Is Mid-Century Modern on Hulu Just Gay Fiction? Here’s the Real Palm Springs Tea
Thinking about vacationing in Palm Springs? Hulu’s Mid-Century Modern is fueling the fantasy, but the real-life version is even better. Here’s what gay life in Palm Springs actually looks like — and why it should be your next getaway.
Let’s be real: Mid-Century Modern on Hulu is everything Gay Palm Springs. Iconic architecture. Sarcastic gay men in their prime. Poolside drama. Linda Lavin.
But the real gag? You don’t have to binge a sitcom pretending to live your best gay life when you can actually be here surrounded by palm trees, pool floats, and Palm Springs mid-century perfection.
Because here in Palm Springs, it’s not a fantasy. It’s the lifestyle!
Whether you’re visiting for the first time or you’ve been flirting with the idea of moving here permanently (you wouldn’t be the first!), let’s break down what this Hulu hit got right, what it got hilariously wrong, and why Palm Springs is still the desert capital that gay dreams are made of.
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In the meantime, here’s the real Palm Springs tea…
Mid-Century Modern: Glammed-Up Fiction or Desert Reality?
In Mid-Century Modern, three gay besties — Bunny, Jerry, and Arthur — move into a mid-century house in Palm Springs after a funeral and proceed to live together, surrounded by martinis, misadventures, and passive-aggressive zingers. Throw in Bunny’s live-in mother Sybil, and you've got a cross between Golden Girls and Will & Grace – but make it desert-chic.
Is this what life’s really like for gay men here in Palm Springs? Honestly? Kind of. But it’s also way better than you can imagine.
Yes, the Architecture Really Is That Sexy
Palm Springs is internationally known for its mid-century modern architecture. We’re talking:
Butterfly rooflines
Clerestory windows
Vintage breeze blocks
Pools that belong on a Slim Aarons postcard
Whether you’re strolling through Twin Palms, Vista Las Palmas, or Deepwell Estates, you’ll see homes that make you feel like you're in an Architectural Digest spread — except with fewer stylists and more shirtless men walking their dogs (aka their babies).
Want to geek out on architecture before you visit? Check out our Palm Springs Guys mid-century modern self-guided tour (Google Maps GPS-ready!) and discover the magic of Desert Modernism architecture for yourself.
Chosen Family Vibes? Very That.
The premise of friends becoming a chosen family? Not only realistic — it’s Palm Springs culture in a nutshell.
The community here is tight-knit, supportive, and refreshingly unbothered. Whether you’re single, partnered, throupled, or “it's complicated,” you’ll find your people here faster than you can say “poolside cocktail at 2.”
In fact, Palm Springs has the highest percentage of LGBTQ+ residents of any city in the U.S. That means the whole place is basically a gay friend group waiting to happen.
So… Should You Visit?
Uh, yes. Immediately. Especially now (considering the state our current government, if you can even call it governing). Palm Springs is like a double layer of protection for our beautiful, vibrant, and inclusive LGBTQ+ community and our allies here in Southern California. But I digress.
Mid-Century Modern may have put Palm Springs back on the map for Hulu-watching audiences, but the truth is — we’ve been living this dream in real time for years.
Here’s why gay men from across the country (and around the world) flock here year-round:
Weather That’s Practically a Drag Queen: Always Serving Looks
300+ days of sunshine
Stunning mountain views in every direction (in the desert? Yes)!
Pool season is… every season
Even our winters are giving “hot tub and rosé”
Culture & Events That Keep It Cute
Modernism Week is a dream for design lovers
Palm Springs Pride is one of the largest, most inclusive and joyful in the country
Drag brunches, cabaret nights, spa days, and shopping galore
Basically: There’s always something going on, and you’ll never feel out of place doing it
A Place Where You’ll Actually Make Friends
Whether it’s happy hours at Chill Bar, lounging at your boutique resort, or exchanging flirtatious smiles at the guy across the table at FARM — making new friends (and maybe more?) is the Palm Springs way.
You’ll meet locals. You’ll meet travelers. You might even meet someone who convinces you to come back... permanently. Don’t say we didn’t warn you.
Final Thoughts: Palm Springs Is the Gay Getaway You Deserve
If you’re looking for a place that combines stylish relaxation, a welcoming LGBTQ+ community, and enough retro-chic vibes to make your Hulu watchlist jealous, Palm Springs is it.
Come for the mid-century fantasy — stay for the sunshine, culture, and community that makes real life here even better than the show. Whether you're in your 20s or your golden years, Palm Springs is ready to show you a good time on repeat.
Which Mid-Century Modern character are YOU — Bunny, Jerry, Arthur, or Sybil? Have you been to Palm Springs before? What’s your favorite spot? Share your experiences!
If you’re curious to learn more about all the fun you can have here in Palm Springs and our beautiful Coachella Valley, check out some of our blog favorites, like Best Gay Nightlife in Palm Springs, The Best Sex Shops and Adult Play Gear for Gay Men in Palm Springs, and Escape to Bliss: Best Gay Men's Spas and Spa Resorts in Palm Springs.
Curious About Buying, Selling, or Relocating?
In addition to being one half of The Palm Springs Guys – Glen Nadeau is one of Palm Springs’ top-producing Realtors, known for his no-pressure approach, deep market expertise, and genuine commitment to his clients.
A member of The Caldwell & Linger Group – ranked a Top Real Estate Team by Palm Springs Life Magazine – Glen is also backed by COMPASS, which remains the #1 ranked brokerage in the country. Glen takes great pride in knowing that his clients are in such good hands.
“Hospitality is what drives me because helping folks achieve their real estate goals is essentially helping them build a better life for themselves.”
Visit Modern Living Palm Springs, or reach out to me directly. Ask me anything – I promise to give you much more support than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.
Your Palm Springs Insider,
Glen Nadeau (pronounced “Ned-oh” as in “meadow”)
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Palm Springs’ Resources for LA Fire Victims: A Safe Haven for the LGBTQ Community
Local assistance and resources in Palm Springs for those affected by the Los Angeles fires. We’re here to help victims find refuge and rebuild – especially members of the LGBTQ+ community seeking a supportive environment during this challenging time.
The devastating Los Angeles fires have forced many to flee their homes, leaving them in search of shelter, resources, and a supportive community. Palm Springs is opening its arms, offering a sanctuary for those affected. As a vibrant and inclusive city with a rich history of helping others in need, Palm Springs stands ready to provide assistance — especially for members of the LGBTQ+ community seeking a supportive environment during this challenging time.
This article compiles vital resources for fire victims, from emergency housing and pet care to healthcare and financial aid. Whether you’re seeking refuge or looking for ways to help, this guide is a comprehensive resource for navigating these challenging times.
If you have anything you’d like to contribute to this article, please email us and let us know!
Emergency Housing in Palm Springs
Hotels Offering Special Rates for Fire Victims
Palm Springs’ hospitality community is offering discounted accommodations to those displaced by the fires. Below are participating hotels:
The Saguaro Palm Springs: Promo Code: CALOCAL (760) 323-1711
Hilton Palm Springs: Promo Code: PFF (760) 320-6868
Rowan Palm Springs: (760) 904-5015
Avalon Hotel Palm Springs: (760) 318-3012
Ingleside Estate: (760) 325-0046
The Dunes Hotel: (760) 656-0021
Hotel Zoso: (760) 325-9676
Stardust Hotel: (760) 460-6845
La Serena Villas: (844) 932-8044
Amin Casa Historic Hotel and Gardens: (760) 507-1301
Inn at Palm Springs: (888) 788-8466
Los Arboles Hotel Palm Springs: (760) 459-3605
The Royal Sun Palm Springs: (760) 794-7991
The Muse Hotel: (760) 537-6411
For additional accommodation options across the Coachella Valley, visit Greater Palm Springs LA Fire Relief Offers.
Pet Care for Evacuees
Palm Springs Animal Shelter
If you’ve evacuated with pets, Palm Springs Animal Shelter provides essential supplies like pet food, leashes, crates, and more. Visit during open hours for assistance.
Address: 4575 Mesquite Ave., Palm Springs, CA 92264
Phone: (760) 416-5718
Website: psanimalshelter.org
Healthcare and LGBTQ+ Support Services
The LGBTQ Center of the Desert
Providing a safe and welcoming environment, the LGBTQ Center offers counseling, support groups, and other resources tailored to the LGBTQ+ community.
Website: thecentercv.org
Desert Care Network – LGBTQ Support Services
Offering inclusive healthcare services to meet the unique needs of the LGBTQ+ community in Greater Palm Springs.
Website: desertcarenetwork.com
Gay Desert Guide
This comprehensive directory lists LGBTQ-owned and friendly businesses across the Coachella Valley.
Website: gaydesertguide.com
Financial Assistance and Donations
FEMA Assistance
Federal assistance is available for fire victims. Apply directly through FEMA.
Application Link: fema.gov
California Fire Foundation
Donations to the Wildfire and Disaster Relief Fund directly support victims.
Donate: California Fire Foundation
GoFundMe Wildfire Relief Hub
Browse verified fundraising pages for wildfire victims and donate directly.
Website: GoFundMe Wildfire Relief
Direct Relief
This California-based organization provides medical supplies and N95 masks to affected residents.
Salvation Army – Southern California Division
Providing shelter, food, and personal necessities for fire victims.
Community Contributions: How You Can Help
If you’re looking to support fire victims, here are several ways to contribute:
Volunteer or Donate to the American Red Cross
Foster animals through Pasadena Humane (Sign up here)
Participate in local donation drives and fundraisers (LA Times Full List)
Navigating the Road to Recovery
Action Plans for Fire Victims
Donna Granata, a fire survivor, shared a helpful Facebook post outlining essential steps for victims:
View Post: Donna Granata Facebook Post
Wildfire Resources Spreadsheet
An extensive list of resources compiled by the Rose Gallery/Malan team:
Access Here: Wildfire Resources Spreadsheet
Palm Springs Safe Haven
In times of tragedy, Palm Springs is a safe haven of compassion and support. Whether you’re seeking temporary shelter, pet care, healthcare, or simply a warm community, Palm Springs is here to welcome you with open arms. The Palm Springs Guys are here to connect you with the resources you need to feel safe, supported, and at home.
You have friends in Palm Springs!
How Palm Springs Became the Safest LGBTQ+ Place in America
Discover why LGBTQ+ Americans are flocking to Palm Springs – a vibrant oasis where safety, inclusivity, and community meet. Explore the city’s rich LGBTQ+ culture, supportive infrastructure, and investment opportunities from our local gay perspective.
When the world feels more like a bad sequel than a hopeful reboot, LGBTQ+ Americans are doing what they do best – securing their promising futures. Enter Palm Springs, California, a city so welcoming it will greet you with a Pride flag and a martini as soon as you arrive. This desert oasis has become our fulltime home – and it’s the place to be right now for those looking to combine safety, community, and endless sunshine.
Here’s why gay men and the broader LGBTQ+ community are packing their bags for Palm Springs faster than they can say, “Get me the F**K out of here!”
A Safe Haven in Tumultuous Times
It’s no secret that political turbulence has left many LGBTQ+ individuals questioning their safety. With threats like Project 2025 looming and human rights hanging in the balance, finding a sanctuary isn’t just a luxury – it’s a necessity.
Palm Springs shines as a beacon of hope now more than ever. Nearly 40% of the city’s population identifies as LGBTQ+, making it truly one of the most inclusive places in America. Here, you’re not just tolerated – you are embraced and celebrated.
A City That Says ‘No’ to Hate (and Yes to Drag!)
While many places in the U.S. are entangled in debates over LGBTQ+ rights, Palm Springs is busy doubling down on inclusivity. Case in point? The City of Palm Springs recently declared itself a sanctuary for drag performers – a bold move that screams in response to drag bans as, “Not here, not ever.”
Between local government and police force, our city's local leadership is unapologetically progressive, prioritizing policies that protect residents and foster a sense of belonging.
The Heart of LGBTQ+ History and Culture
Palm Springs is steeped in LGBTQ+ history that’s as rich as its present culture. From historical landmarks to art galleries and museums, the city celebrates its roots in ways that keep the spirit of resilience alive.
Even events like Palm Springs Pride festival and the legendary White Party take things up a notch, blending activism and celebration seamlessly. Living here is safe and downright joyful. And in case you’re wondering, yes, you can wear your short shorts at the grocery store.
Supportive Infrastructure Tailored to You
Safety is about acceptance and resources. Palm Springs delivers with a slew of LGBTQ+ organizations like The LGBTQ Center of the Desert, offering everything from mental health services to social engagement opportunities. Whether you’re seeking a sense of community or just someone to rave about the new season of Drag Race with, you’ll find it here.
Plus, local businesses go the extra mile to ensure inclusivity, from healthcare providers like DAP Health who understand your needs to boutique hotels that cater to your lifestyle.
Investing in Your Future: The Real Estate Advantage
Now, let’s talk dollars and cents – because safety and inclusivity aside, Palm Springs is a smart financial move too. Real estate in inclusive cities is in demand, and Palm Springs is no exception. Buying property here is both an investment in your peace of mind and in your future.
From mid-century modern masterpieces to cozy desert retreats, the city’s housing market offers something for every taste. And let’s be real – your Zoom meetings will hit differently working remotely from somewhere you love (and with a palm tree backdrop).
Make the Move, Gurrrlll
If you’re curious to learn more about our vibrant LGBTQ+ community here in Palm Springs, check out our other articles 10 Welcoming Neighborhoods: Why Palm Springs Should Be Your Next Home and Palm Springs LGBTQ+ Community: What You Need To Know.
Palm Springs is a place where you can be yourself unapologetically, surrounded by a community that lifts you up and celebrates your journey. Whether you’re looking for safety, connection, or the perfect spot for a pool party – Palm Springs has it all. Your best gay life awaits you here…
What other questions do you have?
Consider an experienced and knowledgeable local realtor (like me) to help you make sense of things.
If you’re ready to buy and/or sell yourself, I look forward to assisting you. I promise to give you a much more targeted answer than ChatGPT, Google or the news will.
Please feel free to give me a call, text, email me – or let’s schedule a Zoom meeting.
I’m looking forward to connecting with you!
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