Why Summer Is the Best Time to Buy in Gay Palm Springs
Discover why summer is the best time to buy in the Palm Springs real estate market, how it’s giving buyers the upper hand – and why gay Palm Springs is calling your name.
If you’ve ever stepped foot in Palm Springs and thought, “Could I just… stay forever?” – you’re not alone. Between the sunshine, sexy pool parties, and more mid-century modern eye candy than anywhere else, Palm Springs is the place gay dreams are made of.
If you’re considering buying into a slice of this desert paradise, now might be the smartest (and hottest) time to do it.
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us (and let us know why).
In the meantime, here’s why we think summer is the best time to buy in Gay Palm Springs.
It's (Currently) A Buyer's Playground
Yep, you heard that right. Palm Springs is still in a buyer’s market, which means you’ve got leverage, gurl. That means more wiggle room on price, better options, better terms, and the chance to actually sleep on it (without losing the deal). But fair warning: this won’t last much longer.
Hot Summers Are Ideal For Buyers
Palm Springs summers may be toasty, but that’s precisely why smart buyers are making their moves now. Fewer tourists means less competition – and sellers are more likely to negotiate when the city’s a little quieter. While everyone else is cooling off in the pool, savvy gays are locking in their desert dream homes.
Inventory Is Still Plentiful
There’s still plenty of inventory to choose from across Palm Springs' beautiful neighborhoods, from high-style condos in the historic Tennis Club district to sprawling mid-century marvels in Vista Las Palmas. Whether you're looking for a weekend retreat or your full-time queer sanctuary, the options are diverse.
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But Change Is Coming
Word on the street (and by street, we mean data from actual real estate economists) is that we could see a shift toward a seller’s market this fall. Translation: more buyers, less inventory, and tighter competition. So if you want in before the crowd, the time is now.
Book Those Private Tours
If you're ready to see for yourself, I (Glen Nadeau) am happy to be your Palm Springs real estate spirit guide. As a local expert (and one half of this fabulous duo behind The Palm Springs Guys), I know this market inside and out. Let’s book your private tours now and start your journey towards finding your gay desert dream home.
Don’t be shy. Call or text me at: 805-220-8097– or email me directly at: glen.nadeau@compass.com.
Why Palm Springs Is Always a Smart Idea
Palm Springs is like summer camp for grown-up gay men with free spirits and great taste. Whether it’s January or July, this desert oasis offers 350+ days of sunshine and a welcoming LGBTQ+ community that’s unmatched anywhere else. From world-class dining and mid-century-made-modern design to poolside flirtations and drag brunches, every season is gay pride here.
Palm Springs is full of kindred spirits ready to become new friends. It will always be a smart investment – in your dream home, your community, and your quality of life.
Would you move to Palm Springs full-time if you could? What would your dream home look like? Let us know.
If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like:
Curious About Buying, Selling, or Relocating?
In addition to being one half of The Palm Springs Guys – Glen Nadeau is one of Palm Springs’ top-producing Realtors, known for his no-pressure approach, deep market expertise, and genuine commitment to his clients.
A member of The Caldwell & Linger Group – ranked a Top Real Estate Team by Palm Springs Life Magazine – Glen is also backed by COMPASS, which remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country. Glen takes great pride in knowing that his clients are in such good hands.
“Hospitality is what drives me because helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves.”
Visit Modern Living Palm Springs, or reach out to me directly. Ask me anything – I promise to give you much more support than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.
Your Palm Springs Insider,
Glen Nadeau (pronounced “Ned-oh” as in “meadow”)
📱 Call or Text: 805-220-8097
📨 Email: glen.nadeau@compass.com
🔎 My Google Business Reviews ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Drag & Fly Tours: Anita Doll’s Five Eras of Palm Springs
The five eras that shaped Palm Springs – from yesterday’s sacred springs to today’s LGBTQ+ mecca – through the eyes of local drag queen Anita Doll. Her Drag & Fly Tour blends history, humor, and high camp aboard Palm Springs’ most fabulous attraction.
Gregory Douglass, Anita Doll & Glen Nadeau
Have you ever gotten Palm Springs history lessons from a drag queen on a tour bus with music videos, trivia, and actual prizes? Because that’s how we roll in the desert these days – literally.
Recently, The Palm Springs Guys experienced the iconic Drag & Fly Tours hosted by Anita Doll and Miss B. Guided (aka Rosemary Galore), and Palm Springs has never been more fabulously educational.
Anita, a former journalist turned storytelling showgirl, guides guests through five distinct eras that shaped Palm Springs into the queer desert utopia it is today – all aboard a luxury “theater on wheels” that turns history into herstory.
Thanks to Anita (a.k.a. JD Cargill), we now have a sassy, smart, and deeply thoughtful breakdown of Palm Springs’ queer-coded history – and as far as we’re concerned, it’s a theory worth considering.
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us (and let us know why).
In the meantime, here is Drag & Fly Tour’s Anita Doll’s five eras of Palm Springs...
Era 1: The Agua Caliente Era (Ancient–19th Century)
Cahuilla people courtesy of the Palm Springs Historical Society
Before the movie stars and muscle gays, the Agua Caliente Band of Cahuilla Indians were the first to call Palm Springs home – for thousands of years before Western settlers. The sacred hot springs were the literal and spiritual lifeblood of this region.
They believed in at least three genders, recognizing a “Two-Spirit” identity long before Westerners caught up. Their worldview instinctively saw gender as non-binary, rooted in spiritual and social balance – which means that this level of Queer wisdom has been around longer than all 1 million seasons of Drag Race.
The spring, still bubbling beneath the luxurious Séc-he Spa, was much more than just a spa day back then. It was survival, spirituality, and sanctuary. The stage was being set for Palm Springs eventually becoming a place of healing, transformation, and deeper connection.
In many ways, this era centers around the healing power of water – a resource so vital that it defined where and how people lived for generations.
Era 2: The Founding Mothers Era (Late 1800s–Early 1900s)
Nellie with her sons Owen and George. Photo courtesy of the Palm Springs Historical Society
The early 1900s gave us the original wellness influencers: a fierce group of women who built guest houses, sanitariums, and health retreats around those mineral-rich waters and our refreshingly dry desert air.
Enter Nellie Coffman (who built the iconic Desert Inn in 1909), Pearl McCallum, Cornelia White, Ruth Hardy, and more. These ladies created what Anita calls the “Girl Power Era,” establishing Palm Springs as a healing hideaway, rooted in the belief that the mineral-rich waters and arid desert air offered therapeutic benefits – especially for those suffering respiratory conditions.
They were building empires before they could vote, honey.
Today, their impact still echoes. The site of the Desert Inn is now home to the Rowan Hotel, and the Marilyn Monroe statue is just a stone throw away – both symbols of modern Palm Springs still standing on historic ground.
Era 3: The Hollywood’s Playground Era (1920s–1960s)
Liberace in Palm Springs
Once word got out about Palm Springs, the stars began to descend. Why? Because Palm Springs was just far enough (100 miles) from Hollywood that paparazzi wouldn't follow. Locals still refer to this as the “100 mile” rule.
Actors were also contractually obligated to still be close enough if they needed to be called into the studio last-minute. Palm Springs was the perfect escape.
Later, once cameras did arrive, the resorts were walled, gated, and gloriously hush-hush. Resorts were discreet, and owners were known for fiercely protecting their guests' privacy.
From the silent film era to the Rat Pack years, Palm Springs became a secret escape for the famous and fabulous during this era: Liberace, Rock Hudson, Truman Capote, Tallulah Bankhead, Marlene Dietrich, Cary Grant, and dozens more.
This was the era of mental health and personal freedom. Queer (but closeted) stars with “career-ending secrets” could live, love, and lounge under the radar – poolside martini in hand. 🍸
Notable venues included El Mirador, Ingleside Inn, the Desert Inn, the Oasis Hotel, and the Racquet Club (where Marilyn Monroe famously caught the eye of her agent).
Era 4: The Modernism Era (1940s–1970s)
The Sinatra House History with Piano Shaped Swimming Pool
Eventually, Hollywood’s elite stopped renting and started building.
As stars like Frank Sinatra and Bob Hope began buying and building homes, they hired the top architects of the day (now known as the Modern Masters – Albert Frey, Donald Wexler, William Krisel) to design custom homes that mirrored their liberated lives.
It was all about clean lines, indoor-outdoor living, and a fresh way of thinking – modernism as metaphor. Open floor plans met open sexuality, and a new aesthetic was born. Modernism symbolized freedom of thought and lifestyle – again tying back to health in terms of creative and personal expression.
The stars settled in, and the culture of design, art, and inclusivity blossomed. Even behind the scenes, queer influence shaped Palm Springs’ look and feel.
So next time you’re touring a MCM house in Palm Springs, remember that you’re walking through decades of queer-forward design thinking.
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Era 5: The Queer Era (1980s–Present)
Then came the 1980s. A dark time, indeed – but also one of resilience.
As AIDS devastated our community, many sick gay men came to Palm Springs seeking the same healing energy their predecessors had. Gay men from San Francisco who were HIV+ had nowhere else to turn because the only hospitals who would treat them were here in Palm Springs. They essentially came here to die – and be cared for with dignity until then.
This marked the beginning of Desert AIDS Project (now DAP Health) – and from there, something powerful bloomed.
Palm Springs became a safe haven for the LGBTQ+ community. Over the decades, a chosen family gathered: survivors, lovers, best friends, and allies. Now, it’s a place where representation reigns – from KGAY 106.5 FM to rainbow crosswalks and a majority-LGBTQ city council.
Today, inclusivity is a lifestyle here in Palm Springs: The city is now a global queer mecca, where identity is celebrated, and the healing, expression, and liberation continues.
The Common Thread: Health
As Anita brilliantly summarizes, health is the throughline across all five eras:
The Agua Caliente: Water as sacred life force
Founding Mothers: Wellness retreats in the healing desert air
Hollywood: Emotional and mental refuge
Modernism: Design as freedom of thought and spirit
Queer Era: Healing and community through crisis and recovery
Why You Belong Here, Too
Anita Doll’s Drag & Fly Tours
Whether it’s the sacred wisdom of the Agua Caliente or the fierce resilience of the queer community during the AIDS crisis, Palm Springs has always been a place of transformation, freedom, and healing – especially for those of us seeking to live our best gay lives. And thanks to Anita Doll’s Drag & Fly Tours, this rich history is now more accessible and entertaining than ever.
So, if you're planning a visit (and you absolutely should), add this drag queen-hosted joyride to your must-do list. Between the sunshine, the architecture, the pool parties, and now the most fabulous sightseeing tour on wheels, Palm Springs proves again and again that there’s nowhere quite like it.
What’s your favorite piece of Palm Springs queer history? Share your experiences!
If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like:
Curious About Buying, Selling, or Relocating?
In addition to being one half of The Palm Springs Guys – Glen Nadeau is one of Palm Springs’ top-producing Realtors, known for his no-pressure approach, deep market expertise, and genuine commitment to his clients.
A member of The Caldwell & Linger Group – ranked a Top Real Estate Team by Palm Springs Life Magazine – Glen is also backed by COMPASS, which remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country. Glen takes great pride in knowing that his clients are in such good hands.
“Hospitality is what drives me because helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves.”
Visit Modern Living Palm Springs, or reach out to me directly. Ask me anything – I promise to give you much more support than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.
Your Palm Springs Insider,
Glen Nadeau (pronounced “Ned-oh” as in “meadow”)
📱 Call or Text: 805-220-8097
📨 Email: glen.nadeau@compass.com
🔎My Google Business Reviews ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Is Mid-Century Modern on Hulu Just Gay Fiction? Here’s the Real Palm Springs Tea
Thinking about vacationing in Palm Springs? Hulu’s Mid-Century Modern is fueling the fantasy, but the real-life version is even better. Here’s what gay life in Palm Springs actually looks like — and why it should be your next getaway.
Let’s be real: Mid-Century Modern on Hulu is everything Gay Palm Springs. Iconic architecture. Sarcastic gay men in their prime. Poolside drama. Linda Lavin.
But the real gag? You don’t have to binge a sitcom pretending to live your best gay life when you can actually be here surrounded by palm trees, pool floats, and Palm Springs mid-century perfection.
Because here in Palm Springs, it’s not a fantasy. It’s the lifestyle!
Whether you’re visiting for the first time or you’ve been flirting with the idea of moving here permanently (you wouldn’t be the first!), let’s break down what this Hulu hit got right, what it got hilariously wrong, and why Palm Springs is still the desert capital that gay dreams are made of.
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know (and let us know why)!
In the meantime, here’s the real Palm Springs tea…
Mid-Century Modern: Glammed-Up Fiction or Desert Reality?
In Mid-Century Modern, three gay besties — Bunny, Jerry, and Arthur — move into a mid-century house in Palm Springs after a funeral and proceed to live together, surrounded by martinis, misadventures, and passive-aggressive zingers. Throw in Bunny’s live-in mother Sybil, and you've got a cross between Golden Girls and Will & Grace – but make it desert-chic.
Is this what life’s really like for gay men here in Palm Springs? Honestly? Kind of. But it’s also way better than you can imagine.
Yes, the Architecture Really Is That Sexy
Palm Springs is internationally known for its mid-century modern architecture. We’re talking:
Butterfly rooflines
Clerestory windows
Vintage breeze blocks
Pools that belong on a Slim Aarons postcard
Whether you’re strolling through Twin Palms, Vista Las Palmas, or Deepwell Estates, you’ll see homes that make you feel like you're in an Architectural Digest spread — except with fewer stylists and more shirtless men walking their dogs (aka their babies).
Want to geek out on architecture before you visit? Check out our Palm Springs Guys mid-century modern self-guided tour (Google Maps GPS-ready!) and discover the magic of Desert Modernism architecture for yourself.
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Chosen Family Vibes? Very That.
The premise of friends becoming a chosen family? Not only realistic — it’s Palm Springs culture in a nutshell.
The community here is tight-knit, supportive, and refreshingly unbothered. Whether you’re single, partnered, throupled, or “it's complicated,” you’ll find your people here faster than you can say “poolside cocktail at 2.”
In fact, Palm Springs has the highest percentage of LGBTQ+ residents of any city in the U.S. That means the whole place is basically a gay friend group waiting to happen.
So… Should You Visit?
Uh, yes. Immediately. Especially now (considering the state our current government, if you can even call it governing). Palm Springs is like a double layer of protection for our beautiful, vibrant, and inclusive LGBTQ+ community and our allies here in Southern California. But I digress.
Mid-Century Modern may have put Palm Springs back on the map for Hulu-watching audiences, but the truth is — we’ve been living this dream in real time for years.
Here’s why gay men from across the country (and around the world) flock here year-round:
Weather That’s Practically a Drag Queen: Always Serving Looks
300+ days of sunshine
Stunning mountain views in every direction (in the desert? Yes)!
Pool season is… every season
Even our winters are giving “hot tub and rosé”
Culture & Events That Keep It Cute
Modernism Week is a dream for design lovers
Palm Springs Pride is one of the largest, most inclusive and joyful in the country
Drag brunches, cabaret nights, spa days, and shopping galore
Basically: There’s always something going on, and you’ll never feel out of place doing it
A Place Where You’ll Actually Make Friends
Whether it’s happy hours at Chill Bar, lounging at your boutique resort, or exchanging flirtatious smiles at the guy across the table at FARM — making new friends (and maybe more?) is the Palm Springs way.
You’ll meet locals. You’ll meet travelers. You might even meet someone who convinces you to come back... permanently. Don’t say we didn’t warn you.
Final Thoughts: Palm Springs Is the Gay Getaway You Deserve
If you’re looking for a place that combines stylish relaxation, a welcoming LGBTQ+ community, and enough retro-chic vibes to make your Hulu watchlist jealous, Palm Springs is it.
Come for the mid-century fantasy — stay for the sunshine, culture, and community that makes real life here even better than the show. Whether you're in your 20s or your golden years, Palm Springs is ready to show you a good time on repeat.
Which Mid-Century Modern character are YOU — Bunny, Jerry, Arthur, or Sybil? Have you been to Palm Springs before? What’s your favorite spot? Share your experiences!
If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs, The Best Sex Shops and Adult Play Gear for Gay Men in Palm Springs, and Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs.
Curious About Buying, Selling, or Relocating?
In addition to being one half of The Palm Springs Guys – Glen Nadeau is one of Palm Springs’ top-producing Realtors, known for his no-pressure approach, deep market expertise, and genuine commitment to his clients.
A member of The Caldwell & Linger Group – ranked a Top Real Estate Team by Palm Springs Life Magazine – Glen is also backed by COMPASS, which remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country. Glen takes great pride in knowing that his clients are in such good hands.
“Hospitality is what drives me because helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves.”
Visit Modern Living Palm Springs, or reach out to me directly. Ask me anything – I promise to give you much more support than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.
Your Palm Springs Insider,
Glen Nadeau (pronounced “Ned-oh” as in “meadow”)
📱 Call or Text: 805-220-8097
📨 Email: glen.nadeau@compass.com
🔎 My Google Business Reviews ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Your Ultimate 2025 Events Guide to Gay Palm Springs (So Far)…
Discover the ultimate Palm Springs and Coachella Valley events for the first half of 2025, from Modernism Week to Coachella. Plan your gay getaway with our fabulous guide!
*This article was originally published on 1/2/25 and has been updated on 7/17/25 for more accuracy and relevance.
Palm Springs is year-round sunshine, a welcoming LGBTQ+ community, and a cultural calendar so packed you’ll wish you had more vacation days. If you’re a gay traveler craving a fabulous escape, Palm Springs and the Coachella Valley offer an electrifying blend of art, music, fashion, and fun. So, let’s dive into the can’t-miss events for the first half of 2025 (January - July)!
Shout-out to our friends at Gay Desert Guide for their annual compiling of events (which we are ruthlessly borrowing for this article). Check them out for day-by-day listings of nightlife, drag shows, happy hours, and more!
And just a heads up, White Party Palm Springs will NOT be taking place in 2025. They are taking a year off, but they’ll be back in full-swing in 2026!
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us (and let us know why)!
In the meantime, here are our votes on the ultimate 2025 events guide to Gay Palm Springs (so far)…
2025 Ultimate Palm Springs and Coachella Valley Calendar of Events
January
Palm Springs International Film Festival (Jan 2-13): Roll out the red carpet for an unparalleled cinematic experience.
Coachella Valley Firebirds Pride Night (Jan 11): Hockey meets fabulousness at Acrisure Arena.
The Center & Equality California: From Resilience to Action (Jan 13): Advocacy and inspiration collide in this impactful event.
Palm Springs Art Festivals (Jan 18-19): Celebrate creativity at Frances Stevens Park.
Justin Timberlake - Forget Tomorrow World Tour (Jan 20): Experience JT live in an unforgettable concert.
The Center Social (Jan 22): Meet and mingle at this community favorite.
The Southwest Arts Festival (Jan 23-26): A dazzling display of artistic talent in Indio.
5th Annual Desert Open Studios Tour (Jan 24-26): Peek inside the studios of Coachella Valley’s finest artists.
Palm Springs Health Run & Fitness Expo (Jan 25): Get moving and stay healthy at this high-energy event.
Art Party 2025 (Jan 25): A night of art, entertainment, and elegance.
February
Taste of Jalisco Festival (Jan 31-Feb 2): A fiesta of flavors in Cathedral City.
PS Test Fest (Feb 6): Experience drag, music, and cocktails galore at Toucans.
Tour de Palm Springs (Feb 7-8): Bike through the stunning Coachella Valley.
Palm Springs Readers' Festival (Feb 7-9): Celebrate literature and storytelling at Hotel Zoso.
Riverside County Fair & National Date Festival (Feb 13-Mar 2): Enjoy this annual celebration of dates and fun.
Modernism Week (Feb 13-23): A celebration of architecture and design.
Out at the Fair (Feb 15): Celebrate inclusivity at the Riverside County Fair.
International Bear Convergence (Feb 20-24): Bears, cubs, and otters unite at Hotel Zoso.
2025 Palm Springs International Pride Hockey Tournament (Feb 21-23): Watch LGBTQ+ athletes shine on the ice.
McCormick's Palm Springs Collector Car Auction (Feb 21-23): Bid on vintage cars at this iconic auction.
ARRIVAL from Sweden: The Music of ABBA (Feb 22): Relive the magic of ABBA live on stage.
March
2025 BNP Paribas Open (Mar 2-16): World-class tennis takes over Indian Wells.
Luck Be a Lady Gala (Mar 1): A glamorous evening of glitz and giving.
Mini Gay Day (Mar 1): Disneyland gets a fabulous LGBTQ+ twist.
Cathedral City LGBT Days (Mar 7-9): Celebrate diversity and inclusion in Cathedral City.
Metropolitan Fashion Week (Mar 8-9): Fashion and elegance at the Palm Springs Art Museum.
Desert X (Mar 8-May 11): Discover cutting-edge art installations across the desert.
Red Dress Dress Red Party (Mar 15): Dress to impress at this Palm Springs Air Museum extravaganza.
Fashion Week El Paseo (Mar 15-19): Haute couture takes center stage.
Steve Chase Humanitarian Awards (Mar 29): Celebrate philanthropy and community impact.
April
Faux Fur Ball (Apr 5): A paw-some evening benefiting animal welfare.
Coachella (Apr 11-13 & 18-20): The iconic music festival returns with star-studded lineups (with Lady Gaga leading the lineup)!
Glow with Pride – The Living Desert (Apr 17): A magical night of lights and Pride under the stars at the zoo.
Dining Out For Life – DAP Health (Apr 24): Dine local to support HIV/AIDS services—one bite at a time.
Disney Pride in Concert – PSGMC (Apr 24–27): Disney magic gets a fabulous Pride remix with the Palm Springs Gay Men’s Chorus.
Stagecoach (Apr 25–27): Country fans, boots, and LGBTQ+ cowboys take over the desert.
May
Hot Rodeo Palm Springs (May 2-5): Yeehaw! Experience LGBTQ+ rodeo magic.
David Sedaris – Palm Springs Cultural Center / Camelot Theatre (May 3): The beloved humorist brings his wit to the desert stage.
Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast (May 8): Honoring Harvey Milk’s legacy with an inspiring community breakfast.
Int’l Day Against Homophobia (May 17): A global day of LGBTQ+ awareness and allyship.
Long Beach Pride (May 17–18): Just a drive away, this coastal Pride fest features parades, performances, and good vibes.
WorldPride – Washington DC (May 17 – Jun 8): A global Pride celebration of unity, advocacy, and fabulousness.
Greater Palm Springs Restaurant Week (May 30 – Jun 8): Savor prix-fixe menus from local LGBTQ+-friendly restaurants.
June
AIDS/LifeCycle 2025: The Final Ride (June 1-7): Ride for a cause in this inspiring event.
Home Movies Out of the Closet / PSCC (June 1): A day-long celebration at the Palm Springs Cultural Center with a free LGBTQ+ home-movie preservation session, followed by rare film screenings and a reception.
Dazzling Divas Cabaret Fundraiser / PSGMC (June 1): A fabulous fundraising cabaret by the Palm Springs Gay Men’s Chorus celebrating iconic divas to support their 2025 season.
Give OUT 2025 (June 5): A national LGBTQ+ giving day encouraging community donations to support local nonprofit organizations.
Firefighters Fish Fry / Ruth Hardy Park (June 6): A beloved annual fundraiser featuring fish dinners, country dancing, raffles, and good old community spirit.
Equality Wine & Food Fest / Hyatt Palm Springs (June 7): A celebration of LGBTQ+ and BIPOC winemakers and chefs with tastings, live music, and community pride.
LA Pride! Marches On (June 8): LA Pride’s roving celebration heads to Palm Springs with music, drag, and mobile joy.
Pride Live! Hollywood (June 11–29): A national storytelling and advocacy tour uplifting LGBTQ+ voices, including performances in Hollywood and Palm Springs.
No Kings Mass Protest / DTPS Park (June 14): A bold trans-led protest and community gathering in downtown Palm Springs for visibility and liberation.
Big Gay BBQ / Arenas District (June 14–15): A festive BBQ takeover with DJs, drag, and dancing in the heart of the Arenas District.
Palm Springs International ShortFest / Festival Theaters (June 24–30): The world’s largest short-film festival with LGBTQ+ showcases, filmmaker panels, and networking events.
The Center Social / 103.1 MeTV FM (June 25): A monthly LGBTQ+ social mixer broadcast live on local radio and filled with great vibes and local connections.
San Francisco Pride (June 28–29): The iconic West Coast Pride celebration with parades, stages, and performances.
July
Gay Wine Weekend – Sonoma (Jul 18–20): Wine tastings, vineyard parties, and the famous Twilight T-Dance.
San Diego Pride 2025 (July 19–20): One of SoCal’s biggest Pride events with parades, block parties, and empowerment for all.
Mid‑Summer Dance Party / The Center (July 19): Go ALL OUT at the first summer dance party hosted by The Center – think retro beats (70s–90s), DJ Galaxy, Best Dressed contest & a food drive.
CumUnion / CCBC (July 19): Monthly CumUnion night at CCBC resort—expect late-night poolside socializing and music at Cathedral City’s clothing-optional gay men’s resort.
Trans Rights Political Forum (July 24): A timely political forum on trans rights hosted in Palm Springs as part of local civic engagement.
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August
Splash House 2025 (August 8–10 & 15–17): A desert dance music oasis spread over two weekends with pool parties, after-hours, and float-worthy fun.
CumUnion / CCBC (August 9): CCBC’s August edition of CumUnion—same late-night social vibes and rotating themes at the pool and resort venues.
Big Bear Romp (August 14–17): A leather and leisure mountain getaway with hiking, hot tubs, and homoerotic camaraderie.
The Palm Springs Guys Happy Hour / QUADZ (August 18): Join The Palm Springs Guys for a casual happy hour at QUADZ, featuring great drink specials and local community chatter.
Dogust Birthday Bash + Bingo / Rowan Hotel (August 22): Celebrate Dogust with your pup at the Rowan Hotel—birthday-themed bingo, dog treats, and rooftop fun.
Out On The Mountain / Six Flags (August 22): An LGBTQ+ private pride night at Six Flags Magic Mountain filled with thrill rides and live performances.
The August Center Social (August 27): The monthly LGBTQ+ mixer hosted by Center Social, spotlighted by Gay Desert Guide—networking, drinks, and inclusive vibes.
September
Celeb Lip Sync Battle (September 6): A star-studded celebrity lip sync battle fundraiser hosted locally (found via Instagram)—expect performances and red-carpet energy.
The Palm Springs Guys Happy Hour / One Eleven Bar (September 22): Another round of The Palm Springs Guys’ happy hour, this time at One Eleven Bar—community gathering with cocktails.
Gay Days Anaheim 2025 (September 12–14): Disneyland-adjacent Pride weekend with group outings, red shirts, and magic in the air.
The Dinah / The Riviera Resort (September 24–29): The world’s largest women’s party and music festival returns to Palm Springs with poolside beats and queer empowerment.
October
MOUNT / CCBC (October 3–4): CCBC’s MOUNT event—an autumn play-party with themed vibes, gear, and social connection.
Singing With The Desert Stars III (October 4): The third annual desert-themed singing competition featuring local celebrities and LGBTQ+ performances.
One Night Out Paris / PS Air Museum (October 4): A glamorous Parisian-themed party under the stars with DJs, live drag, and couture-inspired looks.
Pride Under the Pines / Idyllwild (October 4): A high-altitude LGBTQ+ retreat with live music, vendors, and fresh mountain air.
Joshua Tree Music Festival (October 9–12): An eclectic, intimate, and magical music festival set in the soulful desert landscape of Joshua Tree.
The Life and Music of George Michael / The Show (October 10): A tribute concert celebrating George Michael’s legacy, presented at The Show in Palm Springs.
RuPaul Werq the World Tour 2025 / The Show (October 11): RuPaul’s Werq the World Tour makes a stop in PS with dazzling queens and high-glam drag performances.
The Palm Springs Guys Happy Hour / Low Desert / Modern Mexican (October 15): Fall edition happy hour with The PS Guys at Modern Mexican in Low Desert—casual meet‑up style.
Modernism Week – October (October 16–19): A mini version of Palm Springs’ iconic celebration of midcentury architecture and design.
Center Stage Gala / The Center CV (October 17): An elegant evening of philanthropy and entertainment supporting The LGBTQ Center of the Desert.
Casual Concours / Great Autos (October 18): Palm Springs’ favorite car show for modernist motors and vintage vibes.
IGLTA Convention in Palm Springs (October 21–25): The International LGBTQ+ Travel Association brings its global convention to Palm Springs for the first time.
Palm Springs Pride Equality Walk (October 25): A brand-new kickoff event for Pride weekend promoting LGBTQ+ equity and community visibility.
East Coachella Valley Pride (October 26): Community-driven Pride celebration in the Eastern Coachella Valley region with live music, vendors, and affirming programming.
Palm Springs Leather Pride 2025 (October 30–November 2): Four days of leather, kink, and community with parties, contests, and brotherhood.
Halloween on Arenas (October 31): A spooky, festive block-party celebration on Arenas Road—costumes, drag, treats, and desert-style Halloween.
November
Palm Springs Pride (Nov 6–9): One of the most vibrant Pride events in the U.S.—parades, parties, and rainbow love.
DEEP / CCBC (November 11–16): CCBC’s week-long DEEP event celebrating deep connections, play parties, and wellness at the resort.
Cheyenne Jackson in Concert / Palm Springs Cultural Center (November 12): Star actor-singer Cheyenne Jackson performs live at the Cultural Center in Palm Springs (info via your blog).
Gregory Douglass in Concert / Revolution Stage (November 16): Singer-songwriter Gregory Douglass headlines at Revolution Stage—intimate evening of soulful music.
The Palm Springs Guys Happy Hour / Boozehounds (November 17): November’s happy hour meet-up hosted at Boozehounds—drinks, laughs, and community togetherness.
CumUnion / CCBC (November 22): Pre-holiday CumUnion night at CCBC—late-night social with music and play.
December
CumUnion / CCBC (December 31): New year CumUnion night at CCBC—late-night social with music and play.
Even More Fun 😈
If classic cruising and sex-positive fun is more what you seek, check out our favorite hot spots and their ongoing calendar of events…
Canyon Club Hotel
Canyon Club Hotel is the only gay men’s resort in downtown Palm Springs, offering a saltwater pool, a 16-man spa, and a unique garden oasis hedge maze. Affordable rates and day passes make it a popular choice for visitors seeking fun and relaxation.
Casa Oliver
Formerly All Worlds Resort, Casa Oliver is the largest gay men’s clothing-optional resort in Warm Sands. Enjoy their spacious pool, hot tub, outdoor showers, and both an outdoor and indoor maze play area. Day and night passes are available on weekends for added convenience.
CCBC
The CCBC Resort in Cathedral City (aka Cat City) is a haven for exploration and fun. Known for hosting special events like CUMUNION parties and pop-up events, this clothing-optional resort also offers day and night passes for endless possibilities.
Club 541
Club 541 is Palm Springs’ newest men’s-only club, designed for those eager to explore their fantasies. Open most nights and Wednesday afternoons (happy hump day!), it’s also conveniently close to the Tool Shed and several men-only hotels like Santiago.
Tool Shed
Known as Palm Springs’ premier leather and Levi bar, the Tool Shed is famous for its daily happy hours, cruising, and themed nights like Thursday Underwear Nights. Located in Warm Sands, it’s a must-visit for nightlife enthusiasts.
Why Palm Springs is Your Next Gay Paradise
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If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs, The Best Sex Shops and Adult Play Gear for Gay Men in Palm Springs, and Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs.
With events for every interest, you’ll find yourself enchanted by the charm of Palm Springs. Whether lounging by the pool, drinking bottomless mimosas at drag brunch, exploring the breathtaking desert landscapes, or down on your knees in a dark room – there’s no shortage of fun to be had and opportunities to make new friends and unforgettable memories. So pack your bags and let Palm Springs work its magic because you’ll likely be planning your next visit before you even leave!
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The Perfect Gay Getaway in Palm Springs for the Solo Traveler
Discover the ultimate gay solo traveler's guide to Palm Springs, CA. From luxurious resorts to delicious dining and vibrant nightlife, find out why this desert oasis is the perfect place for living your best gay life.
Ah, Palm Springs! A Mid-century modern mecca nestled in the Coachella Valley under the Californian sun, serving up a slice of paradise with a side of fabulous for the gay male solo traveler. This is where the vibe is as warm as the desert heat, where you can let it ALL hang out without a care in the world, and where every moment is a chance to celebrate who YOU are in this world. Welcome to Palm Springs, the ultimate destination for gay men seeking a solo (or boys weekend) adventure, relaxation, and everything in between.
Why Palm Springs?
Palm Springs is more of a lifestyle for gay men than it is a destination. It’s a safe haven where the LGBTQ+ community isn't just welcomed; it's celebrated. Our little desert oasis offers year-round sunshine, stunning architecture, and a vibe so inclusive you'll feel like you've finally come home – especially if you're flying solo. It's all about living your best life here, and often in ways guys have never truly experienced (or even imagined) until they get here.
Stay in Style
Santiago Resort: Luxe Lounging
At the Santiago Resort, luxury meets liberation in a clothing-optional paradise. Dive into their saline pool, indulge in complimentary poolside lunch, and make new friends under the Palm Springs sun. If it's all booked, their equally chic siblings, Descanso and Twin Palms, are just around the corner.
INNdulge Palm Springs: Economical Elegance
For a blend of affordability and allure, INNdulge is your haven in the Warm Sands district. With a 24-hour heated salt water pool, a 12-man jacuzzi, and decades of experience, it's the perfect pick for those new to the clothing-optional scene.
CCBC Men’s Resort Hotel: Playful Retreat
Seeking fun in a sex-positive space? CCBC Resort in Cathedral City (aka Cat City) offers a vast playground for your desires with special events – CUMUNION sex parties and male bonding pop-up events – day and night passes, and endless opportunities for adventure.
Dine Like You Mean It
Breakfast
Koffi: Kickstart your day with their robust oat milk iced lattes and satisfying egg sandwiches, available at various chic locations across Palm Springs.
Townie Bagels: For freshly boiled bagels and scrumptious baked goods, this spot in the Antique Shopping District is a must-visit.
FARM: A Provencal-style gem serving traditional French dishes with a twist of local flavors. Be early to beat the brunch rush!
Lunch
Clandestino: Dive into Latin American delights with a side of artistic flair, brought to you by the creators of FARM and Tac/Quila.
Santorini Gyro Restaurant: Authentic Greek cuisine that's as delicious as it is affordable. Don't miss their outdoor seating in Palm Springs for prime people-watching.
Chicken Ranch: Committing to freshness, enjoy farm-to-table salads, rotisserie chicken, and seasonal ingredients for a rejuvenating lunch.
Dinner
French Miso Cafe: Where Japanese meets French cuisine in a cozy setting. Quality dining awaits, but keep an eye on their hours.
Blackbook Bar & Kitchen: Located in the bustling Arenas district, known for the best bar food in town and a lively happy hour scene.
Workshop Kitchen & Bar: A farm-to-table experience with a James Beard-award winning design. It's a culinary journey not to be missed.
Bar Cecil: For a bistro experience that celebrates individuality and creativity, both in its aesthetics and its cuisine. Book ahead, it's a hot ticket!
Nightlife
Cheers, Queers!
The Arenas district is the gayborhood epicenter of all things Gay Palm Springs. Start at Blackbook where it’s easy to meet new friends sitting right at the bar. Then hop around to (it’s a short block) to check out other gay watering holes like Dick’s, Streetbar, Chill Bar, Hunters, Quadz, or the (semi-hidden) speakeasy-style Evening Citizen for more boozing and cruising. While you’re at it, check out retail stores like GayMart, Rough Trade Gear, Division Menswear, or Ball Beachwear for all of your poolside (and bedside) needs.
Truss & Twine: Specializing in era-themed classic cocktails, Truss & Twin is Workshop Kitchen’s chic cocktail bar, alongside a desert-inspired menu using ingredients from the Coachella Valley.
Canopy Wine Lounge: A swanky newcomer offering a world-class wine selection in a sophisticated setting. With a focus on providing a memorable experience, Canopy has already gained popularity for its swanky atmosphere and has become a stunning addition to Palm Springs' bar scene.
Tailor Shop: A "purveyor of fine spirits and bespoke traditions". They are Uptown Palm Springs' newest cocktail bar with a distinct speakeasy-style ambiance. Picture a dark, moody interior with velvet banquettes, leather chairs, and a wrap-around marble bar. It's the perfect cooldown for those hot desert evenings.
PS Air Bar: A fun Airline-themed speakeasy inside the Bouschet wine store, featuring cocktails, dinner, naughty flight attendants, and live entertainment on the weekends. There's no place else quite like this, and every seat is first class (literally). You know we love a good theme bar!
Purple Room: Honoring the Rat Pack era and the quintessential "Old Hollywood" Palm Springs experience – Michael Holmes’ Purple Room is the desert’s premier supper club and live performance space, featuring local and national jazz artists and the always popular, The Judy Show! – a parody of the great icons of the 60s. Grab a cocktail during happy hour and enjoy some (free) local music during the week.
Experiences to Remember
Entertainment Extravaganza
Drag Shows Galore: From the playful Mile High Boozy Brunch at PS Air Bar to Vanity's Doll Haus at One Eleven Bar in Cat City, Palm Springs offers an array of drag performances that promise fabulous fun. Here’s a complete list of drag shows from Gay Desert Guide for more drag show events. Shantay, you stay!
Sunday Funday: Embrace the local tradition with drag brunches, Palm Springs pool parties, and the legendary tea dance at Oscar's. After you’ve had enough disco, strap on some leather gear head on over to the Barracks for their popular Beer Bust.
Cultural Cachet
Mid-Century Modern Tours: Dive deep into the architectural wonders that define Palm Springs, with guided or self-led tours. Consider Palm Springs Mod Squad Tours or Mid-Century Modern Tours. If a self-guided tour is more your jam, you can caravan around some iconic Mid-century modern neighborhoods with The Palm Springs Guys MCM Architecture Self-Guided Tour Guide (Google Maps GPS-ready)! And the open houses here in Palm Springs on the weekends will have you feeling like you’re at Modernism Week!
Palm Springs Aerial Tramway: Escape the heat and explore the breathtaking views and cooler climates. The Tram climbs up two-and-a-half-miles of Chino Canyon cliffs to the top of Mt. San Jacinto State Park – an elevation of 8,516 feet and temperature drop of nearly 20 degrees. It’s the “world’s largest rotating tram car” and it features spectacular views of the panoramic valleys below. Enjoy a moderate hike through its 50+ miles of hiking trails and butterscotch-scented Jeffrey pines. Then grab a cocktail at the lodge and retire to the observation decks for happy hour before a nice dinner at Mountain Station’s Peaks Restaurant.
Palm Springs Art Museum: Get inspired by the Palm Springs Art Museum’s incredible 12,000 works collection of modern and contemporary art, architecture, and design. Just look for the 26-foot sculpture of Marilyn Monroe located directly in front of the Museum! Locals get in for free on Thursday evenings, so be sure to make a new local friend beforehand ;)
CLUB541: Yes, your sexual exploration also counts as cultural cachet! CLUB541 is Palm Springs newest sex club exclusively for men who want to explore the depths of their fantasies. It’s also walkable from the Tool Shed (Palm Springs exclusive leather bar) and several men-only hotels like Santiago.
Your Oasis Awaits
Palm Springs can be a life-changer when it comes to your happiness and well-being. Palm Springs' welcoming LGBTQ+ community, vibrant culture, and endless opportunities for leisure and exploration make it an unparalleled choice for those looking to live their best gay lives. Whether you're seeking a much-needed getaway, a second haven, or a new permanent place to call home, Palm Springs promises a lifestyle filled with joy, freedom, and fabulousness. In a world where you can be anything, Palm Springs invites you to be unabashedly you. So pack your bags (or don't, we won't judge), and dive into whatever adventure awaits you here.
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Ultimate Guide To A Modernist Getaway in Gay Palm Springs
Discover the allure of Gay Palm Springs with our ultimate guide to a modernist getaway! Dive deep into iconic architecture, shop at the chicest boutiques, and bask in year-round sun. Your fabulous desert adventure awaits.
Picture this: Endless sun, iconic architecture, and a cocktail in your perfectly manicured hand as you revel in the mid-century modern oasis that is Palm Springs. Modernism isn't just a design movement; it's a lifestyle, a mindset, a fabulous backdrop to our equally fabulous lives. From the groundbreaking architects who carved this desert dreamland to the proud LGBTQ+ community who call it home, there's truly no place quite like Gay Palm Springs.
Frey House II - Image provided by VisitPalmSprings.com
A Dash of History and a Splash of Style
Palm Springs' tryst with Modernism began in the 1920s, where the movement's characteristic clean lines and integration with nature became the canvas for celebrities and sun-seekers alike. Soon, world-renowned architects like Richard Neutra, John Lautner, and Albert Frey were busy crafting the city's iconic aesthetic. For the gay man with a penchant for architectural brilliance, Palm Springs beckons like a siren in the desert.
Palm Springs Visitor Center-Image provided by VisitPalmSprings.com
Your Ultimate Modernism Itinerary in Gay Palm Springs:
Take An Official Modernism Tour
If you have an insatiable craving for mid-century modern, quench your thirst with Mid-Century Modern Tours or Palm Springs Mod Squad tours. Check out Mid-Century Modern Tours and Palm Springs Mod Squad tours. Let the professionals guide you!
Go To Open Houses
Swing by open houses, especially on the weekends. Experience exterior and interior modernism firsthand. Check out Modern Living Palm Springs for open house listings. Think of it as a private modernism tour, sans the price tag!
Drive The Neighborhoods
Let your inner diva explore at her own pace with our own MCM Architecture Self-Guided Tour guide. It's Google Maps GPS-ready!
Go Shopping
For the modernism maven in all of us, here’s what Palm Springs boasts:
Destination PSP
Adore their MCM t-shirts and quirky tissue box covers!
Just Fabulous Palm Springs
A haven for modern lifestyle goodies.
The SHAG Store
Dive into the world of SHAG. Get that signed print, you deserve it!
H3K Home
Swoon over their sun-kissed Palm Strings Collection.
PS Homeboys
A marriage of Mid-Century and Modern in the heart of the Arenas District.
Antique Galleries of Palm Springs
Dive into a treasure trove of vintage.
Palm Springs Vintage Market
A mid-century & vintage enthusiast's dream!
Dive into Modernism Week
At Modernism Week's official website, you can find the skinny on Mini-Modernism Week in October, and the full-blown fabulousness of Modernism Week 2024 in February. Block your calendars, queens!
Gay Palm Springs isn't just a place—it's a vibe. Aside from its architectural allure, it boasts year-round sunshine, world-class events, and a cultural vibrancy that simply can't be beat. Whether you're soaking up rays by the pool or hitting the town, you'll find an eager community waiting with open arms. New friends? Check. Lasting memories and connections? Double check. Palm Springs is more than a vacation—it's an experience that keeps you coming back for more.