up, White Party Palm Springs will NOT be taking place in 2025. They are taking a year off, but they’ll be back in full-swing in 2026!

If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us (and let us know why)!

In the meantime, here are our votes on the ultimate 2025 events guide to Gay Palm Springs (so far)…

2025 Ultimate Palm Springs and Coachella Valley Calendar of Events


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If classic cruising and sex-positive fun is more what you seek, check out our favorite hot spots and their ongoing calendar of events… 

Canyon Club Hotel

Canyon Club Hotel is the only gay men’s resort in downtown Palm Springs, offering a saltwater pool, a 16-man spa, and a unique garden oasis hedge maze. Affordable rates and day passes make it a popular choice for visitors seeking fun and relaxation.

Casa Oliver

Formerly All Worlds Resort, Casa Oliver is the largest gay men’s clothing-optional resort in Warm Sands. Enjoy their spacious pool, hot tub, outdoor showers, and both an outdoor and indoor maze play area. Day and night passes are available on weekends for added convenience.

CCBC

The CCBC Resort in Cathedral City (aka Cat City) is a haven for exploration and fun. Known for hosting special events like CUMUNION parties and pop-up events, this clothing-optional resort also offers day and night passes for endless possibilities.

Club 541

Club 541 is Palm Springs’ newest men’s-only club, designed for those eager to explore their fantasies. Open most nights and Wednesday afternoons (happy hump day!), it’s also conveniently close to the Tool Shed and several men-only hotels like Santiago

Tool Shed

Known as Palm Springs’ premier leather and Levi bar, the Tool Shed is famous for its daily happy hours, cruising, and themed nights like Thursday Underwear Nights. Located in Warm Sands, it’s a must-visit for nightlife enthusiasts.


Why Palm Springs is Your Next Gay Paradise

Have you attended any of these Palm Springs staples before? Share your experiences with us!

If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs, The Best Sex Shops and Adult Play Gear for Gay Men in Palm Springs, and Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs.

With events for every interest, you’ll find yourself enchanted by the charm of Palm Springs. Whether lounging by the pool, drinking bottomless mimosas at drag brunch, exploring the breathtaking desert landscapes, or down on your knees in a dark room – there’s no shortage of fun to be had and opportunities to make new friends and unforgettable memories. So pack your bags and let Palm Springs work its magic because you’ll likely be planning your next visit before you even leave!


Curious About Buying, Selling, or Relocating?

In addition to being one half of The Palm Springs Guys – I’m also one of Palm Springs top-producing Realtors.

And as a COMPASS agent, I can help you find and negotiate the best price for your desert dream home. COMPASS remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country, so I take great pride in knowing that my clients are in such good hands.

Hospitality is what drives me because helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves. 

Check out my website at Modern Living Palm Springs, or reach out to me directly. Ask me anything – I promise to give you much more support than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.

Your Palm Springs Insider,

Glen Nadeau (pronounced “Ned-oh” as in “meadow”)

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Desert Drama: A Gay Man’s Guide to Palm Springs’ Local Theater Scene

Discover greater Palm Springs’ finest local theaters with our guide tailored for gay men. From Broadway-caliber productions to LGBTQ+ gems, Palm Springs is the ultimate destination for drama lovers seeking culture, connection, and year-round sunshine.

While Palm Springs may be a gay man’s paradise for poolside lounging and brunching—our little desert city also boasts a dazzling lineup of local theaters that serve up everything from Broadway-level productions to provocative LGBTQ+ works. Whether you’re in the mood for heartfelt drama, sidesplitting comedy, or something refreshingly gay and risqué, Palm Springs is an intriguing cultural oasis you didn’t know you existed. Considering what relatively small towns Palm Springs and our surrounding desert cities are, we have a surprisingly robust theater scene! 

If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know.

In the meantime, here’s our spotlight on the desert’s theatrical darlings (in alphabetical order) that’ll have you shouting, “Encore!”

Coachella Valley Repertory

  • Theater Company: Coachella Valley Repertory

  • Location: 68510 E. Palm Canyon Drive, Cathedral City

  • Website: cvrep.org

  • Show: Next to Normal

  • About: Coachella Valley Repertory (CV Rep) delivers Broadway-level aspirations in an intimate setting that strives for you to feel the synchronized heartbeats between both the actors and your fellow audience members. With visionary leadership under Adam Karsten, CV Rep is redefining what’s possible in the desert. Their commitment to affordable, high-quality productions and new-works program makes this a must-visit for theater buffs.

  • Our Experience: Next to Normal left us breathless. Emotional, stirring, and superbly acted, this production rivaled our Broadway memories. There were definitely tears and synchronized sniffles from the crowd.

Desert Ensemble Theatre

  • Theater Company: Desert Ensemble Theatre

  • Location: 2300 E Baristo Rd, Palm Springs

  • Website: desertensembletheatre.org

  • Show: LOOT

  • About: Known for innovative storytelling, Desert Ensemble Theatre explores human complexity with award-winning productions. They’re also actively grooming the next generation of thespians through various scholarships and internships.

  • Our Experience: The black farce LOOT had us smiling with its dark humor abound. The cast balanced absurdity and authenticity, making it an unexpectedly unique experience.

Dezart Performs

  • Theater Company: Dezart Performs

  • Location: 314 S Cahuilla Road, Palm Springs

  • Website: dezartperforms.org

  • Show: Hillary and Clinton

  • About: Dezart Performs is the Coachella Valley’s hub for thought-provoking and contemporary plays. Their plans to convert a historic building into a state-of-the-art theater promise exciting things ahead as well.

  • Our Experience: This alternate-universe tale of Hillary Clinton’s 2008 campaign was witty, sharp, and quite captivating throughout. And seeing fellow Vermonter Craig Wells behind the scenes directing was a bonus as well.

Palm Canyon Theater

  • Theater Company: Palm Canyon Theater

  • Location: 538 North Palm Canyon Drive, Palm Springs

  • Website: palmcanyontheatre.net

  • Show: La Cage aux Folles

  • About: As the valley’s longest-running theater, Palm Canyon Theater is synonymous with community and creativity. Their lineup features ambitious productions that make the stage a spectacle to behold.

  • Our Experience: La Cage aux Folles sparkled with charm and relevance, reminding us why this story remains iconic. And Raul Valenzuela’s performance as Jacob was the cherry on top for us.

Revolution Stage Company

  • Theater Company: Revolution Stage Company

  • Location: 611 S Palm Canyon Dr Suite 16, Palm Springs

  • Website: revolutionstagecompany.com

  • Show: Little Shop of Horrors

  • About: Revolution Stage Company is transforming Palm Springs into a premier theater destination with fresh takes on beloved classics, bold new works, and diverse concerts as well.

  • Our Experience: Little Shop of Horrors was a feast for the senses. The puppetry and performances were exceptional, and the energy in the room was electric from beginning to end.

The BENT

  • Theater Company: The BENT

  • Location: 2300 E Baristo Rd, Palm Springs

  • Website: thebent.org

  • Show: FUCKING MEN

  • About: The BENT champions LGBTQ+ theater in Palm Springs with a sharp focus on authenticity and representation. Only a few years running, they’ve already made an honorable splash here in the local theater scene.

  • Our Experience: FUCKING MEN was provocative and heartfelt, exploring themes of love, connection, and good-old-fashioned gay cruising culture. The stellar cast made this a standout experience.


If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs, The Best Sex Shops and Adult Play Gear for Gay Men in Palm Springs, and Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs.

With its active theater scene, endless sunshine, and welcoming community, it’s no wonder gay men flock to Palm Springs to relax, connect, and indulge. Whether you’re living your best gay life at one of our fabulous clothing-optional resorts or attending a cutting-edge show, Palm Springs has everything you need for the ultimate getaway. So pack your bags, bring your short-shorts, and prepare for an unforgettable gay desert adventure!


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How Palm Springs Became the Safest LGBTQ+ Place in America

Discover why LGBTQ+ Americans are flocking to Palm Springs – a vibrant oasis where safety, inclusivity, and community meet. Explore the city’s rich LGBTQ+ culture, supportive infrastructure, and investment opportunities from our local gay perspective.

When the world feels more like a bad sequel than a hopeful reboot, LGBTQ+ Americans are doing what they do best – securing their promising futures. Enter Palm Springs, California, a city so welcoming it will greet you with a Pride flag and a martini as soon as you arrive. This desert oasis has become our fulltime home – and it’s the place to be right now for those looking to combine safety, community, and endless sunshine.

Here’s why gay men and the broader LGBTQ+ community are packing their bags for Palm Springs faster than they can say, “Get me the F**K out of here!”

A Safe Haven in Tumultuous Times

It’s no secret that political turbulence has left many LGBTQ+ individuals questioning their safety. With threats like Project 2025 looming and human rights hanging in the balance, finding a sanctuary isn’t just a luxury – it’s a necessity. 

Palm Springs shines as a beacon of hope now more than ever. Nearly 40% of the city’s population identifies as LGBTQ+, making it truly one of the most inclusive places in America. Here, you’re not just tolerated – you are embraced and celebrated.

A City That Says ‘No’ to Hate (and Yes to Drag!)

While many places in the U.S. are entangled in debates over LGBTQ+ rights, Palm Springs is busy doubling down on inclusivity. Case in point? The City of Palm Springs recently declared itself a sanctuary for drag performers – a bold move that screams in response to drag bans as, “Not here, not ever.” 

Between local government and police force, our city's local leadership is unapologetically progressive, prioritizing policies that protect residents and foster a sense of belonging.

The Heart of LGBTQ+ History and Culture

Palm Springs is steeped in LGBTQ+ history that’s as rich as its present culture. From historical landmarks to art galleries and museums, the city celebrates its roots in ways that keep the spirit of resilience alive.

Even events like Palm Springs Pride festival and the legendary White Party take things up a notch, blending activism and celebration seamlessly. Living here is safe and downright joyful. And in case you’re wondering, yes, you can wear your short shorts at the grocery store.

Supportive Infrastructure Tailored to You

Safety is about acceptance and resources. Palm Springs delivers with a slew of LGBTQ+ organizations like The LGBTQ Center of the Desert, offering everything from mental health services to social engagement opportunities. Whether you’re seeking a sense of community or just someone to rave about the new season of Drag Race with, you’ll find it here.

Plus, local businesses go the extra mile to ensure inclusivity, from healthcare providers like DAP Health who understand your needs to boutique hotels that cater to your lifestyle. 

Investing in Your Future: The Real Estate Advantage

Now, let’s talk dollars and cents – because safety and inclusivity aside, Palm Springs is a smart financial move too. Real estate in inclusive cities is in demand, and Palm Springs is no exception. Buying property here is both an investment in your peace of mind and in your future.

From mid-century modern masterpieces to cozy desert retreats, the city’s housing market offers something for every taste. And let’s be real – your Zoom meetings will hit differently working remotely from somewhere you love (and with a palm tree backdrop).

Make the Move, Gurrrlll

If you’re curious to learn more about our vibrant LGBTQ+ community here in Palm Springs, check out our other articles 10 Welcoming Neighborhoods: Why Palm Springs Should Be Your Next Home and Palm Springs LGBTQ+ Community: What You Need To Know.

Palm Springs is a place where you can be yourself unapologetically, surrounded by a community that lifts you up and celebrates your journey. Whether you’re looking for safety, connection, or the perfect spot for a pool party – Palm Springs has it all. Your best gay life awaits you here… 

What other questions do you have?

Consider an experienced and knowledgeable local realtor (like me) to help you make sense of things.

If you’re ready to buy and/or sell yourself, I look forward to assisting you. I promise to give you a much more targeted answer than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.

Please feel free to give me a call, text, email me – or let’s schedule a Zoom meeting.

I’m looking forward to connecting with you!

Your Palm Springs Insider,

Glen Nadeau


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Pride Highlights: Palm Springs Pride 2024

Relive the unforgettable highlights of Palm Springs Pride 2024 – a dazzling celebration of LGBTQ+ culture! From electrifying drag shows and leather parties to star-studded performances by Neon Trees and SISTER SLEDGE, discover why Palm Springs is the ultimate gay destination.

Palm Springs isn’t just a Pride destination for the LGBTQ+ community – it’s a way of life here. Our little California desert oasis has become the destination for gay men seeking sun-soaked fun and fabulousness year-round. And when it comes to event season, no celebration shines brighter than Palm Springs Pride. Whether you’re a leather aficionado, a lover of drag, or a dance party connoisseur, there’s something for everyone here. So, mark your calendars now because Palm Springs Pride 2025 will surely be as epic as this year was!

To learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs, The Best Sex Shops and Adult Play Gear for Gay Men in Palm Springs, and Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs.

We had gay-old time this year experiencing various Pride events ourselves, so here are our Pride highlights for Palm Springs Pride 2024!

Pride Highlights: Palm Springs Pride 2024

Palm Springs Leather Pride

The festivities began with a steamy weekend of Palm Springs Leather Pride, where the city’s sultry side was on full display. From the Dark Alley Marketplace at Tool Shed to the Go Deep! Dungeon & Play Party at Hotel Zoso, this event embraced liberation and kink with sophistication. Blackbook’s Just For Fans Meetup? A sultry cherry on top.

Día de la Reina Featuring Neon Trees 

Arenas District was electric as NEON TREES headlined the Pride Stage, turning this free block party into a night of pure magic. Think less ghouls and goblins, more glitter and glamour!

Jurassic Drag at Oscar’s 

The iconic Coco Peru, Jackie Beat, and their Jurassic drag sisters Sherry Vine, and Varla Jean Merman delivered a prehistoric riot at Oscar’s. Their collective wit and talent? Positively Jurassic in scale.

DESERTOPIA

For the younger, edgier crowd, DESERTOPIA served up queer magic. Poolside caftans, gender-fluid vibes, and a backdrop of Mt. San Jacinto made this a celebration of art, music, and individuality. Not the typical Palm Springs scene, but a new generation of refreshingly queer inclusivity!

PRIDE MASSIVE / PALM SPRINGS

"Drag-A-Licious" was a highlight for us – a spectacular drag show featuring an all-star lineup of Ru Girls (aka Drag Race Queenz), including Kimora Blac, Shannel, Roxxxy Andrews, Jorgeous, Kylie Sonique Love, and Vanessa Vanjie Mateo – and kicking off three incredible pool parties that left us gagging for more.

Dina Martina Halloween

Presented by Rainbow Entertainment Group at the Revolution Stage Company, Dina Martina – one of our all time favorite Provincetown comedy queens – returned to Palm Springs with her tragically hilarious blend of absurdity and drag brilliance. If you missed her, pencil in January 2025 – she’s not to be missed!

Palm Springs Pride 5k Run and Walk

The Palm Springs Front Runners & Walkers hosted another successful 5K event to raise funds for local LGBTQ+ organizations. All ages and abilities were (and are always) welcome to participate in this annual community-building event.

SISTER SLEDGE at the Palm Springs Pride Festival Marketplace

The legendary SISTER SLEDGE brought down the house with timeless hits, while the Festival Marketplace offered an irresistible mix of shopping, dining, and cultural vibes.

CCBC’s Rainbow Splash Pool Party 

The clothing-optional Rainbow Splash at CCBC Resort provided the perfect mix of fun and relaxation, with DJ Bobby spinning tunes and a “play” area to boot.

Palm Springs Pride Parade

Nothing compares to the iconic Pride Parade, which transformed Palm Canyon Drive into a kaleidoscope of love, music, and community spirit!

Palm Springs Pride on the Rooftop 

We saved the best for last: our very own Palm Springs Pride on the Rooftop Party. With stunning views from the Flannery Exchange rooftop our celebration included music by DJ MODGIRL, The Desert Studs dancers, and yours truly – The Palm Springs Guys! Delicious drinks & bites were provided by Lulu’s, and a portion of the proceeds benefited the LGBTQ Center of the Desert. Keep an eye out for next year’s rooftop event as tickets went fast this year!

George Michael Reborn at the Festival Marketplace

George Michael Reborn graced the Palm Canyon Drive Main Stage this year, which was almost as good as the man himself. They definitely brought the energy and nostalgia we all know and love from the music!

Brunch with Miss Richfield 1981

The inimitable Miss Richfield 1981 brought Pride to a delightful close at EIGHT4NINE with a brunch that had everyone laughing, eating, and loving every minute.

What was your favorite Palm Springs Pride event this year? Let us know!

If you’re curious to learn more about living in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley surrounding desert cities, check out (Palm Springs Guy) Glen Nadeau’s Modern Living Palm Springs. From best neighborhoods to hidden gems to essential local resources for buyers & sellers, Glen promises to give you a much more targeted answer than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.

Lucky for us locals, Pride is a year-round experience here in Palm Springs. It’s a haven of sunshine, community, and fabulous living with events that have locals and visitors alike feeling safe and free to be who they are. 

From our stunning mid-century modern architecture to our vibrant nightlife, it’s easy to fall in love with this desert gem. Friendships are formed over martinis at local gay bars, memories are made lounging by resort pools, and the sunsets are pure magic. Whether it’s for Pride or a quiet weekend away, Palm Springs will always welcome you with open arms.


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Palm Springs Pride 2024: The Ultimate Guide

Palm Springs Pride 2024 is coming! Get ready for another fabulous Pride weekend with our ultimate guide to events, parades, parties, and more in the heart of the desert.

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Get ready, because Palm Springs Pride 2024 is about to take over the desert again! With a jam-packed schedule of events from October 30th to November 3rd, there’s something for everyone looking to live their best gay life. Whether you're into drag shows, film nights, block parties, or parades, Palm Springs Pride promises an unforgettable experience. Here’s your comprehensive guide to all the essential events you won’t want to miss.

If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you want to include it too)!

Which Palm Springs Pride event are you most excited for this year? What's your go-to Pride outfit? Let us know in the comments!

In the meantime, here is our Ultimate Guide to Palm Springs Pride 2024!

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Palm Springs Pride 2024 Events Map

🖤 Oct 24 - 27 | Palm Springs Leather Pride

  • Where: Hotel Zoso, 150 S Indian Canyon Dr, Palm Springs (Official Host Hotel) & Multiple Locations
    Kick off Pride with an enticing weekend of sexual liberation at this year’s Palm Springs Leather Pride! From pool parties to play parties, they’ve got everything your dark leather heart could ask for. Don’t miss the Just For Fans meetup at Blackbook, the Dark Alley Marketplace at Tool Shed, or the Go Deep! dungeon & play party at Hotel Zoso.

🎬 Oct 30 - Film Night: Tom of Finland & Selected Shorts | 6:00 PM – 9:00 PM

  • Where: Palm Springs Cultural Center, 2300 E Baristo Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92262, USA
    Kick off Pride with an evening celebrating the Tom of Finland Foundation's 40th Anniversary. Enjoy a mix of art, film, and cocktails in honor of the foundation’s legacy and cultural impact.

🌈 Oct 31 - Arenas District Stage | 5:00 PM – 10:00 PM

  • The Pride celebrations start in the heart of Palm Springs' gayborhood Arenas District! Join the crowd for an evening of music, dancing, and festivities that set the tone for the days ahead.

🕺 Oct 31 - Día de la Reina Featuring Neon Trees | 5:00 PM – 10:30 PM

  • Where: Arenas District Pride Stage, 302 E Arenas Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92262, USA
    NEON TREES will headline this free block party celebration dedicated to the Queens and Kings of Palm Springs. It’s a night traditionally known for ghouls and goblins, but this year, it’s all about reveling in fabulousness.

🎉 Nov 1 - Arenas District Block Party & Pride Weekend Kickoff 2024 | 4:00 PM – 11:00 PM

  • Celebrate the start of Pride weekend with high-energy DJs, dancing, and food trucks. The Arenas District transforms into the ultimate party zone with outdoor beverage lounges and house music that will keep you dancing all night long.

🎭 Nov 1 - La Cage Aux Folles - VIP Performance | 7:00 PM – 10:00 PM

  • Where: Palm Canyon Theatre, 538 N Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, CA 92262
    This VIP performance is a must-see! Enjoy a pre-show reception with champagne, light bites, and luscious desserts during intermission. After the performance, meet the cast and capture some memorable photos.

🦖 Nov 1 - Jurassic Drag at Oscar’s | 7:00 PM & 9:30 PM

  • Get ready for a prehistoric performance featuring the legendary Coco Peru, Jackie Beat, Sherry Vine, and Varla Jean Merman. This show combines musical spectaculars and comedy, showcasing some of the most talented drag queens who have collectively "survived a hostile world" for millions of years (in drag time, that is).

🕺 Nov 1-2 - DESERTOPIA

  • Where: The Sonoran / Infusion Beach Club Hotel / Palms Springs Surf Club
    A very queer celebration of music, dance, art and a uniquely Palm Springs experience. Featuring a caftan-laden pool party, a club night of extravagant proportions and an outdoor afternoon festival featuring the finest in queer talent and music under the sun and stars in the majestic backdrop of Mt. San Jacinto.

🕺 Nov 1-3 - PRIDE MASSIVE / PALM SPRINGS

  • Where: RIVIERA RESORT & SPA (Formerly Margaritaville), 1600 N Indian Canyon Dr, Palm Springs.
    Beginning with a star-studded "Drag-A-Licious" drag show into three massive pool parties. "Drag-A-Licious" at 7:30 PM. This spectacular drag show features an all-star lineup of Ru Girls (aka Drag Race Queenz), including Kimora Blac, Shannel, Roxxxy Andrews, Jorgeous, Kylie Sonique Love, and Vanessa Vanjie Mateo.

👑 Nov 1-3 - Miss Dina Martina Halloween

  • Where: Revolution Stage Company, 611 South Palm Canyon Drive, Palm Springs
    Dina Martina returns to Palm Springs with a blend of surreal comedy and “tragically funny” performance. This drag legend is known for leaving audiences in hysterics, so don’t miss out on this experience!

🕺 Nov 1-3 - Desert Heat Palm Springs Pride

  • Where: Hotel Zoso, 150 S Indian Canyon Dr, Palm Springs
    Paul Nicholls & Justin David present The Biggest Parties of Palm Springs Pride with 3 Days, 5 Events, and 12 All Star DJs – including BRUT, HEAT Pool Party, The GPS, PARADISE Pool Party, and SUPER SUNSET TEA CLOSING PARTY.

🏃 Nov 2 - Palm Springs Pride 5k Run and Walk | 8:00 AM – 10:00 AM

  • Where: W Chino Dr & Belardo Rd, Palm Springs, CA 92262
    Join the Palm Springs Front Runners & Walkers for a 5K event to raise funds for local LGBTQ+ organizations. All ages and abilities are welcome to participate in this annual community-building event.

🛍️ Nov 2 - Festival Marketplace and Entertainment | 11:00 AM – 11:30 PM

  • Don’t miss SISTER SLEDGE at 8:00 P.M. on the Palm Canyon Drive Main Stage. The marketplace on Palm Canyon Drive opens up, featuring a diverse array of artists, food, beverages, and shopping. It’s the heart of Pride where you can sip, sashay, and celebrate with friends.

🏊 Nov 2 - Rainbow Splash Pool Party | 12:00 PM – 4:00 PM

  • Where: CCBC Resort, 68-300 Gay Resort Dr, Cathedral City, CA 92234
    Cool off with a splash at CCBC Resort's pool party. Your ticket includes day-pass resort access and music by DJ Bobby. Dive in and relax with friends old and new!

🎶 Nov 2 - Arenas District Official Block Party 2024 | 4:00 PM – 11:00 PM

  • The biggest free LGBTQ+ street party in Palm Springs takes over the Arenas District. The bars and businesses will be packed to the rafters with people dancing to DJs under the stars. Open-air beverage lounges and revelers fill the streets to celebrate Pride.

🎤 Nov 2 & 3 - Shakira “Las Mujeres Ya No Lloran” World Tour at Acrisure Arena

  • On November 2nd, Shakira kicks off the North American leg of her world tour at Acrisure Arena in Greater Palm Springs. It’s your chance to see this GRAMMY® Award-winning artist perform live.

🏳️‍🌈 Nov 3 - Palm Springs Pride Parade | 10:00 AM - Noon

  • Where: Palm Canyon Dr from Tachevah to Amado
    The iconic parade steps off in the Uptown Design District, making its way through downtown Palm Springs in a riot of color, music, and joy. It’s the highlight of Pride weekend, filled with vibrant floats and community pride.

🥂 Nov 3 - Palm Springs Pride on the Rooftop | 9:00 AM - 2:00 PM

  • Where: Flannery Exchange, 750 North Palm Canyon Drive, Palm Springs
    Party with a parade view! This rooftop celebration includes music, drinks, bites, and plenty of fun with local celebs like DJ MODGIRL, The Desert Studs, and yours truly – The Palm Springs Guys! Presale tickets include two free drinks from the full bar. Delicious drinks & bites provided by Lulu’s. In addition to the GA tickets, there are some limited parking passes and 6-pack VIP table options available too (yaasss, VIP)! Limited parking available for purchase as well. Benefitting the LGBTQ Center of the Desert. Tickets now on sale – and use the discount code PSGUYS to get $5 off general admission tickets.

🛍️ Nov 3 - Festival Marketplace and Entertainment | 11:00 AM – 6 PM

  • Don’t miss GEORGE MICHAEL REBORN on the Palm Canyon Drive Main Stage. The marketplace on Palm Canyon Drive continues, featuring a diverse array of artists, food, beverages, and shopping. It’s the heart of Pride where you can sip, sashay, and celebrate with friends.

🍳 Nov 3 - Brunch with Miss Richfield 1981 | 1:00 PM

  • Where: EIGHT4NINE Restaurant & Lounge, 849 N Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs
    End your Pride weekend on a high note with brunch hosted by the drag legend Miss Richfield 1981. Her interactive format, homespun warmth, and edgy improv promise an unforgettable experience.

Why Palm Springs Pride is a Must-Visit

Palm Springs is more than just a city; it’s a year-round playground where the sun shines and the LGBTQ+ community thrives. With its welcoming atmosphere, breathtaking desert landscapes, and endless array of cultural events, it’s the ultimate destination to celebrate love, equality, and pride. So come for Pride, stay for the friendships, the nightlife, and the promise of unforgettable memories. See you soon in Palm Springs! 🏳️‍🌈


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Top Sushi Restaurants in Palm Springs: Serving you fish, Queen!

Planning your next gaycation? Be sure to include some of the best sushi restaurants in Palm Springs along your journey. From Sandfish Sushi & Whiskey modern vibe to Ponzu Sushi’s traditional fare, find out where to dine in style. We’re serving you fish, Queen!

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Palm Springs is a vibrant playground for gay men looking to live their best lives. Whether you’re in town for the sun, the fun, or the stunning landscapes, one thing you can't miss out on is the… sushi? 

We realize that “fresh fish” isn’t the first thing that comes to mind when you’re thinking about the desert. But, YES, Palm Springs has some fabulous sushi spots that cater to all tastes and styles. 🍣 😋

What’s your favorite sushi roll? Have you visited any of these sushi spots in Palm Springs? Which Palm Springs sushi restaurant are you excited to try next? Tell us your best Palm Springs dining story!

If you have any particular favorites you feel should absolutely be included in this article, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you love it too)!

So, if you’re fishy queens like we are, here are our votes on the Top Sushi Restaurants in Palm Springs!

Sandfish Sushi & Whiskey

1556 N Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, CA 92262

Sandfish Sushi & Whiskey offers an eclectic mix that satisfies both sushi purists and adventurous eaters. We’re talking innovative sushi rolls paired with a selection of fine whiskeys. The ambiance is chic, making it a perfect spot for the sophisticated yet casual dinner. If the LA vibe is your style, then you’ll likely be a fan of what Sandfish is serving up.

Ponzu Sushi

100 W Tahquitz Canyon Way UNIT 130, Palm Springs, CA 92262

Ponzu Sushi is the newest kid on the block, located right in front of the “Forever Marilyn” Marilyn Monroe statue and the Kimpton Rowan Hotel. With its focus on fresh ingredients and friendly atmosphere, this restaurant offers a range of traditional and inventive sushi rolls as well as creative concoctions. It's an excellent spot in a prime downtown location for those who appreciate a mix of classic and contemporary sushi flavors.

TAKA SHIN

641 N Palm Canyon Dr, Palm Springs, CA 92262

If you’re looking for simplicity and authenticity, TAKA SHIN is the place to try. This spot offers an authentic Japanese dining experience with meticulously crafted sushi. The chefs are highly skilled, ensuring that each piece of sushi is a work of art. It’s a minimalist, unpretentious atmosphere that is as relaxing as it is delicious. That said, I’d like a bit more sashimi for that price tag please!

Shabu Shabu Zen and Sake Bar

71680 Hwy111 #F, Rancho Mirage, CA 92270

While not directly in Palm Springs – and not technically a sushi spot – this might be our favorite spot to rave about of all. Located in nearby Rancho Mirage, Shabu Shabu Zen and Sake Bar is a family-owned Japanese restaurant that offers a unique dining experience. Specializing in shabu-shabu (think Japanese fondue) and offering a great selection of sake, this intimate spot is perfect for those looking to enjoy a flavorful, authentic, and interactive meal. Reservations are recommended due to limited capacity. This is as authentic Japanese cuisine as it gets out here in the desert! Shout-out to the guys (owners) at Wabi Sabi Japan Living in Palm Springs – a home goods retail store that imports tableware, Sake, chopsticks, cookware and food from Japan and Asia – for first introducing us to this place!

Torakichi Ramen

5001 Ramon Rd, Ste 2 A, Palm Springs, CA 92264

Ok, this is not a sushi place at all. But sticking with the Japanese cuisine-theme, Torakichi Ramen offers some fabulous ramen at a very reasonable price. And good thing because it’s really the only ramen joint in town. It’s in the Staples complex out by the box stores at S Gene Autry Trail (Highway 111) and Ramon Rd, so it’s worth a pit stop after you’re done collecting paint swatches at Lowes.

Happy Sushi

155 S Palm Canyon Dr B-7, Palm Springs, CA 92262

Happy Sushi lives up to its name, serving a joyful dining experience with a wide variety of sushi rolls. It’s a more laid-back spot, better suited for lunch in our opinion – though the happy hour deals are also enticing. It’s not gourmet, so lower your expectations a bit, but you certainly won’t leave hungry.

Joyce’s Sushi (Palm Springs)

425 S Sunrise Way F-2, Palm Springs, CA 92264

Joyce’s Sushi is another new kid in town, and a hidden gem in Palm Springs. Their sister (and primary) location in Rancho Mirage has always been a quality spot. Now, with their second location in the Ralph’s shopping plaza (at Sunrise & Ramon), Joyce’s offers a cozy atmosphere with a very fresh menu that features a mix of traditional and innovative sushi rolls. They even have a “big whole tuna cutting show” every week if you’ve ever been curious where your sashimi comes from. But be aware: their website’s banner reads “In God We Trust,” and they are a bit God-heavy in their promotion. That said, if you decide to eat there, we fully encourage you to bring your posse of fearless, fabulous gay friends with you ;)


If you’re hungry for more, check out our The Perfect Gay Getaway in Palm Springs for the Solo Traveler article and our Best Dining in Gay Palm Springs article.

If you’re curious to learn more about Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley surrounding desert cities, check out Glen Nadeau’s Living in Palm Springs California YouTube channel. From hidden gems to best restaurants to best neighborhoods, uncover the magic of Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley with us as Palm Springs Guy (and local Realtor) Glen Nadeau guides you through the ins-and-outs of our vibrant Southern California desert haven!

Beyond the gay wonderland that is our low-desert oasis, Palm Springs is also about eclectic culinary experiences. The sushi restaurants themselves are even diverse, offering everything from authentic Japanese to creative and refreshing sushi rolls. The year-round warm climate makes sushi an always-refreshing option. And the friendly atmosphere always makes it easy to meet new people and form lasting connections. So pack your bags and get ready for a fabulous getaway in Gay Palm Springs!


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Why The Barracks Bar is Closing: The Facts and Speculations

The significance of The Barracks Bar in Cathedral City and its upcoming closure on August 4, 2024 – and why Palm Springs still remains the ultimate gay travel destination.

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The vibrant LGBTQ+ community in Cathedral City, California (aka Cat City), is about to lose a beloved landmark. The Barracks Bar, a renowned gay leather bar, will shut its doors for the last time on Sunday, August 4, 2024. This closure marks the end of an era for many of us who have found camaraderie and acceptance within its walls. 

Despite this loss, Palm Springs remains an unbeatable destination for gay travelers, offering vibrant nightlife, cultural events, welcoming atmosphere – and an unmatched escape for gay men seeking a fun, sex-positive getaway.

Naturally, there have been a whirlwind of rumors going around about the reasons behind the Barrack’s sudden farewell. After further investigating things ourselves, here are some facts and speculations that make up our take as to why the Barracks Bar is closing.

If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know.

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A Leather & Kink Cornerstone

Founded in 1992 as WOLF's, The Barracks Bar quickly became a cornerstone for the leather and kink community here in the greater Palm Springs area. Renamed and rebranded over the years, The Barracks earned a reputation for hosting the world's most-attended Sunday Beer Bust and other enticing leather events. For 31 years, it served as a significant gathering spot, fostering a strong sense of community and providing a safe haven for its patrons.

Despite its popularity, The Barracks faced mounting challenges. For one, the City of Cathedral City significantly reduced the bar's occupancy, demanding over $100,000 in upgrades to the aging building. These requirements, coupled with ongoing disputes and speculations about lewd conduct, ultimately led to the decision to close.

In a heartfelt message, Scott Murchison, owner of Barrack’s Bar and Dick’s on Arenas, announced the closure and hinted at future plans for The Barracks brand. The bar's license to serve alcohol will expire on August 5, 2024, but the brand is set to continue its legacy in Phoenix, Arizona.

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Unanswered Questions and Community Impact

The exact reasons behind the state of California's decision to “revoke” The Barracks' liquor license remain unclear. The California Department of Alcoholic Beverage Control has stated that no final disciplinary actions have been taken, leaving room for speculation and confusion. Here are some of the most discussed reasons behind the closure:

City Disputes and Building Upgrades

The City of Cathedral City reduced the bar's occupancy and demanded over $100,000 in upgrades to the old building. These requirements were significant and may have played a crucial role in the decision to close.

Lewd Conduct Allegations

There have been allegations that The Barracks hosted lewd conduct, leading to scrutiny from the state. However, the specifics and validity of these allegations still remain unclear.

State Liquor License Issues

Owner Scott Murchison announced that the state of California is set to “revoke” The Barracks' liquor license as of August 5, 2024. However, the Department of Alcoholic Beverage Control has stated that no final disciplinary actions have been taken yet, adding to the confusion surrounding the closure.

Speculations of Financial and Structural Issues

Some speculate that the building's age required substantial financial investment for necessary upgrades. There are also rumors that the owners wanted to move the business to a new location for personal reasons.

Community and Emotional Impact

The closing of The Barracks has left the local gay community heartbroken. Many of us view it as a significant loss of a cultural and social hub that has been a part of our lives for over three decades.

The End of an Era and a New Beginning

These reasons combined paint a complex picture of why The Barracks is closing. If you’d like to go even deeper down the rabbit hole of speculations, check out the GAY MEN OF PALM SPRINGS CA Facebook Group.

Regardless of the specifics, the bar's departure marks the end of an era for our gay leather and kink community. We remain hopeful that the owners of The Barracks recognize the profound impact the bar has had over the years – specifically in the greater Palm Springs area. Its contribution to fostering a sense of belonging and solidarity has been unparalleled in the area. As the owners move forward with their plans, we hope they understand the deep void their departure leaves and the significance of what they built for the community.

So what's next? The future of the site remains uncertain. Whether another gay leather and kink bar will emerge in Cathedral City or another part of the Coachella Valley is also unknown. However, there is a strong desire within the community for someone to step up and fill this void. The legacy of The Barracks demonstrates the need for such spaces – safe and welcoming spaces – and we can only hope a new establishment will rise to continue serving the community with the same spirit and dedication. Until then, the memories and connections forged at The Barracks will be cherished and missed deeply.

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Why Gay Palm Springs is Still a Must-Visit

The spirit of Palm Springs' LGBTQ+ community still remains vibrant and strong. Palm Springs offers an unparalleled experience for gay men looking to explore their wild side. From the ever-popular gay bars in the Arenas District in downtown Palm Springs to the numerous LGBTQ+-owned businesses, and clothing-optional resorts for men-only, there are endless opportunities to connect, celebrate, and make lasting memories here. 

If you’re curious to learn more about what a playground Palm Springs is for gay men, you can start by checking out our articles on The Best Sex Shops and Adult Play Gear for Gay Men in Palm Springs and Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs.

The Barracks Bar will close its doors on August 4, 2024, so go pay your respects and get your drink one last time before they do.

More Gay-Friendly Resources

Gay Desert Guide Directory

"The Gay Agenda" at VisitPalmSprings.com

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Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs

Indulge in ultimate relaxation at the top gay men's spas in Palm Springs. Rejuvenate with luxurious treatments, stunning settings, and the best places to unwind in desert paradise. We are a gay man’s guide to living your best gay life in Palm Springs.

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Palm Springs is the ultimate desert oasis for gay men seeking fun, relaxation, and fun. Whether you're planning a weekend getaway or a longer retreat, there are so many gay men's spas and resorts to help you unwind that our fabulous city has to offer. Palm Springs is known for its warm weather, endless sunshine, stunning landscapes, and welcoming atmosphere. We’ve got a variety of luxurious spa and massage experiences for everyone under the sun – and lucky for us, many of them cater specifically to gay men.

What are your favorite spas and resorts for gay men here in Palm Springs?

If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this post, please email us and let us know.

In the meantime, here are our votes on the Best Gay Men's Spas in Palm Springs!

But first… Spa and Massage Etiquette 

It’s important you understand the spectrum of experiences here in Gay Palm Springs when you’re getting pampered. Some say that anything goes here, but don’t just assume that because your massage therapist (for example) is super hot and his touch is even hotter that your massage will result in a happy ending. Just as is the case in cruising culture, you must always carry a mutual respect with everyone you come into contact with. Massage services are professional services. Of course, every “professional” has rules of their own, but always assume you are in good professional hands and be careful not to cross any lines. Now, just take a deep breath in… And relax ;)

Top Spas and Massages in Palm Springs for Gay Men

Men's Wellness Retreat

Palm Springs Men's Wellness Retreat is an exclusive massage spa designed by men for men located in downtown Palm Springs. It offers peaceful private treatment rooms as well as an upscale wet room with a table shower. Luxury products including coconut oil, wine scrubs, milk scrubs, and professional large size massage tables for additional comfort are part of their services. They also offer their services at the most competitive rates in downtown Palm Springs.

Men's Grooming Spot

The only complete men’s spa in the Coachella Valley, Men's Grooming Spot is the destination for men to relax, recoup, renew, and just be. Their spa services are specialized to provide men with a well-rounded experience, ensuring that every visit is a pampering one.

Palm Springs Gay Massage

Pamper yourself with a soothing and rejuvenating massage at Palm Springs Gay Massage. Services include massage therapy, Swedish massage, deep tissue massage, and sensual massage to soothe tight muscles and relieve stress. They also offer same-day appointments and gay massage services seven days a week.

Gay Wellness

Gay Wellness is an online platform that connects clients with quality gay massage therapists and wellness practitioners. More than just a directory, Gay Wellness is a hub for connection and wellness in a friendly, safe, and inclusive environment.

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Top Gay Saunas and Bathhouses in Palm Springs for Gay Men

Palm Springs is a unique destination when it comes to its sex-positive offerings. You won’t find traditional gay bathhouses or gay saunas here (yet) like you might find in bigger cities. Instead, these types of amenities and play areas are infused into our many fabulous boutique resorts for men-only – all of which are clothing-optional (aka swimsuit-optional), and some of which even offer day passes and night passes for those who are more interested to play vs. stay (keep reading)…

That said, it’s worth a pit-stop at CLUB541 – Palm Springs’ newest (and hottest) sex club. It’s the ultimate playground for gay men seeking a thrilling, sex-positive adventure when the sun goes down. Check out our CLUB541: Discover Palm Springs' Newest Sex Club article to learn more about it.

Top Spa Resorts in Palm Springs for Gay Men

Santiago Resort

Located in the heart of Palm Springs, Santiago Resort is an exclusive boutique hotel for gay men. Staying at Santiago feels like a never ending spa day. The resort's serene atmosphere and top-notch service make it a must-visit for those looking to unwind in luxury. Check out their brother properties Twin Palms Resort and Descanso Resort for an equally pampered and luxurious stay.

The Hacienda at Warm Sands

This dreamy gay resort is landscaped with palms and backed by the stunning San Jacinto Mountains. The Hacienda offers a tranquil spa experience designed to help you unwind and relax. It's the perfect spot for those seeking a peaceful retreat.

Desert Paradise Gay Men’s Resort

Desert Paradise is aptly named, offering a wonderful escape with excellent spa-like amenities. Guests rave about the superb staff and the relaxing pool area, making it a perfect destination for those looking to unwind in comfort and style.

CCBC Resort Hotel

CCBC Resort Hotel is more than just a place to stay and play – it's an experience. This all-men’s resort features spa-like amenities and play areas. The resort's cruisy social scene and relaxing atmosphere make it a must-visit for any curious gay traveler. They even offer day passes.

All Worlds Resort

Known for its cruisy vibe and welcoming community, All Worlds Resort also offers spa-like amenities and both indoor and outdoor maze play areas. They offer day passes as well, so be sure to check things out at your leisure.

Top Spas and Massages in Palm Springs for Everyone

The Spa at Séc-he

Recognized as the top spa in the U.S. for 2023, The Spa at Séc-he is a premier spa complex spanning over 73,000 square feet, renowned for its state-of-the-art treatments and therapies in a tranquil environment. It features 15 treatment rooms offering massages, facials, and body treatments, ensuring a holistic spa experience. Located at the Agua Caliente Cultural Plaza in the heart of Palm Springs, the spa blends rich heritage with healing treatments and luxurious amenities, including men's and women's bathhouses, a salon, fitness room, and outdoor mineral pools.

The Spa at Colony Palms

If you love a good White Lotus aesthetic as much as we do, The Spa at Colony Palms is a delightful sanctuary that will make you feel like you’re on set with Jennifer Cooliage. They offer luxurious treatments to relax your muscles, purify your body, and rejuvenate your spirit. Their spa menu includes a wide range of restorative massages, invigorating body wraps, and refreshing facials. Utilizing contemporary therapies, their holistic treatments are crafted to provide a tranquil experience and invigorate the senses. They carefully select natural, organic tools and products to ensure an exceptional experience.

Azure Palm Hot Springs Resort & Day Spa

Located just outside of town, Azure is a newer place to experience the desert’s legendary restorative hot springs. The star of this modern adults-only facility is the oversized outdoor pool filled with warm, soft, and odorless mineral water, plus two indoor and two outdoor spa pools naturally heated to different temperatures. Purchase a day pass to enjoy the spring-fed pools, cedar sauna, and relaxing lounging areas. Book a reasonably priced massage or mud wrap and receive complimentary admission to the mineral pools for the day of your treatment.

Come Visit Us in Gay Palm Springs

Visiting Gay Palm Springs is a fabulous idea for countless reasons. With year-round sunshine, a rich cultural scene, and a welcoming community, it's the perfect destination for making new friends and lasting connections. Whether you're here for the spas, the nightlife, or the stunning desert landscapes, Palm Springs offers something for every gay traveler. So pack your bags, book your spa appointments, and get ready to relax and rejuvenate in one of the most vibrant and inclusive destinations in the world.


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A Gay Man's Guide to a Hot Summer in Palm Springs

Here’s our ultimate guide to hot summer fun for gay men in Palm Springs. From chic resorts and stylish grooming spots to lively bars, eateries, and thrilling adventures – here's what you need to know to have a sizzling summer getaway.

Warm summer nights in the low desert are when the boys come alive and the hot gay summer fun begins here in Palm Springs, California. With its vibrant LGBTQIA+ community, endless sunshine, and year-round array of activities, Palm Springs is the ultimate summer destination for gay men looking to have a fabulous getaway. Whether you're lounging by a clothing-optional pool, boozing & cruising, or just dancing the night away, there's no place quite like Palm Springs for a memorable and exciting summer escape. 

What do you love about Palm Springs in the summer? Email us and let us know.

In the meantime, here’s our gay man's guide to a hot summer in Palm Springs!

Stay Gay

Palm Springs boasts an impressive selection of gay resorts, each offering unique amenities and a welcoming atmosphere. Whether you're planning a solo trip or a getaway with besties, these resorts are perfect for indulging in some poolside flirtation and restoration.

Start by checking out our favorite stylish trio of men-only resorts by the Resorts Palm Springs group: Twin Palms Resort, Santiago Resort, and Descanso Resort. The next-level experience at any of these three resorts will never disappoint. Be sure to check out each resort website for any summer deals that might be happening too.

For more enticing clothing-optional experiences, check out:

Where To Get Your Hair Did

Feeling hot starts with looking hot. Head to Daddy’s for a makeover, or try Sunny Dunes Barber Shop for a trendy cut. The Men’s Grooming Spot offers waxing, massages, skincare, hair, and nail services in a cool spa setting in nearby Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

Where To Get Your Drink On

The Arenas district is the gay epicenter (aka gayborhood) of Gay Palm Springs, featuring a variety of lively bars and clubs like:

More of our favorites just outside the Arenas district:

  • Canopy Wine Lounge: Offers a sophisticated wine selection in downtown Palm Springs.

  • Tailor Shop: A cocktail bar in Uptown with a cool speakeasy vibe.

  • Tool Shed: The only leather and Levi bar, known for its happy hours and cruisy theme nights.

  • Barracks Bar: Famous for its Sunday Beer Bust, Wednesday Underwear Night, and other (very cruisy) leather events, located in Cathedral City.

For more nightlife options, check out our Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs.

Where To Eat

Stay hydrated (it’s the desert, guuurrrl!) and stay well-fed with some of our favorite Palm Springs' dining spots:

For more dining options, visit our The Perfect Gay Getaway in Palm Springs for the Solo Traveler.

Where To Play

Palm Springs offers a range of enticing activities from mild to wild:

  • CCBC Resort: Known for its range of sex-positive special events.

  • CLUB541: Palm Springs’ newest (and hottest) sex club.

  • All Worlds Resort: Features a play area maze and offers day passes.

  • Canyon Club Hotel: Features a play area labyrinth and offers day passes.

  • Pool parties: There are always pool parties happening throughout the summer months. Check out Gay Desert Guide, or make fast friends while you're in town to find out where the fun private pool parties are ;)

If you’re planning to live your best gay life here in Palm Springs, stay safe and be sure to get tested at one of our amazing local clinics offering free STI and HIV testing. Check out our Get Tested, Stay Fabulous: Your Ultimate Guide to STI and HIV Testing in Palm Springs.

Where To Explore

If you want to venture out on some traditional tourist excursions in and around Palm Springs, explore:

Check out our Best Summer Activities in Gay Palm Springs for more inspiration.

Where To Shop

Find all your gaycation fashion needs and unique home goods that will awe-inspire right here in Palm Springs:

For more shopping ideas, visit our Best Gay Shopping in Palm Springs.

Where To See a Show

From drag shows, karaoke and underwear nights to a thriving live local theater scene, we've got something for every taste here in Palm Springs. Here are a few of our favorites:


For more ideas and inspiration, check out our Best Summer Activities in Gay Palm Springs.

Palm Springs is a fabulous destination for gay men year-round, offering warm weather, vibrant culture, and a welcoming community. Whether you're making new friends or enjoying the array of activities, Palm Springs is the perfect place for hot summer fun and having experiences to remember.


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Your Ultimate 2024 Events Guide to Gay Palm Springs (April-December)

Your ultimate gay getaway guide to 2024's top LGBT+ events in Palm Springs from April-December. From drag balls to art symposiums, discover why this desert oasis is the perfect playground for every gay man.

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Welcome to Palm Springs! The LGBT+ scene is on fire in 2024, making it the ultimate playground for gay men once again. If you’re seeking the perfect blend of culture, party, and relaxation, Palm Springs is the place to be – where the events are as diverse as our fabulous community itself. 

If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this post, please email us and let us know (and let us know why you love it too)!

In the meantime, here’s your ultimate 2024 events guide to Gay Palm Springs (April-December)… 

April 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

Apr 11: Play Time: Private Jazz Concert at Eldorado / Artful Event – Jazz under the stars in one of Palm Springs' most enchanting locations? Yes, please! This event mixes art, music, and the magic of the desert for an unforgettable evening.

Apr 12-14 & Apr 19-21: Coachella Weekend 1 & 2 – Need we say more? The festival that everyone's Instagram feed dreams of, featuring an eclectic mix of music, art, and fashion. It's where the desert becomes a canvas for the arts.

Apr 13: World Art Day Festival – Celebrate art in all its forms, from painting and sculpture to digital and performance art, in a festival that spans the vibrant streets of Palm Springs.

Apr 13: Coming OUTdoors - Hike & Mixer in the High Desert – Combine the beauty of nature with the joy of meeting new people in this unique event that takes you on a scenic hike followed by a mixer.

Apr 14: Twice Blessed: An Afternoon Cabaret – A cabaret afternoon with a twist, showcasing talent from within our community in a cozy, intimate setting.

Apr 15: Idyllwild Art in Society's 7th Annual Symposium – Engage with art on a deeper level in the serene setting of Idyllwild, where thinkers, creators, and enthusiasts come together.

Apr 20-21: Modern Men Chorus: Greatest Hits – The local chorus group that has been touching hearts and eardrums alike brings you a compilation of their greatest hits.

Apr 21: Cocktail Party at Frank Sinatra's Twin Palms Estate – Sip cocktails at the legendary Twin Palms Estate, once home to Frank Sinatra, in a night that promises elegance, nostalgia, and perhaps a little crooning.

Apr 25: DAP Health, Dining Out for Life 2024 – Dine out, do good. Participating restaurants donate a portion of their proceeds to support DAP Health, so you can help the community simply by enjoying a delicious meal.

Apr 24-26: Stagecoach 2024 – The country music festival that's a little bit rock n' roll and a whole lot of fun. Dust off your cowboy boots and get ready to line dance under the desert sky.

Apr 25-28: Defying Gravity with Palm Springs Gay Men's Chorus – A musical journey that promises to lift your spirits and perhaps even your feet off the ground.

Apr 26: Revivals After Dark / Back Alley Event – A night market like no other, blending art, fashion, and music in a setting that's as unexpected as it is thrilling.

Apr 27: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

April 28: International Jazz Day – Celebrate the universal language of jazz with performances that span the genre's rich history and its bright future.

May 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

May 1: Rock the Park - WANTED: A Tribute to Bon Jovi – Channel your inner rock star at this electrifying tribute concert. Sing your heart out to "Livin' on a Prayer" under the stars and feel the energy of live music bringing people together.

May 4: Beethoven & Friends / Desert Winds Freedom Band – An evening of classical music with a modern twist, showcasing the talents of the Desert Winds Freedom Band. It's a perfect blend of history and harmony.

May 3-5: Artworks: Theatre Fest 2024 / Desert Theatreworks – Dive into the world of theater with this festival showcasing local playwrights, directors, and actors. From comedy to drama, there's a story for everyone.

May 9: Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast 2024 – Start your day with inspiration at this breakfast honoring the legacy of Harvey Milk. It's an event that celebrates diversity, courage, and the ongoing fight for equality.

May 15: Momentum: a Concert by Modern Men's Chorus – Experience the power of voices united in song. The Modern Men's Chorus presents an evening of music that promises to inspire and move you.

May 17-18: Tag Team (Bears & Cumunion Collide): An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

May 24-27: Desertopia Memorial Day Weekend 2024 – Kick off the summer with a bang at Desertopia, a weekend-long celebration of LGBTQIA+ pride, culture, and community. Expect parties, performances, and plenty of poolside fun.

May 31: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.

June 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

June 1: Sarah McLachlan at Acrisure Arena – Fumbling Towards Ecstasy 30th Anniversary Tour, with special guest Feist.

June 4: Janet Jackson at Acrisure Arena – Together Again Tour, with special guest Nelly.

June 18-24: Palm Springs International ShortFest 2024 – Celebrate the art of short filmmaking at this renowned festival. With screenings, panels, and workshops, it's a cinephile's dream come true.

June 28: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.

June 29: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

June 29: Equality Wine Fest – Sip, savor, and support equality at this exquisite wine festival. Featuring selections from LGBTQIA+-friendly wineries, it's a taste of the good life, all for a good cause.

July 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

July 4-6: Dadfest – Dadfest is a celebration of, you guessed it, daddies! Western Xposure is a sex-positive party in the desert, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

July 5: New Kids On The Block at Acrisure Arena – With special guests Paula Abdul and DJ Jazzy Jeff.

July 19: Jennifer Lopez at Acrisure Arena – This Is Me Tour.

July 19-21: Gay Wine Weekend 2024 – Continue your vinicultural voyage with a weekend dedicated to the finer things in life. Wine tastings, vineyard tours, and elegant dinners await in this oenophile's oasis.

June 20-22: Heatwave 2024 – Western Xposure is a sex-positive bear party in the desert, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

July 21: Palm Springs Lip Sync Contest – Let your inner diva shine at this uproarious event. Whether you're channeling Cher or channeling your best Madonna, it's your time to lip-sync for your legacy.

July 26: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.

July 27: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

August 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

Aug 8: Alanis Morissette at Acrisure Arena – The Triple Moon Tour, with special guests Joan Jett and the Blackhearts and Morgan Wade.

Aug 8-11/16-18: Splash House 2024 – The ultimate summer pool party is back, blending the heat of the desert with cool beats and even cooler drinks. It's where music, swimming, and dancing create the perfect summer vibe.

Aug 16: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.

Aug17: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

September 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

Sept 6: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.

Sept 7: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

Sept 21: Art In the Park in the Dark – Experience art like never before in this unique nighttime event. As darkness falls, the park comes alive with illuminated installations, live performances, and an atmosphere of mystery and wonder.

October 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

Oct 10-12: The Haunted Gay Resort – Western Xposure is a sex-positive party in the desert, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

Oct 17-19: Raise Some Hell – Western Xposure is a sex-positive party in the desert, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

November 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

Nov. 1-3: Palm Springs Pride 2024 – Cap off the year with Palm Springs Pride, the pinnacle of LGBTQIA+ celebrations. With parades, parties, and performances, it's a festival of love, acceptance, and fabulousness that draws together the community from far and wide.

Nov 8: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.

Nov 9: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

December 2024 Events in Gay Palm Springs

Dec 6: BearUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City), specifically for the bears.

Dec 7: CumUnion: An ongoing late-night sex-positive event, hosted by CCBC in Cathedral City (aka Cat City).

Why Palm Springs? 

Aside from the year-round sunshine and the backdrop that looks like a constant Instagram filter, Palm Springs is a place where you can truly be yourself. It's a community that welcomes everyone with open arms and a cold cocktail. Making friends is as easy as stepping out your door, and forming lasting connections happens as quickly and naturally as the desert blooms after a rain. Whether you're here for the art, the parties, or the peace of mind, you'll find your tribe in Palm Springs.

So, pack your bags, bring your short-shorts, and prepare for a vacation that's anything but ordinary. Palm Springs is where every gay man's travel dreams are set to come true. See you soon in the desert!


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