What People Get Wrong About Summer in Palm Springs
Summer in Palm Springs is hotter than you think – and we’re not talking temperatures. The Palm Springs Guys bust the myths, share their own 120-degree origin story, and reveal what gay travelers are missing.
Let's be honest about something most travel guides won't say out loud: Palm Springs in summer is not for everyone. The temperatures are real. The triple digits are not a rumor or an exaggeration or something that only happens on the one day you didn't pack sunscreen. It can be a legitimate 108°F at two in the afternoon while you’re standing on the sidewalk, and the desert will remind you who’s in charge (yes, sir!).
So yes. It is hot in the summer here. But many people often write off the entire season based on the temperature number, as if "hot" automatically means "miserable" and "miserable" means "not worth the trip." This is understandable logic. It's also the reason why summer in Palm Springs remains one of the best-kept secrets of gay travel in California – quiet, pool-centered, surprisingly social, and available at prices that disappear the moment September arrives.
We know this because we learned it the hard way one 120-degree August (keep reading) and we have never looked back…
Is Palm Springs worth visiting in summer? (In Short)
Is Palm Springs worth visiting in summer? Summer in Palm Springs – defined as June through September – brings average highs between 102°F and 110°F, with humidity levels typically below 30%. While midday heat is genuinely intense and requires respect, experienced visitors and locals structure the day around early mornings for outdoor activity, pool-centered afternoons, air-conditioned museums and spas, and warm evenings on misted patios. The Palm Springs Aerial Tramway reaches 8,516 feet – around 30 degrees cooler – in under 10 minutes, and Idyllwild is a 47-mile mountain town escape that sits 20-plus degrees cooler than the valley floor. For LGBTQ+ travelers, the social scene remains active after dark year-round, and the real estate market in summer tends to favor buyers. Summer in Palm Springs has its own pleasures, pace, and advantages for those who come prepared.
How We Ended Up Here: A 120-Degree Origin Story
The first weekend we ever spent in Palm Springs was in August. It was a searing 120 degrees – not a misprint, not a rounding error, and not the kind of heat you can intellectually prepare for when you've been living in Los Angeles for 5 years.
We were simply looking to get away for the weekend. We had no particular plan, no desert survival strategy, and no real understanding of what we were walking into. What we did have was a booking at Santiago Resort – our very first clothing-optional resort experience – and a general excitement for what that would be like.
The heat, it turned out, did not actually prevent us from having one of the best weekends of our lives. We maneuvered it the way the locals do – pool in the afternoon, cool drinks in the shade, dinner after the sun dropped behind the mountains, and nights that were manageably warmer than we expected but electric in a way that neither of us had quite experienced before. The desert has a particular magic after dark that the heat, in a strange way, seems to intensify rather than diminish.
By Sunday afternoon, we were doing something we had not anticipated: talking seriously about moving here. This sounds insane, we know. We were two guys from LA, sitting in 120-degree heat in the middle of August, looking at each other and saying: we want to live here. The heat didn't scare us away – and we were just as shocked about that as you probably are. Instead, it unlocked something within us. We saw a future here – and little did we know what an incredible ride we were about to embark on. Five years later, we are the Palm Springs Guys. 🌴
Fun antidote: soon after we finally moved here, I had a happenstance discussion with a retired Rabbi who was living in Palm Springs. We were both sitting at a wine bar called Dead Or Alive Bar (may she rest in peace) – and I told him this story. He replied by reminding me that much of the greatest historical and biblical insights/breakthroughs all happened somewhere in the desert. There’s something magically mysterious and inexplicably healing about this desert heat.
But let’s get back to it and debunk a few of the myths surrounding summer in the low desert…
Myth No. 1: "Palm Springs Shuts Down in Summer"
This is probably the most stubborn misconception about the season, and it is simply not accurate. Some businesses adjust their hours. Some restaurants trim their days. The crowd is thinner, the energy is lower-key, and the city operates at a different pace than it does in February or April. Many resorts and businesses offer summer discounts that make traveling here even more affordable as well.
But Palm Springs does not close. It shifts – earlier in the morning, later in the evening, and deeper indoors during the hot middle hours. The Palm Springs Art Museum runs year-round. The Agua Caliente Cultural Museum is open. The spas, restaurants, galleries, nightlife venues, and resort pools are operating. The Aerial Tramway is one of the most popular summer destinations in the entire region. The LGBTQ+ social scene is always alive and consistently surprising to first-time summer visitors who arrived expecting a ghost town and found a warm, intimate, and very much alive community instead.
With nearly 50% of Palm Springs' population identifying as LGBTQ+, the community here does not simply disperse when June arrives. It adapts, as it always has. 🏳️🌈
Myth No. 2: "Locals Just Suffer Through It"
They don't. They've choreographed it. The local summer rhythm in Palm Springs is one of the things that visitors from cooler climates find most fascinating once someone explains it to them. Residents tend to run errands before 10 a.m., when the morning air is genuinely pleasant and the city has a certain quiet, golden quality that's worth waking up for. From late morning through mid-afternoon, the home closes up: AC on, blinds adjusted, the afternoon used for work, reading, a long nap, or the kind of unhurried indoor time that most people only allow themselves on vacation.
Then, gradually, the city reemerges. The mountains begin casting their late-afternoon shade across parts of the valley. The temperature edges back toward something comfortable. And by evening, the outdoor dining scene – patios with misters, warm air that smells like desert sage, mountains glowing pink in the last light – is one of the genuinely great pleasures of a Palm Springs summer.
There's a reason locals call it the desert siesta. The intelligence is in the timing. The best summer people here are morning people, at least temporarily.
A practical note for first-timers: hydrate more than you think is necessary, apply high-SPF sunscreen before you intend to be outside for long, wear breathable fabrics and a hat, and avoid strenuous outdoor activity from roughly 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Hiking during extreme heat is specifically identified as dangerous and even life-threatening by official tourism guidance, especially during heat advisories. Early mornings work for light outdoor movement; the afternoon belongs to the pool, the spa, and the air-conditioned attractions.
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Myth No. 3: "The Pool Is a Consolation Prize"
Consider reconsidering your entire relationship with vacation itineraries.
In summer, the pool is not the backup plan when everything else falls through. The pool is the plan. A great summer day in Palm Springs might look like this: one excellent breakfast, one museum or gallery stop, four hours in or beside beautiful water with cold drinks and interesting company, a nap, and dinner on a misted patio after sunset. That is a good day. That may, in fact, be a perfect day.
The men-only clothing-optional resort culture in Palm Springs – which exists here at a concentration found nowhere else on earth – turns pool time into a social event in the most natural way imaginable. And for gay men in particular, the specific pleasure of a Palm Springs pool day has very little to do with what activities you're skipping and everything to do with what you're fully inhabiting.
Several resorts offer day passes for non-guests, which means you can turn an afternoon into something worth planning. For a full breakdown of the resort landscape, our guide Mild to Wild: How to Choose the Right Gay Clothing-Optional Resort in Palm Springs Based on Your Vibe does the work for you.
The summer nightlife, which quietly surprises almost everyone who experiences it, is an extension of this same energy – less frantic than peak season, more intimate, and often when the city feels most genuinely alive.
Myth No. 4: "You're Trapped in the Heat"
You're not trapped. You just have to know where to look. The Palm Springs Aerial Tramway is one of the great local secret weapons of summer, and it remains surprisingly underused by visitors who don't realize what it offers. The tram travels from the valley floor at 2,643 feet up to the Mountain Station at 8,516 feet – a vertical journey of nearly a mile – in about 10 minutes. Temperatures at the top run 20-30 degrees cooler than the valley floor, sometimes more. There are restaurants, a bar, observation areas, natural history exhibits, and access to more than 50 miles of hiking trails in Mount San Jacinto State Park. You can leave 108-degree Palm Springs, ride up through five climate zones in under a quarter hour, and arrive somewhere that feels genuinely like another world – cooler, pine-scented, and spectacular in every direction.
Idyllwild offers a different kind of escape. About 47 miles from Palm Springs, roughly an hour and a half by car, this pine-shaded community sits above 5,500 feet in the San Jacinto Mountains and runs 20-plus degrees cooler than the valley floor on a typical summer day. It has galleries, trails, brewpubs, cabins, restaurants, and the particular gentle charm of a small mountain town that has been beloved by desert dwellers for generations. When locals want a full reset rather than just a temperature shift, Idyllwild is the answer. Part of adapting well to a Palm Springs summer is simply knowing when to lean into the desert and when to take a mountain break.
Myth No. 5: "Summer Is a Bad Time to Think About Buying"
For anyone with real estate curiosity – and Palm Springs has a reliable way of sparking that curiosity, often around Day 3 of a great trip – summer is not the wrong time to look. It may, in certain meaningful ways, be the most revealing.
Recent Coachella Valley market data tells an interesting story. The April 2026 Greater Palm Springs REALTORS Desert Housing Report noted that seasonally adjusted sales were running 16.4% below historic norms, with five cities showing months-of-sales ratios above 6.0 – a shift into buyer's market territory. Total valley inventory was listed at 3,534 units, with a median 49 days on market, average discounts of -2.7% for detached homes and -3.4% for attached homes, and only 9.9% of homes selling over list price. The 2025 data was similar: a 34.5% year-over-year inventory increase, a 5.5 months-of-sales ratio, and Palm Springs homes selling at an average -4.1% discount.
For serious buyers, summer can create breathing room: fewer casual lookers, more homes to compare, longer time for due diligence, and in some segments, more room for negotiation. The right strategy depends on neighborhood, price point, condition, and seller motivation – which is exactly the kind of local nuance worth discussing with someone who knows this market deeply – like fellow Palm Springs Guy Glen Nadeau (wink wink).
There's also a reason we always tell people who are considering relocating here: don't only visit in February. Come in July or August. See how you feel in the morning, and at 2 p.m., and after dinner. That is when you learn whether Palm Springs is a fantasy or a fit. For those thinking seriously about a move, our article Curious About Moving to Gay Palm Springs? What We Hear Most answers the questions that come up around Day 3 of almost every great trip here.
TL;DR – Summer in Palm Springs 😎
Summer in Palm Springs (June–September) averages 102°F–108°F with low humidity. Locals design the day around early mornings for activity, pool-and-shade afternoons, and social evenings on misted patios. The Palm Springs Aerial Tramway rises to 8,516 feet in 10 minutes (around 30 degrees cooler); Idyllwild is a 47-mile mountain escape that runs 20-plus degrees cooler. The city doesn't close in summer – it shifts earlier, later, and indoors. For gay travelers, the community is active year-round, the pools are spectacular, and summer tends to be both quieter and more affordable than peak season. For buyers, summer inventory and market conditions can create real advantages. Summer is not a failed version of spring. It's its own season, with its own pleasures.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: Is Palm Springs too hot to visit in summer?
A: It depends on how you plan. Summer temperatures in Palm Springs (June–September) average between 102°F and 108°F, with peak days exceeding 115°F. Midday is genuinely intense and not ideal for casual outdoor sightseeing. Visitors who structure their days around early morning activity, afternoon pools and air-conditioned attractions, and evening dining on misted patios consistently report enjoyable trips. Safety planning – hydration, sunscreen, shade, and avoiding outdoor exertion between 10 a.m. and 4 p.m. – is essential.
Q: What do locals actually do during the hottest part of the day in Palm Springs?
A: Palm Springs residents tend to complete errands before 10 a.m., keep the home closed and cool through the peak afternoon heat, use afternoons for indoor work or air-conditioned leisure, and reemerge for patio dining and social plans in the evening. The "desert siesta" is not a cultural affectation; it's an efficient adaptation to a predictable climate.
Q: Where can you go near Palm Springs to cool off in summer?
A: The Palm Springs Aerial Tramway is the fastest option – a 10-minute ride to 8,516 feet, where temperatures are typically 30-plus degrees cooler than the valley floor, with restaurants, a bar, and access to 50+ miles of mountain trails. Idyllwild, about 47 miles away and sitting above 5,500 feet, runs 20-plus degrees cooler and offers a full mountain-town escape with galleries, dining, hiking, and cabin rentals.
Q: Is summer a good time to look at real estate in Palm Springs?
A: Summer tends to shift market conditions in favor of buyers. The April 2026 Greater Palm Springs REALTORS Desert Housing Report showed higher inventory, longer days on market, average sale discounts on both detached and attached homes, and fewer homes selling over asking price compared to peak season norms. For serious buyers, fewer competing buyers and more room for due diligence can make summer a strategically smart time to look – though outcomes vary by neighborhood, price point, and seller motivation.
Why Gay Palm Springs Is Worth Every Degree of It
Gay Palm Springs, in any season, is one of those places that earns its own category. The year-round pleasures here – more than 300 days of sunshine, a community where nearly half the population identifies as LGBTQ+, world-class dining and spas and architecture, resort pools unlike anything else on earth – don't pause because the thermometer climbed into triple digits. They shift, recalibrate, and in many ways become more intimate and more honest about what this place actually is beneath the glossy peak-season surface.
Summer strips away some of the crowds and the noise. What remains is the essential Palm Springs: warm mornings with good coffee on a shaded patio, afternoons where the water is everything, evenings that glow with a particular warmth that has nothing to do with the temperature, and a community that is genuinely, unhurriedly itself.
New friends are made here with a natural ease that surprises almost everyone. There is something about a city where nearly half the residents share your identity – and where that shared identity is simply the texture of daily life, not a designated neighborhood or a calendar-marked event – that makes connection feel less effortful than anywhere else. We've watched first-time summer visitors arrive skeptical and leave planning their return. We've watched some of them start doing real estate math before their trip was even over.
For more on what it means to live and love Gay Palm Springs in every season, check out some of our favorite reads from the blog:
How Gay Men Actually Spend a Week in Palm Springs (Not the Brochure Version)
Palm Springs vs. Everywhere Else: Why LGBTQ+ Travelers Keep Choosing the Desert
Have you visited Palm Springs in summer? Tell us what surprised you most – or ask us anything about what a summer trip actually looks like on the ground.
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5 Things We Always Tell Gay Friends Visiting Palm Springs for the First Time
Planning your first Palm Springs gaycation? Here are 5 things we always tell our gay friends visiting Palm Springs for the first time – insider vacation tips on weather, nightlife, resorts, and embracing your fabulous self.
We’ve lived in Palm Springs for five years now, and let us tell you – there’s simply nowhere else quite like it. If you’re a gay man looking to live your best vacation fantasy (and maybe even flirt with the idea of staying for good), Palm Springs is the sun-soaked, speedo-clad, cocktail-in-hand escape of your dreams.
Palm Springs isn’t just gay-friendly – it’s practically gay-designed. From the moment you land, the mountains flirt with you, the boys wink at you, and the warm desert breeze whispers, “Take off your shirt, sexy.”
Whether you're coming to party, relax, explore, connect, or disconnect, here are the 5 things we always tell our gay friends before their first visit.
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know (and let us know why)!
1. Yes, it’s hot here in the desert – but it’s not like how you imagine.
Here’s the truth: desert heat hits differently. If you’re coming from a humid place like NYC or DC, 80° there feels like 110°. But here, a dry 105° can actually feel... dare we say... refreshing. Or at least comfortable.
That said, don’t get cocky about it. The sun is strong, the booze is stronger, and the dehydration is real. Hydrate often (we love a reusable water bottle), layer on that SPF, and bring a fan you can snap open for dramatic effect (yaass, Queen).
Pro Tips:
Do your hiking, brunching, or grocery shopping early.
Head indoors mid-afternoon – think Palm Springs Art Museum exploration, or a stylish air-conditioned nap.
Take the Aerial Tramway to escape the heat – temps up there can be 20° cooler (and the views are magnificent)!
With more pools per capita than anywhere in the country, take a dip – day or night.
2. You’ll feel more seen here than anywhere else you’ve been – so embrace it.
Palm Springs is proudly over 40% LGBTQ+. That means wherever you go – whether it’s the farmer’s market, a drag brunch, or Trader Joe’s – you’ll feel like you belong here.
Don’t hold back. Hold hands. Rock the mesh tank. Flirt with strangers. Be the main character at brunch. Whether you’re 25 or 75 – a twink, a bear, or a daddy – you’re part of the tapestry here.
From our local government and police force to our local businesses and eateries – there’s something magical and deeply healing about being in a town where your queerness is celebrated.
3. Most of our resorts for men-only are clothing-optional – but that doesn’t mean what you think.
Yes, most of our resorts for men-only clothing-optional. But that can mean different things depending on where you stay.
Looking for a relaxed, classy vibe with a friendly crowd? Start with Santiago Resort – perfect for first-timers. Ready to crank up the steam? Casa Oliver brings the heat (and then some).
Etiquette 101:
Be yourself, but embrace the opportunity to be as free as you’d like.
Keep your phone to yourself (no photos!).
Respect everyone’s vibe – friendships and flings happen naturally.
And who knows? That stranger in the hot tub might just become your new bestie. It happens all the time here.
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4. Check out the theme parties – but pace yourself!
Palm Springs nightlife comes to life when a good theme calls. At Tool Shed, underwear night is always a popular weekly attraction. Be sure to wear your sexiest jock strap and leather harness for this – or make a pit stop at Gear Leather & Fetish next door.
Pro tip: the “Palm Springs pour” is not for amateurs. One drink here is often a double (and it’s still 90° outside), so sip wisely, gurrrl.
After Dark Suggestions:
Start at Tool Shed or Dicks on Arenas
Dance it out at Chill Bar or Quadz in the Arenas district after, or…
If you're in the mood for more... Club 541 (Palm Springs’ new sex club) is across the street.
Take a Lyft or Uber. Nobody looks cute getting a DUI in a harness.
5. During in-season (September–May), make those dinner reservations in advance – and leave time for a disco nap.
Palm Springs is a seasonal lady – and when she’s in-season, everyone’s out. Tables book up fast, especially at hot spots like:
Bar Cecil (try booking 1–2 months out!)
Clandestino, Lola Rose, and Ponzu are also go-to faves.
Shows, concerts, and drag revues can start early (7 or 8 PM), but the bars don’t start hopping until 9 or 10. Our advice is to plan ahead for dinner, take a disco nap, then head out looking rested and radiant.
Why Gay Palm Springs Is Always a Good Idea
Year-round sunshine, breathtaking desert views, and one of the most welcoming LGBTQ+ communities in the world? Yes, please.
From chill pool days to wild theme nights, from world-class dining to once-in-a-lifetime friendships, Palm Springs invites you to strip off the expectations, dive into freedom, and just… be exactly who you are inside and out. You’ll come alive here.
If you could give one piece of advice to a gay friend visiting PS for the first time, what would it be? What surprised you most during your first visit to Palm Springs? Share your experiences!
If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs, Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs, and Santiago, Descanso & Twin Palms Resorts: A Three-Way Comparison.
Curious About Buying, Selling, or Relocating?
Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.
In addition to being one half of The Palm Springs Guys – Glen Nadeau is one of Palm Springs’ top-producing Realtors, known for his no-pressure approach, deep market expertise, and genuine commitment to his clients.
A member of The Caldwell & Linger Group – ranked a Top Real Estate Team by Palm Springs Life Magazine – Glen is also backed by COMPASS, which remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country. Glen takes great pride in knowing that his clients are in such good hands.
“Hospitality is what drives me because helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves.”
Visit Modern Living Palm Springs, or reach out to me directly. Ask me anything – I promise to give you much more support than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.
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How Palm Springs Became the Safest LGBTQ+ Place in America
Discover why LGBTQ+ Americans are flocking to Palm Springs – a vibrant oasis where safety, inclusivity, and community meet. Explore the city’s rich LGBTQ+ culture, supportive infrastructure, and investment opportunities from our local gay perspective.
When the world feels more like a bad sequel than a hopeful reboot, LGBTQ+ Americans are doing what they do best – securing their promising futures. Enter Palm Springs, California, a city so welcoming it will greet you with a Pride flag and a martini as soon as you arrive. This desert oasis has become our fulltime home – and it’s the place to be right now for those looking to combine safety, community, and endless sunshine.
Here’s why gay men and the broader LGBTQ+ community are packing their bags for Palm Springs faster than they can say, “Get me the F**K out of here!”
A Safe Haven in Tumultuous Times
It’s no secret that political turbulence has left many LGBTQ+ individuals questioning their safety. With threats like Project 2025 looming and human rights hanging in the balance, finding a sanctuary isn’t just a luxury – it’s a necessity.
Palm Springs shines as a beacon of hope now more than ever. Nearly 40% of the city’s population identifies as LGBTQ+, making it truly one of the most inclusive places in America. Here, you’re not just tolerated – you are embraced and celebrated.
A City That Says ‘No’ to Hate (and Yes to Drag!)
While many places in the U.S. are entangled in debates over LGBTQ+ rights, Palm Springs is busy doubling down on inclusivity. Case in point? The City of Palm Springs recently declared itself a sanctuary for drag performers – a bold move that screams in response to drag bans as, “Not here, not ever.”
Between local government and police force, our city's local leadership is unapologetically progressive, prioritizing policies that protect residents and foster a sense of belonging.
The Heart of LGBTQ+ History and Culture
Palm Springs is steeped in LGBTQ+ history that’s as rich as its present culture. From historical landmarks to art galleries and museums, the city celebrates its roots in ways that keep the spirit of resilience alive.
Even events like Palm Springs Pride festival and the legendary White Party take things up a notch, blending activism and celebration seamlessly. Living here is safe and downright joyful. And in case you’re wondering, yes, you can wear your short shorts at the grocery store.
Supportive Infrastructure Tailored to You
Safety is about acceptance and resources. Palm Springs delivers with a slew of LGBTQ+ organizations like The LGBTQ Center of the Desert, offering everything from mental health services to social engagement opportunities. Whether you’re seeking a sense of community or just someone to rave about the new season of Drag Race with, you’ll find it here.
Plus, local businesses go the extra mile to ensure inclusivity, from healthcare providers like DAP Health who understand your needs to boutique hotels that cater to your lifestyle.
Investing in Your Future: The Real Estate Advantage
Now, let’s talk dollars and cents – because safety and inclusivity aside, Palm Springs is a smart financial move too. Real estate in inclusive cities is in demand, and Palm Springs is no exception. Buying property here is both an investment in your peace of mind and in your future.
From mid-century modern masterpieces to cozy desert retreats, the city’s housing market offers something for every taste. And let’s be real – your Zoom meetings will hit differently working remotely from somewhere you love (and with a palm tree backdrop).
Make the Move, Gurrrlll
If you’re curious to learn more about our vibrant LGBTQ+ community here in Palm Springs, check out our other articles 10 Welcoming Neighborhoods: Why Palm Springs Should Be Your Next Home and Palm Springs LGBTQ+ Community: What You Need To Know.
Palm Springs is a place where you can be yourself unapologetically, surrounded by a community that lifts you up and celebrates your journey. Whether you’re looking for safety, connection, or the perfect spot for a pool party – Palm Springs has it all. Your best gay life awaits you here…
What other questions do you have?
Consider an experienced and knowledgeable local realtor (like me) to help you make sense of things.
If you’re ready to buy and/or sell yourself, I look forward to assisting you. I promise to give you a much more targeted answer than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.
Please feel free to give me a call, text, email me – or let’s schedule a Zoom meeting.
I’m looking forward to connecting with you!
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Best Gay Shopping in Palm Springs
From mid-century made modern home goods to gaycation fashion, Palm Springs is brimming with gay-owned and LGBTQIA+ businesses to patronize (along with some brand names that we all not-so-secretly love as well)…
From mid-century made modern home goods to gaycation fashion, Palm Springs is brimming with gay-owned and LGBTQIA+ businesses to patronize (along with some brand names that we all not-so-secretly love as well).
Mens short shorts are the unofficial gay dress code here in Palm Springs, so leave those straight-boy shorts at home and show us some thigh, handsome. You can start building your ST33LE Brand short shorts collection at Division Palm Springs until you've got every color of the rainbow under your belt (literally under your belt).
And while you're exploring the downtown area's signature boutiques (realizing how sexy your legs really are in those new short-shorts), be sure to check out some of our favorite spots too...
Mens Clothing
Division Palm Springs hosts a contemporary collection of tank tops, button downs, swim wear, and those highly coveted short shorts I mentioned above. If you really want to dress the part of an experienced Palm Springs gay, this is the place to shop – and it's right in the Arenas district.
GayMart USA proudly touts itself as America’s Favorite Gay Superstore. Swimsuits and underwear of all flavors are their specialty, but they've also got some fun cards, gifts, and adult novelty items (did someone say poppers)? GayMart is also in the heart of the Arenas district.
Bear Wear curates a nice selection of mens fashion, jewelry, and gifts. Philip ‘n Bruce always look forward to assisting you with your apparel needs – big men, small men, all men. And you guessed it – it's in the heart of the Arenas district.
Mr. Turk Menswear presents a swank modern resort interior that features 1970s styles with vintage flair at boujie prices. A bit further north on North Palm Canyon Drive, Mr. Turk is the baby spoon to Trina Turk Palm Springs.
Adult Gifts & Sex Shops
Rough Trade Gear Palm Springs has the hottest mens street, fetish, sport, and play gear – right in the heart of the Arenas District.
Gear Leather & Fetish has some of the best fetish goods from the world’s top makers for men who play hard. They're located on East Sunny Dunes Road, so grab a drink at the Tool Shed next door for some inspiration first.
Art, Gifts & Inspiration
Destination PSP offers uniquely fun and originally-designed merchandise. Their stylish, modern designs reflect the mid-century heritage of the Palm Springs experience. We particularly love their MCM (Mid-Century Modern) t-shirts and tissue box covers!
Just Fabulous Palm Springs is an modern lifestyle boutique offering a wide array of gifts, books, home decor that are as fun as they are inspiring.
Queertique Palm Springs is a queer lifestyle shop championing primarily independent queer artists unique art, apparel, goods, vintage and more. Be sure to take a selfie in their glamorous oversized dressing room (and then tag them in it obviously)!
The SHAG Store is the retail store for the artworks and merchandise of artist Josh Agle (aka SHAG). His style represents the vintage Palm Springs highlife, and every print is always hand signed and numbered by Shag himself.
Christopher Kennedy is Mid-Century made Modern. His home furnishings and interior design embody modern luxury and vibrant Southern California glamour.
Rancho Relaxo has a mission to inspire and delight, focusing on local artists and artisans who celebrate the spirit of Desert Modernism in their signature fashion, accessories, home decor, and gifts.
Home Furnishings & Accessories
H3K Home is a gay-owned operation specializing in design consultation, but they have a uniquely colorful showroom of Desert Modern home furnishings and accessories that would brighten anyone's day. We particularly love their Palm Strings Collection.
PS Homeboys are staging specialists with an inspiring showroom in the Arenas District that specializes in Mid-Century meets Modern home décor.
Wabi Sabi Japan Living is an ode to the “impermanence and imperfection” of Japanese art and design, featuring home goods and imported specialty groceries from Japan and Asia.
Consignment / Resale / Thrift Shops
Revivals is where all the conscientious gay locals shop, donate their furniture and appliances, contribute their art and jewelry, and volunteer their time. That's because all four (4) Revivals Stores and locations here in the Coachella Valley donates 100% of its profits to support comprehensive healthcare at DAP Health (the Desert AIDS Project) to the tune of over $1 million a year. Now that's what I call health "care"!
Misty's Consignments has room after room of professionally staged "venuets" filled with designer furniture, fine art, and more. It's an ever-rotating inventory wonderland for even the most discerning gay man (myself included)!
Antique & Vintage Furniture Shops
Antique Galleries of Palm Springs is the newest, largest, and best source for antique, vintage, and retro everything in the Coachella Valley. You'll find all sorts of random things here.
Palm Springs Vintage Market is a wonder to behold on the first Sunday of each month (8:00 am to 2:00 pm). Located at the Palm Springs Cultural Center (formerly Camelot Theatres), it has the best collection of Southern California sellers of vintage and antique furniture, art, clothing, jewelry, and home furnishings for any mid-century design enthusiast!
Wellness
The Men's Spa at La Dolce Vita is the only place where you can stay gay in town that includes a spa exclusively for gay men.
The Men’s Grooming Spot waxes where others don't. They also offer men’s massage, skin care, hair, and men’s nails with a "cool spa vibe" as the only complete men’s spa in the Coachella Valley.
World Gym Palm Springs has been referred to as the gayest gym in the world more than once since we've arrived here in Palm Springs. Think every type of gay (especially daddies and bears) wearing next-to-nothing and proudly keeping it "the" gay gym in town. Did somebody say cruising?
Daddy's Barbershop serves the LGBTQ communities and our allies with “old school barbering” and modern, sexy haircuts – right in the Arenas District.
Sunny Dunes Barber Shop is a no-frills, three-chair shop run by well-seasoned male barbers at a reasonable price.
The Vault Dispensary and Lounge promises to deliver the finest cannabis dispensary experience you can find. Their consumption lounge even features fun events, like Legendary (digital) Bingo night, hosted by comedian Deven Green & Ned Douglas!
Brand Names
Don't worry, boys – there's an H&M Palm Springs right here in the heart of downtown too for those of us who crave the familiar side of retail therapy.
West Elm Palm Springs is right next to H&M as well, so go seek some inspiration there while you're at it. Just consider supporting a local brand as well (unless you really need that sickening lamp that only West Elm can provide).
The Desert Hills Premium Outlets & Cabazon Outlets are side-by-side and just a quick 20-minute drive west of Palm Springs if you get that outlet itch. The Desert Hills Premium Outlets are the real highlight between the two, featuring all the name brands we love.
Palm Desert Shops is a great resource for where the bougier shops are. In fact, Palm Desert is where everything bougie and corporate is.
So, What's The T?
Why the Palm Springs Guys? The truth (the T) is that we wanted to create the kind of platform we were originally looking for ourselves before we moved here. There are lots of great resources available for all things gay here in Palm Springs, but none of them offered the kind of local flavor and local intel in one place that we were seeking…
*If you’re as obsessed with RuPaul's Drag Race as we are, you already know that 'The T' is another term for 'the Truth.'
If you didn’t know, well, you’re welcome.
Hey, Guys! We are Gregory and Glen (aka the Palm Springs Guys).
Consider us your new local guides to Gay Palm Springs. We’re pretty new to the high desert ourselves, so we invite you to explore the wonders of this Gaytropolis along with us, hand-in-hand (aww).
Why the Palm Springs Guys? The truth (the T) is that we wanted to create the kind of platform we were originally looking for ourselves before we moved here. There are lots of great resources available for all things gay here in Palm Springs, but none of them offered the kind of streamlined local flavor in one place that we were seeking. The Palm Springs Guys is our take on Gay Palm Springs!
While we may be new full-timers here ourselves, we hope our fresh perspective and new discoveries will become your secret weapon to Gay Palm Springs travel and pleasure. We can’t wait to share everything we learn with you along the way – all the hidden gems and the not-to-be-missed – so that you can eat, play, and stay gay here in the greater Palm Springs desert of Southern California.
The best way to follow along is through our What's The T? newsletter (which you can sign up for below)…
Like you, the pandemic served up some serious transitional realness for Glen and I – from Maryland to Marilyn (with a few places in between). If you’re curious to learn more about our backstory, check out our about page.
For now, here's some food for deep thought. After three (3) months in Palm Springs now, we are surrounded by shining examples of pride everywhere we go. Beautiful layers of pride to replace outdated layers of shame.
We’ve come a long way as gay men, but there’s still so much shame we carry in the queer community. That’s why it matters to celebrate who we are. That’s why gay communities that flourish in destinations like Palm Springs are so important – and why destinations like Palm Springs are only baby steps in the right direction in acknowledging generations of shame and struggle.
Glen and I are 40 years old now. We’ve been lucky in both our lives, but we’re finally PROUD to be who we are. We are no longer ashamed – and we’re reminded of that every day out here so far.
Come visit us sometime!
Cheers,
Glen & Gregory, The Palm Springs Guys
😎🌴🍸🏳️🌈⛰🏜
